there's my ex... she left me for another person at the beginning of december.... she and i weren't really hanging out as much as we used to(even when we were just friends). She told me that over winter break.... her and "him" broke up on AIM... I asked her if she was alright.... she said yes... and she said that something was bothering her... she went on and on trying to cover what finally came out... she said that she regreted ever breaking up with me.... i asked her if she's saying that she wanted 2 get back 2geather.... she said that she is trying to say that but she wants to just "chill for awhile" and said sorry if that's not what you wanted to hear.... IS SHE TELLING ME THAT SHE WANTS TO GET BACK TOGEATHER OR NOT?!?! i'm so confused... she said that she wants to talk.... and i said how about we talk this week and take it from there.... and she said that she'd like that.... i really LOVE her.... to the point where i would give everything/the shirt on my back to be with her 4ever.
2007-01-21 06:48:28 · 8 answers · asked by the sign 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well she might get back with you but you gotta give her a little more time if i was you i would tell her how i feel and then she will understand ask her if she still loves you and see wat she says it would help alot for you and her. ;)
2007-01-21 06:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by suga bear 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw, well first off, she REGRETS breaking up with you. But right now, she just got out of a relationship and so getting back together with you immediately would be more of a rebound, which is not good. She needs time to sort things out and think, and it would not be fair to you if she went straight back to you after things with the guy she was with after you just went sour. Become friends again, hang out more, spend more time together talking and then see where things go from there. But she still has feelings obviously since she regrets breaking up with you.
I wish y 'all the best and good luck and God bless! :)
2007-01-21 06:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear this as you must be feeling really sad at the moment. I am also sorry that it doesn't sound as if she respects you very much. She went out with someone else, then wants you to hang around for her while she gets her head together. This sounds like the work of a very selfish person, who does not care for you much. If she wanted to be with you, she would not have split up with you in the first place and she is making you "second best".
Get yourself out and doing other things to take your mind off her. It will be hard but don't let her make you at her beck and call. it is not nice.
2007-01-21 06:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by the_emrod 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's still confused, which is why she left you in the first place. if you still love her........I give you 2 advice.....walk away why you still have your dignity and you can walk away head up high. OR give it all you can and try to make it work, but if you decide this, you have to keep in mind that you might end up hurt because she might "want to chill for a while"
Good Luck
2007-01-21 06:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by ?Jaileen? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do really love her, give her some space and let her work out her confusion. It sounds like she does have feelings for you but don't try and force her into anything she's not ready for right now. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-21 06:52:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is keeping you on a leash. She does not want you seeing others but she is still looking. she is keeping you at arms distance so she wont feel guilty if she finds somebody else. Talk to he and see where her head is at. Dont make your self so available. Remember human nature. "YOU ALWAYS WANT WHAT YOU CANT HAVE"
2007-01-21 06:55:59 · answer #6 · answered by Mark T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
argh.
i'm sorry, i'll say it.
guys can be pretty dull!!!
SHE LOVES YOU!
She just needs some single time.
She needs a breather from relationships,
then she'll date you
happily ever after, etc. =]
2007-01-21 06:51:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just chill and be her friend... it sounds like she needs one
2007-01-21 06:53:27 · answer #8 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋