Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

Please please answer this for us women. I share children with my Ex and when he's single...he's genuine, nice, and easy to get along. BUT when he gets a new girlfriend, he's cold, distant, hard to get along with and somewhat arrogant. (For those of you wondering....No I haven't done anything to provoke him.) WWHHHYYYYY is this? Please shed some light or I'm going to have to hurt him!

2007-01-15 13:23:14 · 16 answers · asked by Lisa W 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay if you have read any of my previous questions then you'll know my boyfriend broke up with me about 2 weeks ago...this past friday his best friend came up to me and said that he thinks im getting hotter but he got a new gf the day after he told me i was out! Why did he tell his friends this? What does it mean?
im over him and accpeted the fact that he has a new gf but im just confused if he broke up with me why is he saying stuff? Or is he just playing with my head and trying to hurt me more...oh and he called me friday night for some reason...i havent spoken to him since we broke up...Im really confused help me please!

2007-01-15 13:22:15 · 13 answers · asked by Zee 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend tries to take advantage of me.
He tries to choose my friends.
He whipes things on me
He tries to keep me all to him self.
He wont let ANY ONE else near me or he will consider it dumping him.
I really love him but he just gets to over protective and demanding.

Should i dump him?
or just do what i do every day.. try to convince him to stop......

2007-01-15 13:21:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my friends is writing a song for his gf, but I can't really say anything, since I'm like simon cowell. It's supposed to be a slow song.

1st Verse
Know, that you’re my heart and soul
Let go, and we can make it through
Together, then we will have a chance

Fly, no need to run away
Just try, and we will show them all
Forever, a storybook romance

Chorus
Love is a-complicated
So you know, don’t act so jaded
You’re my star in the sky,
so don’t ask me why
If our love is even real
But if there’s one thing you should know
Before I have to go,
It’s how you feel

2nd Verse
And now, there is no need to talk
Allow, our love to soar across
The sky, I’ll never let you cry

Repeat chorus

bridge
Girl, I’m trembling with fear, but I can’t let me show
How we should never part
But now I know, with the moonlit glow
Here’s a promise from my heart

Repeat chorus
Plz be honest, he's only a love-struck teenager age 15

The more opinions of any kind, the better!

2007-01-15 13:21:51 · 4 answers · asked by Luna 4 in Singles & Dating

what do you when you love some who saids that they hate you and that you are stupid and a dumb b****? then they fight you like you are a man? but you love them and you have children together and both of you want to raise them? i know what i should do but i love him

2007-01-15 13:21:50 · 13 answers · asked by jumiboo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 13:21:41 · 22 answers · asked by cowhstone 1 in Marriage & Divorce

see my problem is that, some people know me as a shy quite girl..and then when they do get to know me there like o wow she has a great personality..its really strange because now when i meet new people im more open and not shy at all...and then all the old people that met me before see me quite so i just stay quite and i get myself in bad situations. like now i like this guy alot, and he has tried to talk to me on more than one occasion but i just can't say much and i feel really stupid for doing it, but theres just that part of me that holds me back because i am afraid of what i say,and i just dont have that much confidence in myself..like other girls..so i just dont know what to do!

2007-01-15 13:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 13:21:27 · 12 answers · asked by allanstrada01 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends bother me all day with that...! can someone tell me what it is?

2007-01-15 13:20:14 · 2 answers · asked by shalalamx 1 in Friends

i have a friend from there and thats like all she talks about. so what do you think? is it true?

2007-01-15 13:20:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-15 13:19:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got in a lot of trouble at school and with my dad and anyway long story short my dad is making me write letters of apology to every adult that I was disrespectful too and until I get each signed I am grounded. So anyways today I went to my English teacher to ask her to read and sign mine and she was like I need to read it in front of the whole class and I was like no that would be embarrassing could you please just sign it. Then she says, Lori, I don't think you mean a word of this and I don't accept it and she tore up my letter. I was like how could you do that I am grounded until you sign it and she goes well I hope you're grounded until you're 18 then. I wanted to scream I was so upset so I started crying but I couldn't say what I really felt because I can't risk getting in any more trouble or I might get sent to military school. This is completely unfair. What should I do? My dad has to work late and I have not been able to tell him about this.

2007-01-15 13:19:43 · 32 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Family

2007-01-15 13:19:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i moved in with my boyfriend and his roomates about a year ago. he had the smallest room (which i then shared with him) and the biggest room with its own bath belonged to sara, the only other girl in the house. last summer, sara decided she would move out soon; it was then agreed that me and my boyfriend should get her room because there were 2 of us sharing one room and both of us were paying full rent. about a month later, sara's boyfriend, chris, moved in with us and stayed with her in her room, of course. 2 weeks ago, sara moved out and chris refuses to give up that room, he has even put an extra lock on the door so no one can get in. he refuses to talk to us or compromise on the room situation. he told me that he is already in that room and is not moving, especially since i dont count as a real roommate because i'm a girl and just moved in with my boyfriend. the other roommates refuse to get involved in the fight. both him and my bf are on the lease, i'm not. what should we do?

2007-01-15 13:18:58 · 10 answers · asked by samishae 2 in Friends

Me and my boyfriend have great sex..I mean, he is the only guy to ever give me the BIG O. But I still like to use a vibrating toy (not a dildo or anything..not a fan) because I think it would add some lil extra fun. My bf knows i have it, but he wont let me use it when its the 2 of us because he thinks its too weird...he doesnt even watch porn (try to tell me im naive and im lying, but i live with him, and its not something that interests him) He says the only thing he needs to get turned on is me, and thats sweet, but i still wouldnt mind bringing in a lil spice. Altho, hes not apposed to handcuffs(which we are yet to try) or even edible body paints (which we have tried) so if those arnt weird to him, why would the vibrator be???

2007-01-15 13:18:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have this boy that i went with last year then i broke up with him i dont know why though but he made me jealous as hell and went with another gurl to make me jealous, this year this happened friday we ditched lunch and were walking around the building and lunch was over so we were walking upstairs all of a sudden he grabs me and pulls me close and drops me on the floor and trying to imatate doggy style then I get up and he playfully slams me against the wall and touches me and he says i kno you want to go with me and i dont know why but i do then i dont and then i walk up the stairs another flight when i am about to open the door he comes up behind me again and i pretend to be mad on the inside i am happy as hell and he says why you acting mad i dont say nothing but since we are not in the same class i am hapopy i am not late for social studies and i want to go with him but then again i dont.

2007-01-15 13:17:37 · 9 answers · asked by A. 2 in Singles & Dating

This is me and lover's official first Valentine's Day. I am not sure what I should do. I and hoping and praying that I dont have to work. Can anybody out there tell me what should I do.

2007-01-15 13:17:10 · 7 answers · asked by liyah2hot_2001 2 in Singles & Dating

I can't get this guy like out of my head. We dated for a bit but i'm losing it. I've gots to talk to him or i go depressed && end up crazy. The only thing that helps mee is if I just "be mean" && say really cruel things about him to my friends or some people that absolutely hate him.. but the way he treated mee keeps popping in my head.

The sad thing is I've gots another crush now too that is tottally the bad version of my ex.

2007-01-15 13:17:09 · 10 answers · asked by Helen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy im inlove with and he is my bestfriends brother. Im 13 and he just turned 16. On my birthday he called me and wished me a happy birthday and i called him on his birthday. He also invited me to his birhtday party and didn't invite his sister's other friends. He told me he is gonna marry me one day and said it afew times to his family. He tells his friends how pretty i am. Sometimes he stares at me and compliments me, and when we are in a group together and im quiet he will either talk to me or ask me why im so quiet. His brother also teased him once he was like ooo you have a crush on Sam [which is me] and he didn't say no he turned red, said shut up and walked away, but i wasn't there to witness it. He also mentions me when im not present. The thing is he calls me bro and told me if i need anything he will be there for me he said im like a sister. But i don't think he likes me, i think he is just being nice. Or am i wrong ?

2007-01-15 13:16:10 · 13 answers · asked by Lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

ew, wrinkeled, saggy boobs. gross.

2007-01-15 13:14:37 · 13 answers · asked by DEVIL IN A BLUE DRESS 3 in Singles & Dating

Does being a divorced male make me more or less attractive, or neither? Ladies, I could use your opinions on this one.

2007-01-15 13:14:26 · 13 answers · asked by Steve 1 in Singles & Dating

At school Im a geek but I try not to be but my friend is a teacher pet and she keep makeing me look like one also plus there are only three white kids in my class and Im one of them is that a prroblem

2007-01-15 13:13:37 · 9 answers · asked by Danielle p 1 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, what is something that a guy has done that shows chivalry is not dead?

Guys, why do you not open doors etc more often for women, i'm telling ya it'll help get the ladies!

The cutest thing a guy did for me (he is only a friend not a very close one) but he lifted me over a puddle, i thought it was very cute and lovely.

2007-01-15 13:13:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so the boy i have already asked questions about well ummm like in july he was at my house at like 3 in tha morning and like my parents found out and they thoguth we had done something and we didnt and im really not lieing so anyways i wasnt allowed to talk to him nemore well im allowed to tlk to him now but like im nto agina cuz like right b4 christmas my pdad got mad at him n his friends cuz they rode there bikes past my house so im not allowed to tlak to him agian but im still talkin to him cuz i love him and i dont like ti when they tell me not to tlk to the boy i love so what should i do??? and its mainly my dad my mom tried to help me but my dad dont listen so what should i do to convience him what he is donig is hurting me???

2007-01-15 13:12:43 · 8 answers · asked by leslie vaughn 1 in Singles & Dating

When you are a victim of abuse, who is there to help protect and prove to the courts what is really going on, if you don't have the money to investigate what needs to be done, and the threat was not physical, so you can't get a PFA. There are shelters and support groups and what not, but what happens when the financial lines are cut off and taken away, and your are not able to work do to health issues?

2007-01-15 13:12:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have our problems and have been talking about divorce for quite some time. Really the only problem that I have is that he is in such a bad mood all of the time. He can just wake up from sleep and be mad for no obvious reason. I just don't understand why...........and don't know what to do to make it better.

2007-01-15 13:12:36 · 15 answers · asked by brandy_nichole_00 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 13:12:29 · 2 answers · asked by Alisha W 3 in Friends

or do like it better straightened? I have blonde hair with waves and I wish it were straight! What do you think is more attractive?

2007-01-15 13:11:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know we're not actually related...but it seems a bit wierd. she is really hot though

2007-01-15 13:10:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i broke up with him 6 months ago after a big fight and still miss him more than anything. any songs? thanks in advance. God bless.

2007-01-15 13:09:40 · 6 answers · asked by asdfjl; 1 in Singles & Dating