Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

I have been friends with this guy for the past 3 years. We sorta dated and then we had a big fight, because i wanted things to be more serious, but he wanted to see others. I started dating someone else and things got serious. The other guy became jealous. I asked what he wanted, he said he wanted me but still didn't want a relationship with me. He told me he couldn't stop dreaming/thinking about me and i could not stop thinking about him, even though i was with someone else. I maintained a friendship with the guy, and when things got rocky with my bf, the guy and i spent more time together, but again he wasn't interested in anything serious. I decided to go back with my bf, but throughout my relationship with my bf I haven't been able to stop thinking about the other guy. I am so torn. i don't wanna leave my bf, but I don't know what to do. There is definitely something when i'm around the other guy, but i don't know how to find out what it means. what should i do? Is this just lust?

2007-01-18 13:30:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For some of you who may remeber, i asked about a girl I like. Some of her friends are saying she likes me, while others are saying she just does not want to hurt my feelings. She says she wants to get to know me better. i just can't figure it out, we have talked, danced, gone out to movies, and e-mail each other constantly and are great friends. What should i do, should I plain out ask her what she thinks, leave her alone and go on. Also their is a dance coming up soon. Should I ask her to go to the dance, or just ask for a dance at the dance. Thanks

2007-01-18 13:29:51 · 2 answers · asked by darthranon 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 13:29:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-18 13:29:44 · 19 answers · asked by rainbone 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend dat is a Crip. I don't mind and i can live with dat. But he told me dat he loves me and he is serios. He is 17 years old. We only dated for 3 weeks. He already told me dat he loves me. Why did he tell me dat right away?

2007-01-18 13:28:27 · 13 answers · asked by Angel 2 in Singles & Dating

OK, I'm 14 and I was sitting at a table with my friends and next to me was this girl-who I noticed is always sitting by herself. (She's been at school for a week and 1/2 now maybe.) Everybody acts as if she is not even there. I want to make friends with her but I don't know how I should do it.

So how should I go about getting to know her? What should I say to her? I don't want to make her even uncomfortable than she already seems to be.

2007-01-18 13:28:26 · 17 answers · asked by sweetdollツ 7 in Friends

ladies, would you rather have him give you his number for you to call him, or have him call you? if you dont know him that well but you gave him your number and you have his?

2007-01-18 13:27:50 · 9 answers · asked by em9sredbeam 2 in Singles & Dating

just looking for a nice and decent conversation with someone, i already tried yahoo, too many weirdos.

2007-01-18 13:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by Dreamyeyes 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm gonna get her cuz her name is pinky and she likes when I call her that. Its really her name and she is very cute and smart and nice. Its not IF I get her, its WHEN and HOW I get her.

2007-01-18 13:27:29 · 3 answers · asked by kurticus1024 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 13:27:19 · 17 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Singles & Dating

would you leave your bfs girls ? 4 1 of them ?

2007-01-18 13:27:10 · 6 answers · asked by gundaewoo 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old and i have had many girls that i haved "liked" in the last few months and all of them never end up turning out....im not really good with girls...im fine until i like the girl and then i just get nervous and everything changes i have no idea what to do to get a girl to actually like me too...and let something happen

2007-01-18 13:27:08 · 7 answers · asked by P dizzle 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a Marine and just want to count how many want me?

2007-01-18 13:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by quazzi_d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok this is for you guys out there
im pretty shure he lkes me and we talk every day and every body says we would look cute together. So if he likes me he wont take the chance to ask me out,but im to scared to ask him cuz i dont no fur shure!!!! HELP

2007-01-18 13:25:41 · 15 answers · asked by Baby * 1 in Singles & Dating

My 27 yr old bf lives w/me at my parents house for free. and he lives paycheck to paycheck i wannt him to start saving his money so we can start our own lives together. and i dont know how he cannot have any money he has no bills other then cell phone and satelite radio. How do i tell him to save it?

2007-01-18 13:25:41 · 11 answers · asked by Aubry S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has gained about 100 pounds over a five year period.(He says it is my fault) We are rarely intimate. Is this normal? It is affecting our relationship. He always blames me for not wanting to have sex. What can I do?

2007-01-18 13:24:41 · 11 answers · asked by chemky1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Who would you give the food to, you wife, child or your mom.

2007-01-18 13:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by mhshhaduw 2 in Family

What the hell is up with that? Can't you make up your own mind?

Does begging for non-direct sympathy gain wisdom and power in order to kick your man to the curb?

It seems most men don't reach out for advice and women get it from everywhere (all for free.)

Constantly men are helping out hoards of wailing women all over the world when they need to know how to screw over their husbands in a divorce, and in return most of them wouldn't help you out if your life depended on it.

What gives??

2007-01-18 13:24:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He told he got out of the "game" but i still think he is in it because he still asks for favors how can i find out if he is still gang bangin? I dont get it, i wouldn't be mad why does he got to lie?

2007-01-18 13:23:58 · 5 answers · asked by confussed101 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 13:23:44 · 25 answers · asked by JenaMarie 2 in Weddings

2007-01-18 13:22:39 · 20 answers · asked by John16 5 in Singles & Dating

How important is trust in a romantic relationship? Can a romantic relationship last without trust? What are signs that your partner does not trust you?

2007-01-18 13:22:15 · 7 answers · asked by Siciliana 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 13:22:14 · 13 answers · asked by holybass09 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 13:21:43 · 6 answers · asked by Michael M 1 in Singles & Dating

read the following, was i wrong to do this, i dont think i was wrong do you??


ok so today me and my gf got in a fite cuz i wanted her 2 have a baby and she didnt want to, so i called her a c*u*n*t then she kicked me out of the house, why do girls always gotta over react? cuz if she just listened 2 me we wouldnt fite!!!! she just never does what she is told, i mean 15 is totaly old enough to have a baby!!! oh the reason we dont live with our familys its cuz we got emancipate from them and im 16

2007-01-18 13:21:25 · 21 answers · asked by BAMBINO 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been friends for 3 years and have always had this "secret" fling going on, but lately he's been much more open about it, even kissing me in front of his family. When we're together he tells me how much he likes me and wants to be with me. He even told my friend the other night he loved me. But when we're not together (I live an hour away) it's like I'm not even alive. I never hear from him. Maybe once a week for like a minute. If you like someone, don't you WANT to talk to them. Now I'm not a huge phone person, but even a 5 minute phone call everyonce in a while would make me happy. I love him so much and can't get my mind off of him. Any ideas? Guys I need your advice. Do you think he's telling the truth about liking me?

2007-01-18 13:20:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still would like to get back with my husband,but its been a year and a sea apart. How long should I wait to date again, is it ok to invite someone out?

2007-01-18 13:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Cundiamor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

See im going to a dance with my boyfriend n i want to kiss him on the lips (which we never done) But when like when were slow dancing or dancing, or talking or sitting WHEN????????

2007-01-18 13:19:34 · 7 answers · asked by gelcoolgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

a week ago i asked my bf if it was ok if i went out with her ex she said it was fine she didnt care whan i did she's mad at me because whan she said that i was supposed to know she meant dont so now she isnt talking to me. My mom is mad at me cause im all the time on the phone. I have a boyfriend who i need to talk to and spend time with and do my homework and everything else. i need some way to fit everything in. I need to make it ok with my friend and everything else that i listed so please help me

2007-01-18 13:18:48 · 9 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Singles & Dating

Would anyone that is a member let me just sign in for two mins to check something and then ill get out and you can change ur password. Im not a dishonest person at all, I just need to check something.

2007-01-18 13:18:03 · 10 answers · asked by Aphrodite 2 in Friends