was i wrong, was she ??

Question

read the following, was i wrong to do this, i dont think i was wrong do you??


ok so today me and my gf got in a fite cuz i wanted her 2 have a baby and she didnt want to, so i called her a c*u*n*t then she kicked me out of the house, why do girls always gotta over react? cuz if she just listened 2 me we wouldnt fite!!!! she just never does what she is told, i mean 15 is totaly old enough to have a baby!!! oh the reason we dont live with our familys its cuz we got emancipate from them and im 16

Answer 1

Your question proves that neither of you are responsible enough to raise a child.

Answer 2

So,
You're the boyfriend,
She's the girlfriend.

The girlfriend must do everything the boyfriend says, right?

Actually no, she doesn't have to do anything you say. Face it man, it's the truth, she won't do anything unless she WANTS to. And she doesn't want to, so what are you going to do?

Sure, you guys could fight again, but would that get you anywhere? Do you think if you guys fight one more time, she'd change her mind?

No, probably not, huh? So how come she doesn't want to have a baby anyways? Well, if you think about it, she's gotta carry the thing for 9-10 months, and you gotta take care of her, making sure she survives... Then of course, she's gotta have the thing, so she's got to fit something the size of a cantaloupe through a hole the size of a ping-pong ball. And that REALLY hurts... Not you, of course, unless you hear her screams...

Then, when she has it, what are you gonna do with the thing? Take care of it? Start a family? I mean, the thing's gotta eat, its gotta drink. It needs clothes, diapers, toys. You're gonna need to buy all that, unless you plan on re-using diapers, and that means getting a job. This is YOU of course, since she's busy at home changing diapers.

So where are ya gonna get a job? Your local McDonalds? KFC? Walmart? Where else would they want 17 year-olds to work (you'll be 17 by then)? You're certainly not gonna get much better than minimum wage, and THAT means that you'll probably need to work 10 hours a day just to be able to eat...

And of course, your girlfriend will be REALLY bitchy, because she's gonna really like her baby, and she'll probably kill anyone who tries to harm it. That's just the way mothers are.

So what? You gonna leave the baby? Not take care of it? Then why do you want it in the first place?

Maybe that's why she's saying no, because you won't feeling working 65 hours a week and she doesn't feel like being dirt poor trying to take care of a kid.

Answer 3

Dude, no offense, but you sound a bit controlling over there, I'm 17, and I wouldnt ever get away saying that to my Gf. I mean, how are you going to support her and the Baby at 16? What good job can u get? Rather than trying to get her to have a baby, u should both finish school, and set up a basis for that family, a good foundation ya know? And then when you have somethig actually offer (other than yourself), she'll probab;y be a little more understanding , thugh she might be the type to want a baby AFTER marriage, so its a lot to think about, and in any case, yo don't sound ready to have a baby yet, yo should creat life if yo can't sustain it.
All in all, ur in the wrong dude, so just go a nd apologize and try not to be so controlling, cherish her, don't abuse her. Best of luck to ya man.

Answer 4

Dr. Phil at your service..............
what the heck were u thinking when u called her that!?!?!?
okay, if u think u are mature, responsible enough to have a baby then you have to sit, talk, and NOT fight!!!
i had a friend who had a brother who had a 6 kids by the time he was 23!!! he had to work 2 jobs and he lived pay cheak to pay cheak. also, think about ur girlfriend, do u think she would want to ruin her body and the rest of her life at the young age of 16?????
think, if you were to gain, 50-90 extra pounds by the time you are 20 then u go right ahead but what makes u think ur girlfirned would want to ?? heres another thinkg to think about... do u guys really love each other, to give up that first time together??? REMEMBER::: at such a young age, love and feelings can change, geting mariied, having sex, and having children might have changed feelings too!!!
good luck man!

Answer 5

I am sorry to say you were wrong to call her that. You are still young you have school to think about.Plus you may change your mind in the long run. Just please think about it again. I was 16 when I had a baby and it is alot harder than you think. The baby will always be first priority. Working going to school taking care of a baby is stressful. Why don't you wait until after high school or even college. I hope you take my advice and think about it. But its you choice.

Answer 6

Well, first of all the both of you are too young to have a child. And yes, she is justified in kicking you out. If you don't have enough respect for her not to call her names when she doesn't bow down to your every whim, then she shouldn't care whether or not you have a place to sleep at night. And your relationship shouldn't be "her doing what she is told" and you just giving out orders like you are boss, the two of you should compromise and don't resort to name calling when you don't get your little way. If you respect her, she will respect you. Quit trying to tell her what to do, you are not her daddy.

Answer 7

dude! thats not cool at all she had every right 2 kick you out and im surprised u didnt get hit 2 things you shouldnt treat anyone like that if she says no you dont have to curse at her shes human and she can say no to somn especially about having a baby and you should respect her decision and 2 if you are gonna treat her like that she should break up with u and ur lucky she didnt already

Answer 8

I feel like this is not a serious question, but just in case it is:
Well, I certainly hate that word and would kick someone out of my life permanently for calling me that. I have zero tolerance for name-calling.
2nd. don't have a baby yet. Experience all you can of life first. See the world. Get an education so you don't have to be poor all your life. Find your destiny. Meet lots of people, try lots of things. Have as much fun as you can before you settle down to be a parent.

Answer 9

That is so stupid to put on, no offence. To have a baby at 15 is just not right! Dont make your lives bad! She didnt over react, she just did the right thing. Its her body and he choice, when shes ready, shes ready!

Answer 10

think about if you were a girl would you want to have a baby in your stomach for 9 months at 15. the pain hurts so i dont really think its something to under react about. you can at least until 18.

Answer 11

I'd kick your *** out of the house too if you called me a c*u*n*t. you cant just tell your girlfriend that you want her to have a baby. she has to be ready for one and if she says no then shes not ready. shes only 15 give her time.