My husband and I have our problems and have been talking about divorce for quite some time. Really the only problem that I have is that he is in such a bad mood all of the time. He can just wake up from sleep and be mad for no obvious reason. I just don't understand why...........and don't know what to do to make it better.
2007-01-15 13:12:36 · 15 answers · asked by brandy_nichole_00 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You say that your husband is always in a bad mood and you do not know why? when men/women start to find fault for any little thing that makes them mad with their mates could be infidelity or a problem they can not solve at work, or maybe a bigger problem concerning their health, who knows why, but if I were you I would ask my husband what it is that you do wrong for him to become angry. Or if it is another woman that is in his life to tell you about it and tell him to move out because if it is another woman when he gets over this one he will eventually do it to you again. Nobody deserves to have their lives a living hell, because if he is the one causing problems in your marriage end it as soon as you can. Save your sanity before you lose it. Good luck and I hope you can solve this dilemma.
2007-01-15 13:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's not a reason to get divorced. It's a reason to get the person you love, assuming you love your husband, some help. Sometimes medications like steroids can cause anger issues, other times it could be an underlying medical condition for example changes in personality and temperment could be a result of a brain tumour or thyroid problem or even a mental illness like depression, anxiety or even something more serious like bipolar disorder or schizophrenia. You need to convince your husband to talk with a medical doctor about his problem. The doctor should be able to either help or refer you both to someone who can more appropriately deal with your husbands problem. You did marry for better for worse didn't you? This is for worse right now.
2007-01-15 13:28:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your husband under a lot of stress? It's possible that he doesn't know how to deal with it and anger is the easy way. If he is the breadwinner and has a multitude of responsibilities in both work and personal life then maybe the added stress of talking divorce is making it worse. Why don't you try to talk about the reasons you should make your marriage work rather than the ones to take it apart.
2007-01-15 13:40:28 · answer #3 · answered by bobs*chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like depression to me. Had the same problem and didn't realise it until the whole family went to marriage cousiling. I lost the wife but gained a whole new line of thinking. I would have never gone to a shrink on my own but went as part of marriage counseling. At one point the doc wants to talk to each one alone and that really helps. Therfor this is a way to get the hubby to go see a shrink which is was he needs whether you stay together or not. my present wife has a lot of anger, too when it comes to me and i just feel sorry for her cause i would not want to live my life with all that anger.
2007-01-15 13:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by La-z Ike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is constantly in a bad mood, there must be a reason for it. Have you tried talking to him about what's wrong ? You need to communicate in order to find out what his problem is. You can not possibly make it better if you don't know what it is that is making him angry in the first place . All l can suggest is to discuss your concerns with him. Best of luck
2007-01-15 14:17:29 · answer #5 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 05:38:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, anger can be an addiction. He could also be depressed. There is not one thing you can do to make him feel better except take him to a psych. Perhaps he doesn't even realize that he needs help, but you need to take him to a doctor, because it sounds like he needs help.
2007-01-15 13:18:32 · answer #7 · answered by pansyskunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is exactly the same way. someone suggested Bipolar Disorder (look it up on the internet) the page gives you a set of questions to answer (yes or no) and it will explain the symptoms.
It turns out that's what mine has, and it can be successfully treated.
2007-01-15 13:23:13 · answer #8 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is he so upset all of the time? It may be a medical problem with him... Have him see a doctor with you and see what is going on with him... Is he open to marriage counseling with you? He may have an anger problem and may need anger management help and classes.... Please try to love and help him through this is all I am saying.
2007-01-15 13:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something about his life is making him seriously unhappy. His job, his wife, his lifestyle, his bad habits, his guilt, his friends (or lack thereof) his wife's bad habits, his wife's lifestyle, lack of attention, lack of sex......the list is endless ...
You need to find out what is making him so unhappy, if he refuses to communicate things out with you, maybe it's time to move on, since you've already entertained the idea of doing so.
2007-01-15 13:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋