Before I told her how I felt she said she might get another job. I told her don't quit and she stayed. The reason why she was going to quit, because one of the female managers called her a whore. I told her well she's just mean don't listen to her. And she stayed. A month later she told me at school she might quit her job again cause the gay manager was being rude to her which sometimes he is. I told her that I would talk to him about it and I said don't quit. So she stayed.
We were coworkers and I gave her a nice compliment saying I enjoy being around her. She said "that's so sweet." So as I left she went and asked one of my coworker friends if I had a cursh on her. My friend said yes. She said well I think he's cute. My friend told me she thinks i'm cute so I went and told her that I have a crush on her. She said "that's so sweet. She gave me a hug and after we hug I told her I would of told her sooner, but she you have a boyfriend. She didn't say anything about that really. So the next day she walks behind me and pats me on the head and saids hey. The employees say that she's a flirter. So I'm not sure if she's into me or she just likes the attention now that she knows that i'm into her. I gave her a crush note and she took it and read it in the bathroom. She showed all her coworker girlfriends the note and they started laughing at me. All the girls were smiling and looking at me funny. I asked one of the guys that works there why are they looking at me like that. He said becaus that girl you like showed all those girls the note u gave her. I see her 2 days later when I saw her she gave me a big smile. I was talking to one of the girls that works there and she walks towards me and saids "what you don't like me anymore" walks away from me and smiles back at me. Anyways couple days ago she quit her job because one of the girls are jealous of her and always being rude to her so she quit and now she works with her boyfriend. I thought she like me, but I guess not cause she didn't tell me she was going to quit. She just left. Her boyfriend does treat her like crap sometimes and he gets real jealous when someone looks at her, but all he does is put his arm around her. He makes her cry sometimes because he saids stupid stuff to her. My friend told me that he seen her with her friends and he said to her "you know my friend likes you know?" And she saids to him "I hate him" This was when she work where I work. My friend never told me this until now. My friend said she's stuck up. So I pretty much told her how I felt and she never told me how she felt about me. I told her friend that she has a bad mouth on her and she told her and I guess she got mad about that. She started not to have a foul mouth language when I was around and when she did cuss she said sorry. So I guess that's why she said she said she hates me I guess. So do you think she will come and see me if she wants to be with me or is she expecting me to go chase her if I really like her? I mean I already did my part. What do you think?
2007-01-21 06:47:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry for the long question
2007-01-21 06:47:56 · update #1
hon, you did your part don't stress anymore over this girl she may like you as a friend or just likes the attention.....or even a natural flirt, but she was disrespectful showing your note around if she showed maybe just a close friend it would be one thing but from what you are saying she showed it to everyone which is just wrong. Try to just move on and keep your eyes open for a girl that will really appreciate your caring and concern. Good luck!!!
2007-01-21 06:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by irish eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say that you are shy... so I am assuming this is part of the reason you do not speak directly to the girl(s) that you are interested in. Could part of that be also that you are afraid of them rejecting you? I really feel that a lot of your problem stems from listening to what other people tell you someone says instead of going directly to the source. People tend to mix things up when they relay things that they hear. Sometimes they even try to sugar coat some ones words to soften the blow. It also sounds like the girl was "playing" with you. It is NOT ever wise to get involved with someone who is already taken. It creates mixed emotions on bothy sides. AND as a common courtesy would you want some one getting involved in a relationship of yours? OF course not!!! I have a question for you? How can you REALLY know that you are interested in someone when you don't even know them? Just because they "look" good? Not a good reason to start a relationship. Find yourself a NICE girl and get to be "Friends" with her. Once you are friends it makes it a LOT easier to talk to someone. Talk directly to her. Don't have someone else relay messages. You can do it! Be strong!!!
2016-03-29 07:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think you did your part. She treated you kind of badly if I read right, and after you treated her so nicely, you shouldn't chase her. She sounds like a flirter. It is evident that you care about her, but you can't stop her from making her choices. If she wants to be with somebody who treats her wrong, then well you can't do anything about that. What you can do is just smile at her when you see her. Don't write her anymore love notes. Just smile and keep on going.
2007-01-21 06:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by ReRe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about the length of the explanation to the question, be concerned about YOUR feelings. Do you REALLY feel something for this girl? Back up please and look at it...she's playing you for an idiot. She wants to flirt with you, tell you all her work problems although you no longer work there, and I think she'll try to use you if anything goes wrong in her relationship with her new bf. I'm not trying to tell you how to run your life--I only run my own. If Cupid can still have arrows flying for her after all she's put you through, you /he have his arrow in a body part not the bow. Get my point?
2007-01-21 07:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want to be fought for...if I were you I would try to talk to her and stop talking to everyone else. Go up to her with your head up and say "Do you like me?" if she says no then walk away like it never happened, if she says yes, ask her to give you a kiss on the cheek(don't bring anyone with and don't do it when anyone is with her) if she says you did it and you get in trouble by the BF, just tell him you didn't do it, she will have no proof. Then you can quite chasing and let her do the chasing. Be brave young man, be brave! Every woman wants a man with balls!! Good Luck!!
2007-01-29 06:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly you need to forget her. To start off she has a boyfriend and is working with him. I mean if you say shes having problems with all these people at work its for a reason. Doesn't that tell you something? Maybe some attitude problem..The fact that she showed the note that you did to her with much thought isn't right, its like saying look at this guy who's so into me and I am not one bit interested. You keep these things to yourself. I mean, say you go out with her is she gonna be saying all the things you both do to everyone?Think about it. If she wants to be with a guy who doesn't treat her right that her own fault, it isn't your fault she doesn't want to be with someone who will treat her like a real women. Don´t worry about it, just like there are girls like her, there are also girls waiting for a guy like you to make them happy..Good luck!
2007-01-21 07:03:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say leave her alone and let her do the chasing if she wants you. she'll come to you if she truly does like you. it sounds like she's in a big mess right now. give her time to get through everything and realize what she really wants. i would try to find someone else if i was you and not wait around on her.
2007-01-21 06:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is just not that into you. If her boyfriend is a jerk to her she was probably enjoying your attention and liked knowing that someone liked her. She sounds like too much drama though. You sound like a sweet guy, and you deserve to have someone who does not play games and act like her. You will find happiness, but it does not sound like from her. Good luck to you, sorry she wasted your affection. :(
2007-01-21 06:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she knows how you feel and she doesnt seem to care.i feel you could be better without her.she loves the attention but seems not to care about your feelings.
2007-01-21 06:54:29 · answer #9 · answered by masayeb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you know your friend wel enough,youd know if hes lying about her being stuck up....just forget about her!!
2007-01-21 06:54:55 · answer #10 · answered by softball~ chic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋