I been with my ex for 3 years and we have 2 kids and I was her for love. I even was the first guy she had sex with and the only guy she had kids with. We had our ups and to many downs. I even hit her before in front of people. but we will break up then go back together. but now we was only broke up a week and a half and she said she was talking to someone she said was nice to her. but me and her got back together and I asked her did she have sex with him and she said YES. then I told her I dont want to go with her any more because the hole time I was trying to get back with her do to the fact we have 2 kids together she was sleeping with him. Do you thing I should let her go? Or do you think she will come back if she still love me and do to the fact we have 2 kids and I am her first real LOVE.
2007-01-20 22:20:20 · 12 answers · asked by Jack L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best to do is to approach the right person.....
its only her who would give you exact info....not any other person
dont be shy..... talk to her
2007-01-20 22:26:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot expect anyone to kiss and make up all the time. If you love her the way you claim to do,then why are you always breaking up and getting back? There is a limit for everything including putting up with the shabby treatment of one's kids father or first love or whatever.
I personally feel you should both be better off without each other.Damages done to relationship by callous behaviour of one partner is kind of permanent- you cannot undo it and go on as if nothing has happeded.
So,you let her go and find a more tolerant person!!!
2007-01-21 06:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by MANJU 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give the relationship another chance. You said that you had your fair share of ups and downs, so why not accept her past actions as that..the past. She was probably seeking out to someone else because she needed to feel that acceptance and compassion from someone else. She had sex with another man...well hey...things go like that sometimes. I don't think it's worth losing the relationship. If you guys were not together when she did that then let it go and move forward. Good luck....Love is hard.
2007-01-21 06:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by blakladee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to grow up . when you hit your women you show no respect she not your property she a gift from god and you two were broke up and youre not married and she meet someone better then you and she has sex with and you cant handled it and you want to know if you should take her back i think you got the question wrong will she take you back I dont think so she found a real men who dont hit her and respect her any men can be a father but its take someone special to be a daddy and its sound as if she found that man so think about it next time you hit your women again think about what you have lost
2007-01-21 06:46:10 · answer #4 · answered by nightman122554 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she will love you no matter wat. you are still the father of the children. But on & off relationship is never gud for any1 & definately not gud for the kids. Obviously sumthing is not right & is missing. you will have to work things out to stay together. But 1 thing i have to tell you..... Neva, Neva hit her. You just put her down & she'll feel like crap. even you said u only did it once, she'll neva forget it 4 the rest of her life. Cud be the reason y shes out looking sumwer else. its not just physical abuse, its emotional abuse. i no, it happen to me 5 yrs ago & till now, at times i struggle wif self esteem & relationship issues coz of wat happened to me then, can neva forget.
2007-01-21 07:29:27 · answer #5 · answered by watevergal20s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should let her go until you get into some anger management classes. just because you were her first everything doesn't mean that she owes you anything at all. she owes herself and your children something, and she can't teach ya'll children that it's okay to stay in an abusive relationship. if u want to get back with her, you should try and grow up and get over yourself
2007-01-21 06:28:02 · answer #6 · answered by Emily F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real love does not involve someone being hit, you do not deserve her , there is a reason she says this other guy treats her nice
2007-01-21 06:49:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether to invite her or not that depend upon the fact how much love you are having to her . Whether she will come to you are not is up to her to decide.
2007-01-21 06:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by puvvula s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all your statement, is there any particular reason you dont marry her?
A big question mark for you, dawg!
2007-01-21 07:07:21 · answer #9 · answered by Opas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex wife is the only one can answer that and why don't you try to talk to her and ask her what she feel about you...
2007-01-21 06:50:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋