see my problem is that, some people know me as a shy quite girl..and then when they do get to know me there like o wow she has a great personality..its really strange because now when i meet new people im more open and not shy at all...and then all the old people that met me before see me quite so i just stay quite and i get myself in bad situations. like now i like this guy alot, and he has tried to talk to me on more than one occasion but i just can't say much and i feel really stupid for doing it, but theres just that part of me that holds me back because i am afraid of what i say,and i just dont have that much confidence in myself..like other girls..so i just dont know what to do!
2007-01-15 13:21:30 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be so "into yourself". Ask them questions about themselves to help you get to know them and people love to talk about themselves, which sure isn't the case with you.
People will like you so the old cliche "just be yourself" holds true, unless you are obnoxious,etc. and am sure that isn't the case with you. I bet you are a great person to get to know-so get out there and meet the world as YOU.
2007-01-23 13:16:36 · answer #1 · answered by marlynembrindle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just "come out of your shell" and be more confident, you say you've done it before and ppl like your confident side, so why not show it more often!!
2007-01-15 22:56:11 · answer #2 · answered by f.lipped 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋