She is a flight attendant and loves being away because she can just relax. Then she expects to come home and for me to be all lovey dovey with her. After she has CHOSEN to be away from me 8-10 nights a month. I know she loves me but I want her to want to be home more. I try not to be selfish but quitting would be the best for our marriage. Its un-natural. But it has to be her decision.
2007-01-15 08:20:28 · 4 answers · asked by thunder92 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I say enjoy the 20 days she is home a month! If she is not happy you will NEVER be happy. I would love to have the home to myself for 8 days a month!
2007-01-15 08:25:53 · answer #1 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is only away for 8-10 nights a month what are you complaining about? That is an adverage of 2 nights or so a week. It could be much worse. How would it be if she worked an overnight shift...and was away from your bed 5 nights a week? There are many couples that have to live working opposite schedules to make ends meet. You should be glad that she has a job that doesn't keep her away for weeks at a time and that she loves. I will assume that she had that job BEFORE you got married...if you had a problem with her traveling then you should have discussed it with her then. If she got the job after you got married you should have discussed it proir to her taking it. Would you quit your job? Would you like it if she told you YOUR job was UN-NATURAL? It sounds like you want what you want when you want it and her thoughts, feelings and happiness don't count. Why don't you work on your marriage when your together and quit worrying about those two days a week when you get the bed to yourself. Marriage isn't about living in one anothers arm-pit all the time.
2007-01-15 08:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
LOL I was once a scientific scholar and my husband suggestion that it was once this type of waste whilst I give up the primary time. After we had children, he noticed what occurs in faculties at the moment and we began homeschooling. Plus he traveled for paintings and we could pass with him. When our youngsters had been unwell or whilst he was once, I took care of it. Then he noticed the change in our loved ones in comparison to others and it was once to our expertise. He acquired to peer and experience our youngsters much more on account that I was once equipped to be a mother at residence. Our children acquired to peer the complete u.s.a. and no longer simply learn it in a booklet. You see, matters occur for a cause. Be pleased that she wishes to check out different matters. When the momma is pleased, everyone pleased!
2016-09-07 23:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by malboeuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if she likes her job you should be supportive. That is what people do for eachother in a marriage. As far as wanting to come home and you be romantic, I don't blame her. She probably DOES miss you, fool. I don't think that it is is right for you to demand that she quit.
2007-01-15 08:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by swtz69drmz 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋