Guys only likes girls if they are hot, but how do I get a guy who likes me for who I am and NOT how I look?
2007-01-15 08:26:27 · 15 answers · asked by kimmz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men ask the same question of women. How can we find a good one while ignoring all the "gold-diggers?" It comes down to morals.
2007-01-15 08:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Patrick L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called dating and it sucks! It is a bit of trial and error as far as finding a good person in the bunch. Trust me it was not any easier from the guys side of the fence! If you are finding that all the guys you date are shallow or dishonest then it is time to switch up what you are looking for. Start going out with some guys that you would usually overlook. You will find out quickly that if you mix it up a little Like: go to different places, talk to different guys that you would normally not talk to, talk to a guy on the streets or in a coffee shop! You might find that it is not just that there are a lot of shallow people out in the world but that you have been short changing yourself. If can't open your own mind and give it a shot, someone might be calling you shallow... Good Luck
2007-01-15 16:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by dfgrace22 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the deal. You're not going to ever know somebody until...well ...until you get to know them. And that only comes with spending time with somebody. You can't tell if somebody is shallow just by looking at them. You just have to date/meet people, and get to know them. Sure, you're bound to meet shallow people out there, but that's part of dating. But you're also bound to meet good, honest people who'll be attracted to you for everything you have to offer them.
I guess my point is that, you really can't get guys without the shallow ones, because there really is no quick formula to help out with something like that. Just remember always to be honest with yourself, and you really have to have a good understanding of what you want in a person, and just as important, what you DON'T want in a person.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 16:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by allthree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know him a little first then you can find out about him, and tell him about you, if you get on very well together then he proberly ikes you, but you need to find some one, i can't say that i soley pick a girl on looks, not many guys with half a brain do that, they realise they need something else, a lot of clever guys will like you for you, if you get on with them, they are proberly the least shallow, and most of em, they would be flattered and want to go out with you, happened to me!
2007-01-15 16:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself... when your around other people still act like youself! and talk to guys who act the same no matter what... guys want to be w/ girls their attracted to... but if u ask me.. looks arent everything
2007-01-15 16:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by Chitownshottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was in your situation I will probably become a member or volunteer of a non-profit organization, a reading club,etc. (Something you will also enjoy obviously). I met a lot of quality people in places like this.
2007-01-15 16:33:42 · answer #6 · answered by Kubricksmind 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are who you are. If you are hot be yourself. Hot girls are not hot because of their looks but for their inner self.
2007-01-15 16:31:35 · answer #7 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop looking in shallow places
2007-01-15 16:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Faith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be ugly and then if someone likes,you'll know its for the right reasons!! Lol!
2007-01-15 16:29:21 · answer #9 · answered by tayandcam4ever 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not only looks you have to have brains and a good personality
2007-01-15 16:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋