Me and my boyfriend have great sex..I mean, he is the only guy to ever give me the BIG O. But I still like to use a vibrating toy (not a dildo or anything..not a fan) because I think it would add some lil extra fun. My bf knows i have it, but he wont let me use it when its the 2 of us because he thinks its too weird...he doesnt even watch porn (try to tell me im naive and im lying, but i live with him, and its not something that interests him) He says the only thing he needs to get turned on is me, and thats sweet, but i still wouldnt mind bringing in a lil spice. Altho, hes not apposed to handcuffs(which we are yet to try) or even edible body paints (which we have tried) so if those arnt weird to him, why would the vibrator be???
2007-01-15 13:18:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to confirm it..my vibrator is the size of a bean..it shouldnt be threatning to a guys manhood. I am fullfilled sexually with just my bf, but thought the toy would add just a lil extra kick..ya know?
2007-01-15 13:36:07 · update #1
Take it slow and continue to discuss it with him. It took a long time for my spouse to entertain the idea, but once she did WOW! Life has gotten better. Not that she never satisfied my needs before but the pleasure for both of us has really heightened. Keep the communication open and be patient. Good Luck.
2007-01-15 13:29:36 · answer #1 · answered by 4kids2pay4 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try the rocking robin it is a vibrator that is attached to him it fit over his penis so that his penis become the dildo and has a vibrator on the top for you..now it only is good if he is above 6 inches because it does take a inch away and it has a vibrator for his balls as well.. it is really great and maybe that wont make him feel like the dildo is replacement for him .. which i think may be his promblem with it
2007-01-15 13:24:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 06:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys aren't just into it. I know that it took me a while to feel comfortable with my boyfriend (now husband) and using any toys in the bedroom. If he knows that you have it and that you use it then leave it at that, he just might take an interest later on. But if not...enjoy yourself and try new things with him. He just might like it eventually.
2007-01-15 13:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just intimidated by it. In his mind it could be like he's not really satisfying you if you need to bring the vibrator in the mix. You know that men's egos are fragile especially when it comes to sex. Talk to him about it and reassure him that it's not about your lack of satisfaction but more about variety. But if he still doesn't want to include it, don't push him.
2007-01-15 13:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your in line it may take him awile to come around on this
If he don't you could say no to some of his Ideals as well you Known making love is a two way stert Man you are so cool Rick
2007-01-15 13:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by rickkritcher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foreplay? Play with it when you are giving him favors and see if you can't get him to. Put the cuffs on him and set it up there so that the two of you can feel it, while you are riding your cowboy. As for movies just get some monies with good sex scenes and work up to better movies.
2007-01-15 13:25:32 · answer #7 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys find the whole device a bit of a threat to their, ummm, 'manhood'.
personally i think toys are great fun to use with a partner. You should really talk to him about this.
2007-01-15 13:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by darklydrawl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Possibly he see's it as an aide for him to please you. Emasculating him. He's into trying hand cuffs and enjoys the body paints (both of which my girlfriend and I use from time to time) it sounds like you already have some spice. Try using both at the same time. Compromise.
2007-01-15 13:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by no name brand canned beans 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am having the same problem with my boyfriend!! My man just gets very insecure that a plastic toy can make you feel as good as he can. take him to lover's lane and discuss with him what he feels comfortable with. You wont regret it ; )
2007-01-15 13:23:04 · answer #10 · answered by cdani425 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋