a week ago i asked my bf if it was ok if i went out with her ex she said it was fine she didnt care whan i did she's mad at me because whan she said that i was supposed to know she meant dont so now she isnt talking to me. My mom is mad at me cause im all the time on the phone. I have a boyfriend who i need to talk to and spend time with and do my homework and everything else. i need some way to fit everything in. I need to make it ok with my friend and everything else that i listed so please help me
2007-01-18 13:18:48 · 9 answers · asked by Ak 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
relax,
It will all work out.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 13:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In high school it was one of those unwritten rules between friends.. NEVER date another person's ex.. even if you get permission.. It's less dramatic. In college, whatever, no one cares as much. Look at it from her perspective, wouldn't you feel slightly betrayed that your best friend started dating your ex?
Time saver tip #1: Stop spending time on the phone. You don't NEED to talk to your boyfriend. You just WANT to talk to him.
School shouldn't talk a backseat to your boyfriend because in the end you don't get a Bachelor's Degree in the Science of Boyfriend.. It doesn't work out like that.
You can't force everything to FIT. You have to sacrifice something.
2007-01-18 13:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy/girl isn't worth losing a best friend over... appaulagize to yoru friend and let her how sorry you are for miss communication. Ask what you can do to make things better. Respect your mom, if she says you are on the phone too much... get off the phone, that will give you time to work on homework or be with your boyfriend. H e l l it'll give you time to make up with friend. Do you ABSOLUTELY NEED to be with your boyfriend? IF you are that stressed tell him. If he cares and understands, he should give you a little space to let you handle things. Combined doing your homework with boyfriend time.
2007-01-18 13:27:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. Just tell BF that you can only talk to him at a certain time and a certain amount of time a day. This will calm the parents down when you tell them this plan. Now the GF you need to apologize to her since the girl code has been broken [never date the ex of a gf].
2007-01-18 13:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Extra Blue Note 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your stressed.
This is your life,you created it.
Do you HAVE to have a boyfriend?
Do you HAVE to have a phone?
Much of what you complain about,you've brought upon yourself.
If you can't handle life now,just wait till you have a husband,three kids,a house with a mortgage,and a dozen bills that come in the mail every month,
2007-01-18 13:25:35 · answer #5 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go over to your boyfriend's house, call your friend and do your homework. P.S. - It's never a good idea to go out with a friend's ex no matter what they say.
2007-01-18 13:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in that situation b4...my friend sed it was fine but then went back on er word, I broke up with the guy: it was hard but I didn't wana lose er and I'm still friends with the guy! I'm not sayn u shud break it off-just teln u wat I did! As for ur mom, it'll be fine, just give er time! Try not to get stressed...
2007-01-18 13:26:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this guy has ruined a lot of things, and you shouldnt let a guy ruin your friendship.
2007-01-18 13:22:46 · answer #8 · answered by m_rae0232 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste so much time on Yahoo Answers...
2007-01-18 13:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by justbswick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋