Hi
I sleept with a ex friends boyfriend and then he got locked up he says that he loves me and he wants me when he gets out of jail and that he is going to leave her but i dont know what to do i feel the same but dont know if he is telling the truth
Please Help
2007-01-20 22:34:56 · 10 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He says that he wont cheat on me and i beleive if you really love someone you cant cheat and he says he is going to stay out of jail and clean
2007-01-20 22:41:00 · update #1
just know what comes around goes around... if u sleep with a taken man, a man will cheat on u...
u should go about ur life only talking to him on a casual basis... if and when he comes out... and he proves to u that he seriously only wants to be with u then u can think about whether or not u want to give him a chance... no point in tying ur self down for a man in jail... unless u were solely his to begin with...
but do u really want a guy that has been in jail... i mean what type of guy is he does he even have any plans for his future to not end up a bum.... think about that also
2007-01-20 22:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by red.one9luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, I have to wonder what you're finding so appealing about a guy that is now in jail and you can't seem to trust?
I realize we all have our things. I once dated a guy that had an OWI and he went a year without a license, 12 days in jail, etc.
But do you really feel like this is the one? Someone that you're waiting to get out of jail to find out if they really love you? You seem to not be able to trust him so far, what's going to change it when he gets out? He hasn't even left her yet either? I gotta tell ya, he doesn't sound like the best pick out there. That's not somebody I'd like to bring home to meet my family. You deserve alot better.
2007-01-21 06:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noooooo. Run run run. I don't care if he is your ex friend's man. He is a cheat. He is also in jail. Do you really want to be hooked up with someone like this?
2007-01-21 06:38:40 · answer #3 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is lying. He is a cheater, isn't he? Do you expect the truth out of a low-life like that?
And I am assuming he is in jail for a reason?
2007-01-21 06:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be silly. If he screwed around on her with you, he'll screw around on you too. He's saying what he thinks he needs to say now to make sure he has a booty to go to when he gets outta jail. Bad choices result in bad consequences. Think next time.
2007-01-21 06:39:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you stay with this man you have NO self-respect. I can't even believe you're seriously asking this question. U could do sooooo much better because anybody could do better.
2007-01-21 06:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that! The truth is they never leave the one they're with......
It's just nice to think he would.
2007-01-21 06:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by bynni_c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to be wif you. he wud have left her a long time ago. trust me. cannot trust a guy like him.
2007-01-21 07:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by watevergal20s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wrong wrong wrong, find someone new
2007-01-21 06:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad idea....
2007-01-21 06:42:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋