He is not my boyfriend. I kinda have feelings for him too, but dont want to go to bed with him. How can I refuse him without breaking his heart?
PLEASE HELP!
2007-01-20 22:19:36 · 16 answers · asked by sj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"No!" is a complete sentence. Repeat as needed.
P.S. This is guy is treating you like a piece of meat, all he wants you for is sex (never mind that he says he loves you, of course he has to say that to try to get into your pants), and you're worried about hurting his feelings???
2007-01-20 22:34:32 · answer #1 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By saying no! If a fellow loves you and you are rather attracted to him,by saying no but remaining friends you may find he is the one to marry. His heart is not particularly involved .Recreational sex before marriage makes it harder to stay committed in marriage
2007-01-20 22:39:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's not easy, but tell him your not ready for that yet. If he doesn't understand and respect your opinion he is either too young or just wants to get in your pants.
2007-01-20 22:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by nukem_thebomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really does love he will respect your wishes, and be reasonable about it. I mean if a guy throws a tantrum over the fact you wont sleep with them, then he is no great loss!
2007-01-20 22:25:01 · answer #4 · answered by Spastikus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, he does not love you if he says dat he wants to go to bed with you. especially dat hes not even your man!!!! tell him straight out, let him no dat you have contol of yourself n dun let him take control of you. he wont get upset like he acts out to be. he'll just be more deperate. kinda like him is not enough to sleep with him.
2007-01-20 23:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by watevergal20s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont break his heart that wd be cruel.
2007-01-21 00:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by spud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no
2007-01-20 22:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by MI5 WANNABE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say no
2007-01-20 22:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by Chief BaggageSmasher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont break his heart.
Refuse him. Dont do something u will regret later.
2007-01-20 22:23:47 · answer #9 · answered by saltnsaffron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him no. He ought to accept it and treat you like a lady.
2007-01-20 22:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋