Does any other girl have big lips down there than kinda hang down? im a virgin and am really worried that they will put a guy off, are they like this because i masturbate a lot? i've pulled on them and rub them a lot could this cause this to happen? its not just like they stick out a little they hang down about 3cm.
2007-01-20 22:29:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Kelly B will you please email me emmayesthomson@yahoo.co.uk If you're the same as me I kinda would like to ask you other things?
2007-01-20 22:36:30 · update #1
Marry me!
Seriously - having a great pair of lips down there is the most attractive thing in the world. And it's not because you masturbate a lot.
There is NO WAY a guy will be put off. NO WAY!!!
2007-01-20 22:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
we're all different shapes and sizes, different breast shapes, different nose types, so your labia are obviously going to be different. I know it is easy to say but I really wouldn't worry as they sound perfectly normal. Guys are not put off - just as some are turned on by big breasts and other aren't I think you are unlikely to find someone who is turned off. In fact, you might find that guys find your labia very attractive.
I don't think that masturbation has changed anything at all. If you pull and rub on your ears will they grow bigger? No! So nothing has changed in your case.
Don't worry about it - we're all shapes and sizes in all parts of our body. Guys like all different sorts of things that we girls worry about. I wouldn't give it a moment's thought.
2007-01-20 22:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's just natural variation, just like the variation in willies! Relax, hopefully you should be with a caring man who'll take the time to explore you (and not be pawed at!).
I've seen TV programmes called 'Designer Vaginas' where loose skin is cut back, it's sad really when Third world countries are crying out for basic medical equipment, that surgeon are trimming back skin for cosmetic purposes :-(
2007-01-20 22:37:50 · answer #3 · answered by barryboys 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your completely normal sweety.All girls are different in every way,Same as guys.Masturbation has nothing to do with it either.It's just a physiological thing.And I think if you ever came across a guy that was put off by your private bits then he doesn't deserve you anyway.
2007-01-20 22:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Eat My Shorts 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone is equipped differently. Nothing to be ashamed of. I don't think pulling them makes a difference. Women have children and everything seems to go back into place.
The thing is they are all beautiful.
2007-01-20 22:40:00 · answer #5 · answered by hydroco 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it. The only thing that gets me iffy down there is too much of a bush. At least keep it trimmed and I don't think you have anything to worry about.
2007-01-20 22:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Marky Mark 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
every one person is different... yes sexual activities change ur appearance but not to a huge extent as i believe u are thinking...
i agree with another commenter... u should watch porn videos u will see such a wide variety that u will know that u arent abnormal...
i hope u get ur confidence back
2007-01-20 22:37:28 · answer #7 · answered by red.one9luv 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
um......hell I'm 39 & hate to admit it but I am 39.....I don't masturbate but mine are the same way. They weren't before i became sexually active though. But after they've been pulled , sucked on etc...they are bound to get stretched and men don't mind. They love it even more.
2007-01-20 22:35:42 · answer #8 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
There are women with hanging clits but nothing to worry about, I'm sure men don't mind.
2007-01-20 22:36:31 · answer #9 · answered by lanisoderberg69 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They come in all shapes and sizes,the same as mens bits do.I dont think masturbating would have caused this
2007-01-20 22:33:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋