Why am I so depressed? Someone Answer?

Question

My girlfriend is going away Friday until Sunday to visit her best friend this girl I've only met twice her name is Tina. She's a nice person but...I'm not a big fan of the things she does. She smokes pot..which is fine everyone does but she does more she drinks a lot has done LSD, Crack, Cocaine, Heroin and numerous other drugs including extascy (can't spell it) . My girlfriend has been so excited to see this girl she's practically been ignoring me ALL WEEK! She is always on the phone with her texting her etc. I don't know why I'm upset...Why am i feeling this way? Me and my guy friend are going to visit my family about 4 hours away for the weekend...i just planned it a few days ago...i feel like i needed something to do to get my mind off of her going away. WHY do i feel so depressed and like sad? WHY?? it's only 2 days what are some things i an do to not make me think of her. Another thing is sometimes when she goes away i hear from her maybe once a day.(through text) WHAT CAN I DO?

Answer 1

It sounds like you're worried that her friend may be a bad influence on your girlfriend. If you know that your girl doesn't do the things her friend is into, trust her and respect that she made a friend probably for reasons other than her drug and alcohol problems. There may be a wonderful person under there.

As for your lack of communication when she travels, just let her know that it's nice when you hear from her. Ever girl likes to know she's been missed. She should take the hint.

Answer 2

Why do guys worry so much bout their gfs ??? I'd leave & then my bf would worry bout me... Even if I was just gone for not even 2 days ! Is it that you miss her whenever she leaves ? Or is it only the fact that she's leaving & she's gonna be hanging out w/ someone who's "bad" ? Is this causing you to worry bout her more & become sadder ? Maybe the weather even has something to do w/ it. You didn't say where you lived but when there's less sunlight some peeps end up feeling sad. It's called SAD. Are you sure you don't have that ? Have you been feeling depressed even b/f you found out that she's leaving ? Think back to when you first felt sad. I think that it's good that you both have your own space. It may seem like a long time that she'll be gone but she'll be back b/f you know it :) Maybe you just needa keep your mind offa her if you can. Try to remain preoccupied w/ other things. Have a guy's night out. Don't drink tho, cuz that'll cause you to feel even more down in the dumps. Avoid caffeine & anything that may alter your mood (drugs too). Good luck ! Hope that this has been of some help to you. :)

Answer 3

You are not to blame for being upset of your girlfriend's strange behavior. Therefore, you ought to reconsider if you are in a strong relationship with her or not. She has been ignorant and does not sound serious and it seems like she is falling for bad influence. Is this the kind of relationship you would like to engage with? It is not OKAY for ANYONE to anticipate in drugs. It is that you care about her and you love her dearly. If you try to get her off your mind, you are only trying to avoid it; whereas, round and round you go it is still a fact that your girlfriend is acting weird. The way the relationship is going is not healthy. There is a lack of communication. Some things cant be discussed just over texting messages. You should talk to her and stabilize the relationship. If things dont work out, it was simply not meant to be.

Forgive me if i hurt your feelings, but we human can only learn it the hard way.

Take care.

Answer 4

I think you may be sad because you know Tina is not good for your girl friend and you may be worried that your girl friend might choose Tina's friendship over yours. Getting away to visit your family is a good idea. It may help put the situation in perspective and will certainly reassure you that you have family and friends who love and appreciate you. Spend time with them, hang out with them, meet new people, enjoy yourself and don't dwell on your girlfriend's visit to Tina. Call or text her yourself so you aren't waiting around all the time waiting to her from her. And don't confront her about her friendship with Tina. Just let her know that you miss her and are really looking forward to her return.

Answer 5

I hope you're not worried about your girlfriend doing anything to jepordize your relationship because as a girl I don't think she would do that. Just cuz her friend does the drugs it doesn't mean she will. So don't worry about that.
I think it's sweet that you already miss her and I know it's gunna be hard but it's ok. She's just going to do her own thing for a few days. She'll be back on Sunday and she'll be happy and refreshed.

Answer 6

The reason of your depression is because you know that she will try some of her "friend"s drugs because if the cat is not there the mouse will do you know what (sorry my friend you are gonna have to figure this out because i am studying e.s l. and make my own sentences)anyways I've been there had it,and ran away like a real women,hope she doe's the same if she is strong she will succeed and you too

Answer 7

I can relate. I used to feel the same way when my ex would spend time with his brother who was no better and probably even worse. I knew my ex well enough to know that he was easily influenced and nothing good ever came of it. I hope you girlfriend is strong willed and more like you. Ultimately it's up to her to make the right choices. Hang in there and keep yourself occupied in the meantime. When she comes back and you still feel uncomfortable, talk to her and let her know how you feel. If she does behave like her friend, you might need to make some choices. If she chooses that road, I can tell you things won't get better, only worse. Good luck.

Answer 8

texting is better than nothing buddy, i just broke off a relationship 2 weeks ago that lasted 4 yrs str8 with no hang ups...she had went a week with no word to me at all more than one time in this relationship, i was everything that a girl would want from a guy and i come to find out she was dating another guy behind my back for a year and half, and lead me on that long with i love you's xoxox all the time and every time i talk to her...but im mumbling on here... but yeah if she stops all commuication, what i mean is no calls,email,texting,IM's, when all this goes on halt then dont think twice about braking it off becuz she probly cheating on u...i learned my lesson about that...so dont be too worried at least she talking to you in some kind of form or way...good luck to you

Answer 9

From the sound of her friend I don't blame you at all. Her friend sounds like a person who is very self destructive. You are worried that she will get into some drugs with her and not come home. perfectly understandable. Try not to worry about it since theres nothing you can do to stop her. If your girlfriend cares about herself at all she will come home. It doesn't matter if she loves you or not it is about her loving herself. and if she doesn't then she very may self destruct.. I hope not. what ever you dont beg her to stay that will make her go for sure. and dont tell her over and over you love her. just once will do. good luck

Answer 10

if she has been friends with this girl a long time and still doesn't do drugs, then you shouldn't be worried. I think you are upset because your afraid she will do something that would hurt herself. you have nothing to worry about if she has never done it. also pot is not safe and no not everyone does it. if you want to keep your mind off of her, go out with a bunch of friends and just have guy time. what i do when i'm upset about a guy is i either go to movies and mall with my bff or i write a song on how i'm feeling. hope that helps.