She broke off with her BF 6 mth back.
That was the time i get to know her from my former crush. She was devastated then. I promise my ex crush i will make her stand up and move on. Finally or rather apparently she move on.
I wake her up everyday for work.
Then i realise i fell in love with her.
I ask her if i go after her do i stand a chance.
Her reply: She is happy the way she is now and Tentatively dont wish to have any changes. For future she dont not know.
I ask her whether is it a TOTAL rejection.
Her reply: I told u already. Now i dont wanna commit anything.. Future i wont know. :) (Text msg)
I don't know if she still brood over the past. Maybe she really got hurt. Rather she dont have any confidence on herself.
Do i stand a chance for THE FUTRE or m i being rejected?
She still talk to me and text with me..even i after pop up this question
2007-01-20 22:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by Eddy W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has not rejected you at all. She is asking for space to be by herself at the moment as she isn't ready to 'date' someone else at the moment. Be her friend and don't push her into something if she isn't ready for it (if you keep pushing her, then she probably will reject you). Respect her need to be single and wait ad see what happens. It is a good sign that she isn't wanting to treat you as a 'rebound' guy! Just be her friend as you normally would and wait for her to come to you when she is ready. Good Luck!
2007-01-20 22:29:46 · answer #1 · answered by milljanni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just needs a good friend at the moment, breakups are really painful so yeah maybe she isnt ready for another relationship yet because she isnt over her ex. if you really like this girl dont give up just yet, just be a good friend and maybe it could lead to something more, but dont get your hopes up or you might end up getting hurt. I dont think you have been rejected because she still wants to talk to you.. no one but her can tell you if you have a chance in the future, just be ready for anything and be a good friend- thats probably what she needs at the moment :)
2007-01-20 22:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by demonized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but I think you have to wait till the future to see her answer, but try nudging her in your direction till then be there was a good friend keep doing little things like waking her up maybe making her breakfast buying her a gift every now and again (don't over do it) but show her how sweet you can be
2007-01-20 22:27:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point of time the lady does not want to commit herself in another relation. So the advice to you is that don't bug her at this moment. if you continue to bug her, then I think she will reject you totally.
2007-01-20 22:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you still want her, just ride the waves and go along with what you are already doing. She's still around, as you said.
2007-01-20 22:27:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time, that's what she needs is a little space. It seems like your hooked on her leg.
2007-01-20 22:28:14 · answer #6 · answered by nukem_thebomb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, u have a chance.
2007-01-20 22:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋