Tonight I went on to my space for the first time since I created my account, im not sure how but some how I gained access to my boyfriends account insted of mine ( which I didnt know he had), being the nossy person I am I looked around on his site and noticed he had been talking to this one girl, and I got mad. Instead of telling him the truth I lied about how I got into his account ( i truely am not sure how that did happen)because privacy is a big issue to him, i knew he would be mad. Now he doesnt trust me, and will not talk to me, and he wont tell me he loves me either. He is very up set with me, and I think he is going to break up with me today when he gets home. I love my Man dearly, and I never will invade his privacy again, I also will never lie to him again even the little white ones, there not so little, and they can hurt just as bad as the big ones. Please guys , and girls give me some tips on trying to fix things with the man I love., Ive said Im sorry a couple dozen times
2007-01-20 22:18:30 · 8 answers · asked by brandy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you got into his account because he messed up and forgot to erased the login password in the content section. He had not broken up with you even though he had his cyber friend for 1 reason. he still loves you. she is a passing thing to him. He might come home to break up with you cause he feels he has gotton caught.. When he mentions it to you, sit him down, and cry and tell him you love him, and that you have told him sorry, and that you are sorry for seeing it, cause it has broken your heart and that you love him and do not understand why he did this, and that you will want something from him instead of breakin up with you. tell him, he must end it with her. if he places a guilt trip, tell him, bye and walk away, it is better to find out now then to be pregant and have to divorce him when you get married. i am sure he does not love this woman he met on the cyber because if he did he would have broke up with you a long time ago to be with her. and sure you invaded his privacy, but his wrong does not cover by your wrong..tell him you just turned on the pc, and that page just popped up and that it was his fault in the first place and to stop hurting you..
2007-01-20 22:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by bankone1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say first that love is where you give a chance for someone to ruin your life. You give them a chance to break you down from the inside out. Its where they no every thing about you. All the good and bad things they have done. If he has problums trusting you they maybe he does not really love you. He is not worth it, he might be an amazing person but some of the most amazing people are liars and jerks. Its really up to you what you do now, but I think most of the people here would say its not worth it. Tell me if that helps :)
2007-01-23 06:51:12 · answer #2 · answered by Alejo z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, obviously he has been not totally truthful with you either, why would he be chatting to another girl and wanting to keep it such a secret. If it was all totally innocent he would have mentioned it to you. I would not be grovelling or apologising to him. You made an innocent mistake, it wasn't like you were trying to sneak around and get into his private things but accidentally found out that he was talking to another girl. If he can't explain to you his relationship with this girl and why he had kept it a secret I would be wondering what else he is up to. Please don't feel guilty and feel you are in the wrong.
2007-01-20 22:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Topsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too quick to say sorry..he might be the one who needs to apologize. If anything let him know you were at fault for being nosy and snooping around, but you only do that because you care, and you love him.
2007-01-20 22:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by karry l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is privacy such a big issue with him?
Anyway, I think that maybe once he's calmed down, he will realise that he loves you.
In the meantime, maybe you could stay out of his way for a while, go see your folks, and avoid any form of confrontation with him.
2007-01-20 22:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by shoby_shoby2003 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why are you lacking so much respect for yourself rather?
get rid of him.
2007-01-20 22:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You cant.
2007-01-20 22:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by chizzle_30 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
bj and all is forgiven...
2007-01-20 22:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by ★Greed★ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋