Hello all. I am pretty inexperienced when it comes to women. I get really nervous and find it hard to get and maintain an erection. Im seeing this wonderful girl at the moment and we are getting serious. I would appreciate any tips on beating the anxiety - what to do, eat etc. Also if the worse comes to the worse and there is no action what do you say? Thanks. Mr. Worried.
2007-01-18 12:50:30 · 14 answers · asked by Pa J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go oral - it can be a lifesaver
2007-01-18 12:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to have the same problem. It's very simple. Explain it to her that you have a slight problem and that there may be nothing that happens the first time around. I my own experience the second time usually makes up for the first time (if you don't wait too long) but you can sure have a lot of fun the first time trying and make sure that she gets off, that way she'll want to give you another try. You might have to read up on hand and oral sex though and look up where her "G spot" is, that will help matters.
Good luck and have LOTS OF FUN!
2007-01-18 13:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, I just laugh about my past 3 years of panic now. I was not able to go anywhere without carrying xanax. Fear of having another attack was the most important subject of my days.When i first found joe barry's web site i started to cry because of my happiness.
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2016-05-17 00:56:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Glad you met someone you really care about. Just relax, try to find a comfortable setting where you'll both br relaxed. Dont rush things a liitle foreplay helps all the time, tease each other a bit untill you are totally aroused, then tear it up
2007-01-18 12:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by steak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this girl is special then she will help you get past this anxiety. It's possible that she is just as nervous as you are. It may help to tell her that you are nervous about this.
2007-01-18 12:54:37 · answer #5 · answered by sherockstn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude you just need to relax.
sex is fun take your time ask what she likes tell her what you like.
and just have fun.
stay away from booze or stimulants. they can have a huge effect on your ability to sport and keep wood.
2007-01-18 13:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by mark_grvr 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, take it slow. If you can't maintain, or are premature, just be sure to help her finish. Remember, just because you're done, she may just be getting started. Use your tongue, fingers, toys or whatever it takes to make sure she gets hers too.
2007-01-18 13:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to relax and not worry. Ask her what you can do to please her. My boyfriend was experience when we met and he asks me that alot in bed cause he wants me to be happy. That way when she answers you, you can do what she says. Then you can take it from there.
Good luck.
2007-01-18 12:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by moo shell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and everything will fall into place.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 12:55:11 · answer #9 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are getting to anxious tell her to say untop and play cool she will ride u like a horse
2007-01-18 12:53:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. completely forget about having sex with her. focus on anything but that. right up to the point she starts pulling off your clothes.
2007-01-18 13:22:39 · answer #11 · answered by bldskd9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋