Everyday from the time I get on the bus for school till I get home I am made fun of and tormented by almost everyone. Sometimes they kick me around but most often its just verbal things they all do to make fun of me. I try to ignore them but it gets so loud and I am so embarrased and I just want it to stop. A lot of it comes from the girls who I guess feel I am gross and like to make fun of me. Every night I feel dread because I know I have to get up the next morning and face it all again without end. A lot of these kids are really popular and good students and I know they are nice to other people and most of what they say is probably true of me but my parents make me go to school so I don't know what to do. I really want to die. I wish I wasn't me
2007-01-15 08:23:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to the school counselor and to your parents.Most schools have bullies just remember they are the needy ones. No one can build themselves up by putting others down.You are just as,if not more,special as they are.And shame on the bus driver for not putting a stop to it.The adults around you are letting you down right now so talk to them again.Maybe they will listen this time.Be strong and if you need someone to talk to ..E-Mail me.
2007-01-15 08:47:05 · answer #1 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not say what they tease you about, what ever it is it is wrong, but that doesn't help you right now, so lets do that. I am assuming that what ever the problem is to do with some thing you have little or no control over, either because it is a body condition eg, height, weight, colour,. it doesn't really matter what because you need help with your self esteem because they are kicking the living he// out of it, Is there any one you trust that can help you with this, I would suggest talking to a good councillor about this and do not let them tell you you need to anything about your visible problem, as I said you need to have the confidence to face and put in their place all those who tease you, and if you have been facing the torment all this time getting the confidence to face then is going to be easy. You are a survivor , and that is a great step so please go and ask for help,, if you wish email me , I don't know what I can do but you can at least have a person who cares and understands
2007-01-15 08:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is important that you report this to teachers and counselors at school and to your parents and ask for help.
You need to develop some self respect. You seem to believe what they say is true. This is disrespectful to yourself. Take care of yourself, your grooming, Walk proud and tall. Smile. Stand up for yourself. You do not need to get into a fight to do this. Know that many children experience this, and it will not last your entire life.
Understand that those who do this are themselves very insecure and that is why they do this.
Become a friend to some one. That is right you become thier friend rather than looking for someone to by your friend. There are people out there who need your friendship.
Learn to do something well and take pride in it. Compliment the achievements of others even those you pick on you.
Show some self respect to get respect. Not everyone will like you. Understand you only need one person to. That one person might be an adult or a small child. It does not mattere. Focus on being a person who cares about other people.
2007-01-15 09:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I really think you should talk to your parents about your problems or maybe go to a counselor. Your situation is very unfortunate, and it IS hard to deal with. But hang in there. I promise it will get better. If possible, you should try to change schools, or maybe get home schooled.
Also, what do they say about you? Maybe you can fix those things if it will make them stop saying those things.
Hang in there, and remember, not everyone is as mean as those kids.
2007-01-15 08:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell somebody at school,or the bus driver,thats wrong,we are all equal,do your parents know about this?dont talk of dying,please,thats not the answer,they want you to feel bad,do you have friends at school,to ride home with you ?surely you parents will stand up for you
2007-01-15 08:43:34 · answer #5 · answered by con55_98 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL your parents and/or a teacher you trust. Tell them you can't and don't want to deal with this anymore. You have to stop this. there is no reason why u should have to put up with this. Stand up for yourself! Speak up! Don't allow it to happen.
2007-01-15 08:42:09 · answer #6 · answered by candiec2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a conselor or a teacher. That's harrassment and it's illegal.
2007-01-15 08:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by chickidy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would definally tell your parnets and teacher because that isn't right what those kids are doing to you
2007-01-15 08:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by bleedgreen108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋