Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

[to a bf or gf] so many people view it differently....How serious is it?

2007-01-18 12:55:23 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I i like this girl and i was able to get an assigned seat next to her
but we do not know each other
and we are both shy
and althoug i look calm, whenever i talk to her, i get nervous,

i know i have to talk to her regularly for her to day yes a dance in one month
that is what i want to do

but how much conversation is enough and how much is too much
and what do i talk to her about?

i want her to know me well enough in a month and become her freind so that asking her does not seem out of the blue.

but i do not want it to seem obvious that i like her till closer to the dance
and i dont want to seem like an idiot

2007-01-18 12:55:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

say you are 82, you have 2 sisters but your nephews rarely come and visit you, they are very busy with own life, you have a very good young friends (50 years younger than you), who helped you out alots, visited you in hosiptal everyday, drove you around to farms and mountains, brought you food, should you give assets to blood relatives or helpful young friend?

2007-01-18 12:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey guys ive been talking to this girl for like what a year now and latley our conversations have been lacking that ooff feeling to it like i really like this girl and everything but our conversations are getting a little boring and when i talk to her nothin really comes to mind and normally im a funny guy to talk to i say the usual stuff like how was your day and stuff but theres nothin i can think of interesting to talk about that would make her laugh so any ideas of things to talk about to get her to laugh ive already told her about childhood stories and stuff and she does too but i guess its gunna be over soon casue i feel like im boring her now when we talk unlike before... what to do? srry if that was a little long

2007-01-18 12:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Friends

Do you guys like side swept bangs that covers like half your face? I never met my grandma and we're taking a family picture to send it over to her country and i want to look good in it but im not so sure if "eldery" folks like side swept bangs...i think my grandama wouldnt like it and i want her to like my hairstlyes!!! Just need ur opinions please...men and women..whatever

2007-01-18 12:54:20 · 4 answers · asked by sweet and sour lady 2 in Family

A girl asked me one time, "If we were married, when we get old which one us do you hope would die first."
This is one of those tricky romantic/philosophical questions. I know the preffered answer that a woman asking the question would want to hear. I just want to hear how everyone else would answer.

2007-01-18 12:53:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 12:53:48 · 5 answers · asked by serenitykay 2 in Singles & Dating

If I say that my boss was helping me clean my new office, BF will start talking about something else.

2007-01-18 12:53:33 · 19 answers · asked by Cas 4 in Singles & Dating

my mom told me there was food on the floor and i didn't mean to step on it she started yelling at me and i had a little attitude and said i didn't mean to. she said im like this everytime i get my period. i don't mean to !!!!!! is it my fault? she even took my cell away for two days !!!!!!!

2007-01-18 12:53:25 · 11 answers · asked by Mrs. Edward Cullen...Twilight 2 in Family

I had no clue she wanted me to mop her floors, dust her do-dads. HOWEVER i always was nice, whenever we ate over i helped with the dishes. I use her washer and drier. ONe night she comes home (just about thirty minutes after I had). I was outside with my husband working on my mother in law's sister's truck, and so we go inside. Suddenly she's standing in front of my husband and yelling at him, "BROOKE GOT OFF AT THREE! WHY WASN"T SHE HERE COOKING!" I walk calmly in and ask what was I supposed to cook? She flings out her arms, "ANYTHING!" I had been in town all day, sure i got off at three, but i wasn't home. My father in law tried to run away, my husband left to go over to their house . He was gone for hours. She threw a temper, said all sorts of nasty things to my husband about me, called everyone awful names, and hurt everyone's feelings. All because she wanted the floors moped and things dusted. Happens once a yr. Mental problem? or just a jerk...?

2007-01-18 12:53:09 · 14 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2 in Family

I'm going to be honest im one of those guys that reads alot. I am also very educated. I have a great entry level job with alot of potential. I'm reading alot about mutual funds and stuff so I can have a pretty nice retirement. And I have a nice entry level car. (2005 dodge neon. I'm not interested in getting married right now. But I want to know if I will be able to find a great wife when the time is right. I have alot of faith that im going to have a very beautiful wife that has her head on strait and seriously want to spoil her to death. What is your opinion

2007-01-18 12:52:43 · 18 answers · asked by rocko 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard stories of how women in thier late 20s or 30s have trouble finding potential husbands because all the good ones are taken..
is it true? I am 23 yrs old and I don't know what I want to do and what i need to do pay my bills..and I am starting to get worried.
I am not really interested in marriage but I dont want to be single for rest of my life or only get the leftovers when i am late 20s.
or is it something i should not be worried about?
I can even take the married ones too, right?

2007-01-18 12:52:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok i really like one of my bestfriends and his name is Keelin.We've went out be4 but it was only for like a week and we didnt know eachother very well. but now we talk alllll the time and we know alot about eachother.He knows that i still like him and i want to go back out with him but i dont know what i should do.

p.s his birthday is comin up and i wanna get him sumthin different and unique. any ideas ?

2007-01-18 12:50:56 · 9 answers · asked by phykotic78buterfli 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello all. I am pretty inexperienced when it comes to women. I get really nervous and find it hard to get and maintain an erection. Im seeing this wonderful girl at the moment and we are getting serious. I would appreciate any tips on beating the anxiety - what to do, eat etc. Also if the worse comes to the worse and there is no action what do you say? Thanks. Mr. Worried.

2007-01-18 12:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend is now going out with my ex boyfriend and she did not check o\if it was ok with me that she dose that i want to tell her that i really don't want her to how do i do that nicely?

2007-01-18 12:49:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-18 12:49:18 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Turns out she didn't and she doesnt feel comfortable saying that. I didn't really want to say it yet. I spoke with her about it and now shes mad that I lied to her. What should I do about that?

2007-01-18 12:49:12 · 20 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a question I want to ask him, but I don't know if I should. And it's not a bad question...I just wanna know if he'd date or go out with a shy girl...... Is it a good idea or a bad idea? please help.

(and we work together so it'd kinda be weird.) I want to get to know him better, but as someone I don't work with and as someone I don't know....if that makes any sense......there'd be no pressure on me if we could just carry on a normal conversation.......how should I go about this?

2007-01-18 12:48:46 · 5 answers · asked by PCDFan4Life 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 12:48:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

do girls usually shave down there...or not? i was talking to 2 of my friends and they both said that they always have it shaved.

2007-01-18 12:48:30 · 19 answers · asked by jkiddx2005 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 12:48:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If I wrote a note to a girl, with secret admirer on it, what should it say? (I already know she likes me)

2007-01-18 12:48:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm attending the wedding of two Marine Corp. privates tomorrow who have just finished boot camp and are due to be deployed overseas. As one gift, I'm giving them a bottle of very good champayne. However, I want to include champayne glasses. I have a pair that were last used thirty-six years ago toasting my wedding, which ended in divorce. I wanted to pass these glasses on to my daughter, but she has no plans to marry even though she is living with a Marine. Although, this young couple are not related to me, I thought they may enjoy and have better longevity with the glasses than I. Should I give them to the USMC privates or save them for my daughter's wedding? Help. . . the wedding is tomorrow at Noon.

2007-01-18 12:47:02 · 9 answers · asked by the_md_victor 2 in Weddings

September 1, 2007
(5:00 outdoor ceremony with reception to follow at the same facility)
or
October 27, 2007
(12:30pm ceremony with reception to follow in a seperate facility 1/2 hour away)

2007-01-18 12:46:36 · 18 answers · asked by NoTurningBackNow 5 in Weddings

What does anyone think about the fact that society seems to encourage us to focus on our careers in our early 20s and nothing about family? What about people whose greatest desire is to get married and have kids? Nobody around the age of 20 seems to talk about this. It's always 'focus on yourself and your career and family can come later'. It seems as if being a family oriented person is becoming a relic of the past.

2007-01-18 12:45:05 · 3 answers · asked by JC 4 in Family

so... i'm not the kind of girl who believes in having dating rules, like not liking guys that my friends have liked, etc. so when i broke up with my boyfriend and my best friend decided she couldn't handle hearing about how i was feeling all the time so she quit hanging out with me and ended up dating my boyfriend 2 months later (it's always easier to hang out with the boys like him, they don't talk about their feelings like girls do after a break up), my attitude has been "who am i to tell them who they can/can't date? If they're soulmates then i'm not going to keep them apart, right? but i'm not going to be able to be friends with her anymore." She couldn't figure out why i can't be friends with her anymore after all of that and has cut all ties with me whatsoever, saying she "can't do it anymore". Sometimes I feel like maybe i'm being a little immature about it. What do you think?

2007-01-18 12:44:44 · 9 answers · asked by with friends like this.... 1 in Singles & Dating

Ilike my friend. shoul I sho her the piano piece I composed for her?. She doesn't know I like her.

2007-01-18 12:44:30 · 1 answers · asked by pianodude 2 in Singles & Dating

what do you like (find attractive) in a guy

2007-01-18 12:44:13 · 5 answers · asked by asianator14 4 in Singles & Dating

Me, personally, I'd put him out the house naked because I'd do a Bernadine from Waiting to Exhale (The Clothes I bought him). I wouldn't even go after her because I find it stupid to fight over any humans affections.

2007-01-18 12:43:53 · 39 answers · asked by Lady Tee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 12:43:51 · 9 answers · asked by sassy4you 2 in Singles & Dating