Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Guys only likes girls if they are hot, but how do I get a guy who likes me for who I am and NOT how I look?

2007-01-15 08:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by kimmz 2 in Singles & Dating

He has been very irritable lately. He has become abusive. I told him to stop it or he can go home to his mommy & daddy. I also told him that I am not speaking to him right now.

2007-01-15 08:25:48 · 33 answers · asked by Sweet 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok its like this i like this guy at school and he likes me n we were kind of messing around but never had sex n i really like him but we end it because i was talking to another guy ... but i only talked to him twice on the phone for like 5 min each time... so i told the guy that i really liked because i wanted to be honest n he got really mad at me and now i want him back .. so how do i do it





p.s. i also have a problem because we go to the same school and before we started messing i knew he was the schools biggest flirt and i didnt really have a problem until i realized how many girls really liked him and how he would continue to flirt with the while im around

2007-01-15 08:25:46 · 1 answers · asked by da 1 u ♥ 2 hate 2 in Singles & Dating

How do I ask my man to wear pantyhose for me? I know he's into me wearing them, but now I have to figure out a way to ask him to put them on for me and have ***.
Men how would you react if your wife asked you?

2007-01-15 08:24:35 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and get to level 4..........methinks not...... with all the thumbs down and reports........lmao!

2007-01-15 08:24:27 · 13 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

She didn't even ask me if i wnated to be in her wedding party she just kind of told me and i don't want to spend the money on my dress casue its the worst dress i've ever seen... but i don't want to hurt her feelings or ruin our realationship.

2007-01-15 08:24:18 · 20 answers · asked by laydenirvine 4 in Weddings

My husband acussed me of cheating on him 6months ago. He said he had 3 people that told him i cheateded. I have never cheated in the 20yrs i have been with him. We sorted things out as I thought but have found out resently that he has been to a lawyer and raised a divorce case. I spoke to him about it and he said his lawyer had to make the case divorce so he could get thease 3 people in to take statements. My husband said if they dont turn up this will prove that they are telling lies. He said he has every faith that they wont and this will prove 2 everyone im telling the truth. Im so hurt and upset that he has done this without telling me and its a divorce case. I only found out by accident. He said that he will drop the case when thease 3 people are found 2 be telling lies. I dont no what 2 do , iv been in tears since I found out what he has been up2 .Do I trust him! ? Please can someone give me some advice. What would You do if you where in my shoes?

2007-01-15 08:23:40 · 19 answers · asked by flower 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a guy friend who I thought liked me, who was my secret pal, and who used to look at me a lot but I found out gradually that he is a womanizer and has been married four times within the last four years. He can also be abusive. I realize he is a total jerk and can't be trusted. Now, I just try to avoid him if I can. Would a womanizer go through a lot of trouble to get women to like him and the be ugly to them in return by showing his true colors?

2007-01-15 08:23:33 · 4 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

I was dating this wonderful guy ( OR SO I THOUGHT) he was so kind,sexy,charming and in retospect to good to be true. We were going out for quite some time. I was talking to one of my friends and she was tellling me about this guy she was seeing. She told me about all the sweet things he did and said to her , meanwhile this was all sounding very familiar. She asked me if I wanted to go on a double date with her and the new boyfriend...I accepted and we made plans. I told my boyfriend about it and he said " sure sounds great" The night came for our double date and my boyfriend cancelled last minute. I called my friend and told her the news,she said come anyway. I was at the resturant before they got there. I sat and waited at the bar. To my otter shock my friend walked in and was with my boyfriend of all people ....yha, there was a lot of drama in that restrant that night and I haven't talked to that S.O.B since. So, ladies (and gentelemen) if it seems to good to be true ...IT IS !

2007-01-15 08:23:21 · 4 answers · asked by *Alice* 2 in Singles & Dating

how many married couple believe in SWINGING???

2007-01-15 08:23:21 · 13 answers · asked by buddahbump 3 in Marriage & Divorce

is it worth risking it? I really like her but is it worth becomming an emo to get her attention when she might not even like me then, I've kinda asked her out B4 and she said she was'nt sure ( that means no by the way) although i fancy her like mad wat should i do?

2007-01-15 08:23:20 · 11 answers · asked by immortal_god 1 in Singles & Dating

Everyday from the time I get on the bus for school till I get home I am made fun of and tormented by almost everyone. Sometimes they kick me around but most often its just verbal things they all do to make fun of me. I try to ignore them but it gets so loud and I am so embarrased and I just want it to stop. A lot of it comes from the girls who I guess feel I am gross and like to make fun of me. Every night I feel dread because I know I have to get up the next morning and face it all again without end. A lot of these kids are really popular and good students and I know they are nice to other people and most of what they say is probably true of me but my parents make me go to school so I don't know what to do. I really want to die. I wish I wasn't me

2007-01-15 08:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

that i love them and respect them and .........ohhhh......everything really nice and sweet?

2007-01-15 08:23:01 · 19 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

I have met a guy 3 months ago and we have started to get really close, we haven't slept together yet but things are moving forward and i want it to be special. I don't want to go over the top with candles e.t.c but i was thinking along the lines of soft music and seductive underwear. any idea's?

2007-01-15 08:22:51 · 9 answers · asked by DONNAIS 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this woman that said she just got out of a relationship and wasn't ready to date yet. Three months later she says she likes me and wants to meet me.

When I meet her she says she's happy being free and likes that she only has to answer to herself. So I smile and asked her about FwB. She hugged me and said she really wanted to but she "just couldn't" Then she was afraid because she's never done anything like that before. She asked me to take it slow and be patient with her.

What do you think she meant by taking it slow and being patient?

2007-01-15 08:21:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have this huge problem I need to make 2500$ by 2 months to make my dream come true ( i need to fly to las angels for something) dont tell me thats impossible caz anything is.
how can a 13 year old do that
i dont come from a rich family so if you can help me i would thank you sooooo much
any ideas
please and thank you

2007-01-15 08:21:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been with my boyfriend for 2½ years. He has told me numerous times that I am the one he wants to spend the rest of his life with. He has told me he wants a child with me, and that he will one day marry me. I want to know from the men, why do men wait to ask, and how long is too long? I am (almost) 30 and do not want to keep biding my time if he is just saying this to keep me around. I truely believe that he loves me...how long should I wait?

2007-01-15 08:21:38 · 49 answers · asked by beachbum_susie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

well me and my grams were really close and about 3 years ago my mom and her got in a fight and she has not called us or wrote sence then at first i blamed my mom then her then myself ive tryed to talk to her but my mom took away her addess book and erased all signs of her ive tryed to talk to my momr but every time i try my mom tells me to shut up about her and leave she says if she dosent care about u u should not care about her i keep trying and every time she says that i yell at her i've try talking to other realitves but it dosent work ive prayed to god every day and she dosent call or wright what to i do cause ever sence she left my life has gotten harder and sadder no one in my house cares that i want to speak to her can any one help me please

2007-01-15 08:21:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Recently there has been a guy that i met while he is workin behind a bar, and we get on really well. but he has a girlfriend. He has told me he is tempted by me, but would never cheat on his girlfirend, plus i wouldnt let this happen as i have been the girl that has been cheated ON.

Last night we were talking and having a laugh, and he told me that people are now ''talking'' about whats going on. i was upset, and i told him i would stay away for a while but he said he would be so angry !

i think he likes me, as he has made this clear, and i do like him, but we both respect our current positions.

Im just wondering, should i wipe this from my head as hard as it is. i cant stop thinkin about him.

what do i do???

2007-01-15 08:20:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is a flight attendant and loves being away because she can just relax. Then she expects to come home and for me to be all lovey dovey with her. After she has CHOSEN to be away from me 8-10 nights a month. I know she loves me but I want her to want to be home more. I try not to be selfish but quitting would be the best for our marriage. Its un-natural. But it has to be her decision.

2007-01-15 08:20:28 · 4 answers · asked by thunder92 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am quite ugly, and short 5'5, it is very difficult for me to start conversation with girl, as you know look is first impression then personality, so if a girl not every respond to you’re hi, how you going to show her personality... I go to the bar, only way they talk to me if I buy them drink, and then they disappeared, like this weekend I brought drink for about ten girls and spend more then 300 dollars, not even one girl spend more then five minute talking with me .If I give a smile to girl at bar/sport club/shop/restaurant/work, no body smile back to me.. So how I start conversation and if I say hi, they look me with bad face. I am new to the area, so not many friends... B/c of my look, even my coworkers don’t let me come with them when they go out for drinks/party etc...

So where I go, it means I will remain single for the rest of my life...I try online service, things go well till they see my picture... I am professional and financially stable…but very lonelyyyyyyyyyy..

2007-01-15 08:20:09 · 18 answers · asked by mopugh s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 08:18:46 · 6 answers · asked by Momma D 1 in Friends

My 10 year old daughter goes to bible study on sunday nights. She has this little christmas elf that she takes everywhere and thinks that it moves and can hear her. She brought him to bible study and showed and talked about it to the other girls. Since then the other girls have called her a bi*ch, stupid, wierd and other not so nice things. Now she does not want to go there anymore, and yes I called and told her bible study teacher, and she said that they owe her an apology and she will talk to them and thier parents. Should I make her go back, even though she will probably be hated more for me saying something about it.

2007-01-15 08:17:48 · 7 answers · asked by zoe 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife and I got married about a year ago and we started out very strong. We fell deeply in love and neither of us really ever had that feeling with another human being before. Over the course of the year, we started falling back on old patterns of behaving and started seeing negative in each other and started nit picking each other. We also started fighting a lot over control issues (money, blending the children issues, ex. issues, in laws). It seems that we both resorted to try and get control over the relationship and the deep love was replaced by controlling behavior and independent sometimes selfish motives. Now we’re trying to get back to respecting and loving each other again. It’s been a real roller coaster trying to get things back the way they used to be. Part of me wants that deep intimate in love feeling we used to have. I’m trying to look at all the arguing as part of a normal adjustment phase. We lost some respect for each other and are now trying to reinvent our marriage. Is arguing during the first year and losing some respect for your partner normal in adjusting to marriage? The more I think about it (even though the arguing seemed intense sometimes) I think it’s part of a marriage phase to fall in love, realize your partner isn’t perfect and things bug you, argue a lot, accept their faults, and then move toward cooperation. I was married before and never argued (I think that was our problem). Just need some folks to tell me if this is normal for the first year. We still love each other to death but issues after marriage were very hard to adjust to and it seems we made a lot of mistakes and disrespected each other a lot when arguing.

2007-01-15 08:17:14 · 6 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok im 15. everytime i get out of the house i go party.my friends & i will sit around 4 awhile then call some people & go party. we usually drink talk & listen 2 some really awesome jams so we can dance. when im at home alone i sit & have my own party with my sister. we usually drink &watch some funny movies. i always want 2 go out & have fun. but is there a time when i need 2 stop? during the week im usually hard on myself so i dont do bad n school. but on the weekends im always wanting 2 party. even sometimes during the week im wanting 2 go out & have fun. am i having 2 much fun or does it just seem that way. i would like 2 know if im having way 2 much fun. but i love it & want 2 party.

2007-01-15 08:17:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

He does absolutely nothing around the house, will not stay home for more than ten minutes, is 17 years old, every other word is a lie, does drugs, and acts totally immature. His father is doing the best he can, his mother has washed her hands of him a long time ago, and to me he is totally out of control. I feel like my marriage is going quickly down the tubes because of him, even though his father tells me that we are fine, he just has to work out all these issues with him. Without meaning to, he takes out his frustrations on me, not physically, just verbally and always apologizes after. He is very much a man in admitting that he is wrong. Even so, I dont know how much more I can take this in my life, it disrupts my household every single day. The two other teenagers in my house, mine, are for the most part under control and very respectful of us both. I am at my wits end............

2007-01-15 08:17:01 · 12 answers · asked by stepmiss 1 in Family

I looked on my bf phone and seen that he called his ex at 2:00am and I got his phone and I threw it against the wall and said what is that about get out of my place and its over he said it was a stupid act and his so sorry for doing this. He has cheated on me in the past but forgave him and I just don't trust him, its just so hard to get over this I feel hurt and he wants to come back what should I do? this is my daughter's father we are 25. I'm just tired but its hard. Thanks everyone answering appriciate it very much.

2007-01-15 08:14:56 · 36 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Singles & Dating

When I confronted him about it he lied at first. Later on he told me that he did get the phone number because she is a computer student and offered her help with his computer. He didn't tell me about it because I am "insecure and jealous." He is angry at his co-worker about telling me about it but claims that there was no flirtatious intentions in his conversation with this girl. How would you feel about this matter?

2007-01-15 08:14:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i find such a guy? i m pretty and smart

2007-01-15 08:14:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She needs a job, we live in Michigan. Does anyone have any suggestions , as to where a girl with ADHD can go for a job something probably part-time to start, that would be fun yet challenging for her

2007-01-15 08:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by ssmithblueskies 2 in Other - Family & Relationships