I'm 33, and I've been in my current relationship for about 18months. I thought I had found "the one", and subsequently I proposed after 13 months together. She came out of a six year abusive relationship and we were together straight after. Although she had said she was mentally out of the relationship a year earlier, but had stayed because of the kids. Since then, we have like I said got engaged, and we live together, the kids are on week about, so the ex is still apart of our lives. The last month has not been fun, she is moody, hardly spends time with me, and pretty well stopped being intimitate, saying she is not in the mood. I asked her today if we were okay?she replied I don't know. I was a bit upset, and when I had a chance I checked her cell for messages, and there was one from her ex today, that said "I'm looking forward to it xxxooo, I want you."I don't know what to do. I'm worried if it's inocent, then if I say something then there it ends. But what if it's not. I'm confused
2007-01-18
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