hey guys ive been talking to this girl for like what a year now and latley our conversations have been lacking that ooff feeling to it like i really like this girl and everything but our conversations are getting a little boring and when i talk to her nothin really comes to mind and normally im a funny guy to talk to i say the usual stuff like how was your day and stuff but theres nothin i can think of interesting to talk about that would make her laugh so any ideas of things to talk about to get her to laugh ive already told her about childhood stories and stuff and she does too but i guess its gunna be over soon casue i feel like im boring her now when we talk unlike before... what to do? srry if that was a little long
2007-01-18 12:54:30 · 12 answers · asked by mike d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Don't let yourself fall into a rut.
Just relax and be yourself and you will be fine.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 12:58:12 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So go beyond the normal stuff to talk about. Get creative..instead of just talking make it a dinner date, a walk through the park, go to the mall, get spicy and find a way to work sexuality into the conversations. Maybe that is why the conversation has become boring. Both of you are holding back..so be the first to open up..Good Luck
2007-01-18 12:59:54 · answer #2 · answered by shonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a woman needs a guy who's emotional, honest, and worrying. those women are immature and in common words want the shallow, untrustworthy, and detached guy. Assuming that you're a guy in basic terms be your self and the right tournament will come alongside finally. no individual is somewhat well worth replacing your self for. yet stay in college get an education and get your occupation began and the ladies will start up coming. that is a lot a lot less complicated once you're time-honored. good success!
2016-10-15 10:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im not sure what either of you like but if you both like a certain TV show then talk about that.....books, news, GOSSIP, etc. But a great way to make her interested is a date like this (Sorry it's EXPENSIVE! But worth it): First give her an envelope (a nice one preferably her favorite color, the paper too) with instructions for her to go to her favorite store, before hand talk to the manager and get her like $50.00 store credit but be sure to give them a picture, name and tell them to ask for ID, on the note have it say something like "Buy something to beautiful to wear, to match you" When she purchases her item have the store clerk give her an envelope telling her to change if she needs to and then meet you at a nearbye romantic restaraunt for dinner! She'll be seeing stars!!!!!!!! At dinner just ask her if she likes it or if it's too much and talk to her about what to order and cover the basics if you do this your sure not to lose her. If you need more help email me at mrs.harrypotter13@yahoo.com!
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2007-01-18 13:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has stayed with you through most of the "boring era" then she probly won't leave anytime soon (at least not if she is really worthy of your feelings). My advice is to watch a good movie, get into an Anime series (i suggest Naruto, Eureka 7, and Samauri Deeper Kyo), these will not only entertain you (as all of them are dramatic and very funny), but intense study on them will awe her with your vast knowledge.
2007-01-18 13:05:32 · answer #5 · answered by Cayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find that just sharing your day in a funny way works like for example. One day i was eating in my bed and got crumbs in it and i was telling my friend the story and i said...Only peoplw who sit around and are depressed all day have crumbs in thier bed...I feel like the girl on television who sit with the box of cookies crying in the bed looking at Lifetime movies. Or you could reenact some of American Idols people who can not sing. I hope that this helps and you can tell her that you like her.
2007-01-18 13:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking about the future together, open up to each other, tell her how you fell about her. Only if you really have strong feelings for her. Im not telling you to rush in to nothing. get to know her better even though you think you know her get to know her some more. if you still have questions about this email me at watuknow016@yahoo.com
2007-01-18 13:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by lissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it seems like you two just aren't getting physical enough. Try kissing instead of talking. Cuddle and kiss every time you wanna talk but can't think of anything. Try it, I'm preety sure it will work. Just make sure that your both okay with it.
2007-01-18 12:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by BATTLEFEAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hang out. if it is a real relationship you shouldn't worry so much about being somebody for her. if you guys go out and do something, or just hang at each other's houses, even if you are not talking, then you'll make memories together and laugh at those.
love is being stupid together, it's not entertainment
2007-01-18 12:59:18 · answer #9 · answered by Simone * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of something that you two and only you two know about and talk about that. have a special joke only you guys get. if that dont work, then make a list of stuff when you think about it so you'll be ready when u talk to her.
hope my advise helps.
2007-01-18 13:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by Haley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋