I have a guy friend. He has done so much for me. For nine years. Though he never answers my call or messages as he has no credit. I tried calling him a week ago to ask if he wanted to go to the movies. He didn't answer. So i messaged him. He never called me back from his home phone or anything. So i took it thta he is sussed out that i asked him to the movies, thinkin i lyk him more than a friend and stuff. So i decided to message him that i asked my best friend emma to go coz i didn't know if he wanted to and it was saturday (a day b4 the planned day for the movies). I sent nother message sayin, I'm having some friends over next sat 2 *** swimming in my pool, and was wonderin if he wanted 2 come. I haven't heard from him. I told him to call me, and there were other guys going 2, so it wasnt lyk It was a me and him thing, nothin 2 b embarresed bout. Do I call him agen? Or do I leave him alone and let him call me, acting lyk I dont care? Or Do i get close to other guys makin him jealous
2007-01-20 22:23:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try calling him its the easiest and most upfront way. He may have a lot going on in his life right now he doesnt sound like someone that would just go cold on you. Talk about your relationship with him, he is more than likely feeling the same. The worst thing you can do is flaunt other guys infront of him or anything else to make him jealous. If he the good friend that you say he is, he deserves to be treated with respect and honesty as he has done with you. Best wishes
2007-01-20 22:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Spastikus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is not a dating situation, go ahead and confront him. I bet he doesn't know you were texting him or he was busy. Go ahead and ask him if got your messages. If he says yes, ask him why he didn't respond and see what happens. I think you are pinning too much on a one-sided crush you seem to have on him but I've been wrong before.
Good thing you know how to have fun. That may be intimidating for him or maybe he doesn't like your friends (guys). You should ask him.
2007-01-21 06:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by lala60610 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever do things to make people jealous it sends out bad messages and if you get in a relationship he may have trust issues with you about whether youd be flirty with other guys while in a relationship with him, why not just go over and see him hes evidently not going to call you back
2007-01-21 06:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think u should call again. maybe he just needs to get away from you. maybe he hates your guts. maybe he's busy. whatever it is, give him some time. and if he still doesn't call. forget it. no guy is worth chasing forever. just think of it as he missed out on something really good.
anyway dont bug him too much he might get more distant that way. guys r sorta like that i guess. the more u wanna talk to them, the more they run away. so lay off. cool it. and he might ease in.
2007-01-21 06:34:14 · answer #4 · answered by het.mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, after nine years, you ought to be able to know him well. Why not break the question to him in person? You can't be afraid that he'll leave after all this time.
2007-01-21 06:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by Benvenuto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AHH!
like exactly the same thing is happening to me atm.
Ive decided to completly ignore him and since then has come crawling.
It worked heaps good!
2007-01-21 06:36:26 · answer #6 · answered by bec.k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't. These jerks do it on purpose. He's not returning you call, just ignore him. He'll call once you make him feel like he does not matter.
2007-01-21 06:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by enjoy life, u only get one try. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to meet him face to face and ask him if he still likes you. invite him to go out with you when you see him. don't press it too hard because it may turn him off.
2007-01-21 06:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by luckystrike_x007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its rude of him just leave it and wen u see him out ask him jwhats going on and tell him why u send him those messages
2007-01-21 06:29:34 · answer #9 · answered by nicola f 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have fun, and wait till he calls..you called enough ma.
2007-01-21 06:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by karry l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋