Ok this is for you guys out there
im pretty shure he lkes me and we talk every day and every body says we would look cute together. So if he likes me he wont take the chance to ask me out,but im to scared to ask him cuz i dont no fur shure!!!! HELP
2007-01-18 13:25:41 · 15 answers · asked by Baby * 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's shy you say, which means he probably doesn't have much luck with women. You have that to work with in that he enjoys the conversation he is getting from you as it probably does not happen often. Ask him to hang out sometime...if he agrees you're in.
2007-01-18 13:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by bruce_eel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please forgive me for my forthrightness. I'm attacking this question from the perspective of a person who dedicated close to 15 years trying to win over a magnificent person to be burned not once, but twice. While some love can take time to develop, some love may never develop. I recommend being completely honest and open and to have a little faith. But if he's not interested, move on.
2007-01-18 21:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Tragicfame 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have the dilemma most men face. But the reality is what can
happen. The worst he can do is say that he doesn't like you in that way and then you know. You can continue to be friends.
The best that can happen is that you were right and he was just afraid to ask you. Go for it.
2007-01-18 21:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you're going to have to be the one that makes the first move. If he's really that shy, get him to go and get coffee or something then you can talk to him in private. He might loosen up if there isn't anyone around listening to you talk.
Try it, you'll never know till you try.
2007-01-18 21:30:53 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel to shy to ask him on a date try asking him to join you in a group outting. You can invite him to a friends birthday party, movie night with pals or even a football game. That will be easier than asking him out on a date.
Go for it!!
2007-01-18 21:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a riskier approach, like caressing his hair, or compliment ot his look and watch his reaction. And try asking something about his view about relationship, then you'll know what to do.
Give him a hint wont hurt
2007-01-18 21:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Alastair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm a shy guy and its really hard soooo....u dont have to ask him out but keep talking to him and tell him directly that u think he's cute....tell him u need a guy like him...obvious things like that or he wont ever ask u out.
2007-01-18 21:28:58 · answer #7 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u know wat..ask him if he likes u...asking him will make ur mind settled..you don't want your mind keep on thinking about that question, do you??
day comes and end! everything changes! i think there's no harm to ask him that..and besides..you'll know and you'll feel it if he really likes u..if you got the instinct that he likes you..well go and be confident to ask him..
go girl!!u can do dat!!use ur girl power! Gud luck!
2007-01-18 21:32:39 · answer #8 · answered by Macy Lourenze G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably gets nervous when he sees your mismatched eyebrows. Relax the muscles on one side of your head so that they kind of line up. Then you'll appear less frightening and he'll probably feel better talking with you. You're in!
2007-01-18 21:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is a shy personality, a little like me, if you talk on the phone, maybe suggest seeing a movie, or going bowling, or whatever. (since all us guys are a little dumb, you may have to be straightforward in your suggestion.)
2007-01-18 21:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by em9sredbeam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋