Family & Relationships - 20 January 2007

not like personallity. apperance.

then write what kind of stereotype you fall into. =]


myspce me if u wanna chat. /loser718

2007-01-20 22:42:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I read that in a book I recently bought. It is a good book.

2007-01-20 22:41:28 · 21 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

every one wants a friend to look up too and who will be there fopr them through thick and thin, but some friends tun out to be some one completely different!!!

so i ask the question. What makes a true friend?

2007-01-20 22:40:37 · 25 answers · asked by Xing Xing 1 in Friends

i been single for quite a long time, and its been a long time that i need a gf. i tried so hard and things didnt go out. my friends says its all fated but i dont think fate have anything to do with anything. in my belief the future depends on what you do in the present. so where do i go wrong? or how do i start?

2007-01-20 22:40:20 · 5 answers · asked by Sir Lichenstein 2 in Singles & Dating

don`t know how to enter chat room`s yet.

2007-01-20 22:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by happy chappy 5 in Friends

I really like him and everytime i look at him now all i wanna do is kiss him. I think he likes me but i know he's not gonna make the first move, not yet anyway cos he has had some probs, a lot going on in his life at the mo, but i can't stop this urge to kiss him. How should i go about it, i don't want to just plant one on him cos that could just scare him off and i don't want that, but how can i build it up and make it special? Maybe even kinda accidental on purpose!! We work together, only a couple of hours in the evening but i don't want it to make things awkward there. I'm 27 and not had a lot of experience on making first moves!! Please help!!

2007-01-20 22:37:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex wife recently came back from another state and we got back together. we married again she left her kids in that state cause they did'nt want to come back here. they are my step children and they are lazy and dont want to do anything or work they both dropped out of school and come between me and my wife. they wanted to stay there so they got a place to live and i payed the deposits for the utilitys now they never payed rent and got kicked out. they both quit a mcdonalds job and now they keep calling my wife wanting to come back here with us. i know my wife wants them here but i had too much trouble with them before she babies them they are 17 and 19 yrs old i see if they come here we will be apart again! they say they will change and get jobs and follow rules but they said this soo many times and they never did they sleep all day and stay up all night all they want to do is play vedio games and look up porn on the computer! what to do?

2007-01-20 22:36:59 · 4 answers · asked by allan l 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know the lips get stretched out, but do they ever go back to normal? Just wondering.

2007-01-20 22:36:10 · 11 answers · asked by chizzle_30 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi

I sleept with a ex friends boyfriend and then he got locked up he says that he loves me and he wants me when he gets out of jail and that he is going to leave her but i dont know what to do i feel the same but dont know if he is telling the truth

Please Help

2007-01-20 22:34:56 · 10 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

This is my 2nd Long Distance Relationship I'll abbrev. it as (LDR) anyway, I've done this before and it worked, however the moment I don't call him back right away he thinks I'm on a date or he'll say something like, "ok you had enough time to think up a good lie", when I'm not; I could say alot about him because he's a trucker and he could have a woman in every city he stops in and never tell me; but I'm honestly not doing anything he just thinks I am because there is a day or two gap in our communication or I just don't call ; I would appreciate it if he would not make acusations towards me; the couple of days he had not heard from me I've been sick as well as up with my 6mth old baby who has been sick too.. help any suggestions out there ...I know his heart wants me but he needs to quit feeling the way he does...how can I make him trust me?

2007-01-20 22:34:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've got 2 beautiful little girls (aged 2 and 1) and i've just found out that i'm pregnanat again.
my husband and everyone thinks it will be far too much to handle as it is hard enough with the2 we have now.
i really dont know what to do. i mean i would crack up whether i carry or not but i know i could never get over it.
i just dont know what to do and i keep crying all the time because i know notto carry would probably be best.
i have tosay 'not to carry' because i cant say the other

2007-01-20 22:34:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Mine, when he leaves a message on the phone, he talks , then he looks at the phone, thennnnn, he hangs it up !WEIRD!!!!

2007-01-20 22:33:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Does any other girl have big lips down there than kinda hang down? im a virgin and am really worried that they will put a guy off, are they like this because i masturbate a lot? i've pulled on them and rub them a lot could this cause this to happen? its not just like they stick out a little they hang down about 3cm.

2007-01-20 22:29:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my roommate in the dorms last semester was nice to my face for the first month and then tured in to a b-itch.....she would bring a different guy home everynight and would have sex with him while i was in the room....stole 400 dollars from me.... cleaned our hampsters cage(which she killed)with my tooth brush.... and would physically push me out of my room to get with a guy.....should i get revenge or let karma deal with her?? if revenge....any ideas?

2007-01-20 22:29:11 · 4 answers · asked by dana <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Yeah - okay - I'm male and therefore very visual.

I do enjoy pornography but I have to say that 'plastic' breasts do as much for me as staring at 2 ornaments on a fireplace. Either in picture form. in movies or through the 'good fortune' of experience!

So, for me, the more moveable kind - irrespective of size - are my preferred!

How about yerself?

2007-01-20 22:29:01 · 30 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a serious relationship for 2yrs now everything was going good . I was deployed to iraq..10months into the deployment this person all of sudden needs time. I figured 10 months away would be enough time? There has also been alot of changes in this person as well..I don't know what all this means. They have already moved all my stuff into storage..? what could be possibly going on..i'm also doing everything in my will to fight for this relationship of 2yrs but i keep getting denied the oppurtuinity or chance????

2007-01-20 22:27:20 · 4 answers · asked by escape4utopia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend. He has done so much for me. For nine years. Though he never answers my call or messages as he has no credit. I tried calling him a week ago to ask if he wanted to go to the movies. He didn't answer. So i messaged him. He never called me back from his home phone or anything. So i took it thta he is sussed out that i asked him to the movies, thinkin i lyk him more than a friend and stuff. So i decided to message him that i asked my best friend emma to go coz i didn't know if he wanted to and it was saturday (a day b4 the planned day for the movies). I sent nother message sayin, I'm having some friends over next sat 2 *** swimming in my pool, and was wonderin if he wanted 2 come. I haven't heard from him. I told him to call me, and there were other guys going 2, so it wasnt lyk It was a me and him thing, nothin 2 b embarresed bout. Do I call him agen? Or do I leave him alone and let him call me, acting lyk I dont care? Or Do i get close to other guys makin him jealous

2007-01-20 22:23:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a promlem with mhy wife she has cheated and lied ann so much more I hate her but I love her am i crazy... ? what's up with me .. ok ;please only serious answers. and ony someone over 35 I am hurting so bad..

2007-01-20 22:22:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She broke off with her BF 6 mth back.

That was the time i get to know her from my former crush. She was devastated then. I promise my ex crush i will make her stand up and move on. Finally or rather apparently she move on.
I wake her up everyday for work.

Then i realise i fell in love with her.

I ask her if i go after her do i stand a chance.

Her reply: She is happy the way she is now and Tentatively dont wish to have any changes. For future she dont not know.

I ask her whether is it a TOTAL rejection.

Her reply: I told u already. Now i dont wanna commit anything.. Future i wont know. :) (Text msg)

I don't know if she still brood over the past. Maybe she really got hurt. Rather she dont have any confidence on herself.

Do i stand a chance for THE FUTRE or m i being rejected?
She still talk to me and text with me..even i after pop up this question

2007-01-20 22:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Singles & Dating

I been with my ex for 3 years and we have 2 kids and I was her for love. I even was the first guy she had sex with and the only guy she had kids with. We had our ups and to many downs. I even hit her before in front of people. but we will break up then go back together. but now we was only broke up a week and a half and she said she was talking to someone she said was nice to her. but me and her got back together and I asked her did she have sex with him and she said YES. then I told her I dont want to go with her any more because the hole time I was trying to get back with her do to the fact we have 2 kids together she was sleeping with him. Do you thing I should let her go? Or do you think she will come back if she still love me and do to the fact we have 2 kids and I am her first real LOVE.

2007-01-20 22:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Jack L 1 in Singles & Dating

Personally I'd choose legs any time of the day. Legs that are well defined and have some muscular tone.

Strange though - how a woman's definition of a great pair of legs is so different from mine. Skinny legs - to me - are such a turn-off!

(Am I alone in thinkin' this?!?)

2007-01-20 22:20:13 · 25 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

He is not my boyfriend. I kinda have feelings for him too, but dont want to go to bed with him. How can I refuse him without breaking his heart?

PLEASE HELP!

2007-01-20 22:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by sj 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-20 22:18:53 · 10 answers · asked by Barbi 2 in Friends

A male work mate as told me they've abused their x girlfriend by demanding sex & when refused forced her to show parts of her anatomy. this situation is very simlar to me as when i was a child i was sexually abused in this way. i dont want to communicate with this person any longer because of this. I've ignored text & emails & phone calls, however he is very demanding & intence. He even contacts other people to contact me when i ignor him.
i want him out of my life, but dont wish to discuss why as its personal. what should i do ????im beginning to look like the bad guy !!

2007-01-20 22:18:41 · 3 answers · asked by confusded 1 in Friends

Tonight I went on to my space for the first time since I created my account, im not sure how but some how I gained access to my boyfriends account insted of mine ( which I didnt know he had), being the nossy person I am I looked around on his site and noticed he had been talking to this one girl, and I got mad. Instead of telling him the truth I lied about how I got into his account ( i truely am not sure how that did happen)because privacy is a big issue to him, i knew he would be mad. Now he doesnt trust me, and will not talk to me, and he wont tell me he loves me either. He is very up set with me, and I think he is going to break up with me today when he gets home. I love my Man dearly, and I never will invade his privacy again, I also will never lie to him again even the little white ones, there not so little, and they can hurt just as bad as the big ones. Please guys , and girls give me some tips on trying to fix things with the man I love., Ive said Im sorry a couple dozen times

2007-01-20 22:18:30 · 8 answers · asked by brandy 2 in Singles & Dating

he shacks up with another woman, does it really make him happy? Do men really enjoy having sex with that woman after a long previous marriage?

2007-01-20 22:14:09 · 7 answers · asked by BFCP 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-20 22:12:36 · 16 answers · asked by michelle 1 in Singles & Dating

my lover is mixed raced and im black and he says that he doesnt fancy girls that are really dark skin. i consider myself dark skin but he is convinced im brown skin i asked him if i was two shades darker would he still find me attractive and he replyed "well, the colour helps" i found this quite offensive. he also states that he doesnt like white girls and the closest to white he would go with is mediteranian because they are more tanned but never english girls. does anyone else not find his views racially offensive or is it a matter of preference?

2007-01-20 22:10:54 · 34 answers · asked by missy 2 in Singles & Dating

Early last week I posted a question begging advice about how to let up on my 12 yr old & just let him be a kid. I had many great responses. And Friday afternoon I was tested on how well I listened.His friend of 5 years called to ask his to his B-Day Party & sleepover. I thought of everyones advice & said yes. Saturday I called about pickin him up & he begged to stay 1 more night......I wanted to say noooo I wanted my baby home..but he had stayed 1 night & wasnt raped, beaten, corrupted or murdered..lol...so I said ok. He was so happy and I felt a bit proud of myself for cutting the apron strings. PPL who know me were SHOCKED when they learned I let him spend the WEEKEND away. But I do know & trust this friends mother...she is a single parent trying to raise a good boy.
So what do you think guys & gals who advised me?
How did I do ? can I get a yay candy thumbs up??
Thank You all again your advice gave me & my son a whole new relationship to build on.Plus the ME time was GOOD!

2007-01-20 22:07:31 · 8 answers · asked by earthangel_candy 4 in Family

Very shortly i am a businesswomen and my hubby is a prominnet person in the market too, for the ast 2 years i have involved myself with my ex staff hubby which we were actually family close friends. it has continued for the past 2 years the other wife know abt it and had quarrelled with me many times to stop it, i have cheated on her many times and deep down i feel bad abt it. i have even confessed this to the church father and i feel i have special feeling for this man and i know i cant's continue as my hubby as came to know abt it. now we are having prob as my hubby used vulgarity and sometimes abuses me. but my hubby wants me its just that he could not take how could this man do this to him as we were close family friends. now i do not wish to continue with my hubby and wants to divouce him but not in the intention to be with my friends hubby, but everyone are saying i am leaving my hubby to be with that man, pls advise as i am confusd.

2007-01-20 22:07:20 · 14 answers · asked by susan r 2 in Marriage & Divorce