Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

2007-01-15 18:18:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in my second year of college and well anyway I was at this party and there were these three guys standing near me and I heard them tallking about me and saying my name and then I heard one guy say "dude, don't even bother she is such a prude" and then they left and went to another room. And its not just them I have heard other guys say this about me as well, even one of my ex-boyfriends?!


So my questions are:
-Why do so many guys think I am such a prude ?
-Am I really a prude ?


Other Details:
-I am 19
-I am a virgin
-I am waiting till marriage to have sex and I wear my promise ring with pride
-I don't kiss until at least the third date
-I don't drink, smoke, or do drugs (I never have and never will)
-I never curse (It just sounds dirty)
-I love to travel and try new things (I am very outgoing)

2007-01-15 18:15:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Where on the guys body??? And what tattoos are the most attractive???
Tribal??? Pictoral??? Silly??? Military??? Kanji (Japanese)??? Or something else???

2007-01-15 18:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by Forlorn Hope 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

GOOD JOKE.... u have to live with her ...now the rich lady takes u to the cleaner now the poor girl love u will u go back to her...love is in question it a joke u firgure it out might be fortune wisdom comes now tell me ya explanation to a lame man i ask any man any man on earth experience it my joke right or wrong love is in question men answers only....

2007-01-15 18:13:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im needing some suggestions for Valentines Day....I don't want to go out and buy my hubby something i want to do something for him or make him something thats unique....something that holds true meaning...I thought about doing a scavenger hunt in our house and just buying 10 items or so and make him find them..or making a coupon book....im just not sure..I would really like some ideas from some guys...guys know what guys like...and i dont want any of that "have sex with him" crap either...something romantic....

2007-01-15 18:12:35 · 8 answers · asked by Meagan M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know your always reading questions like this but here is my situation, i have a crush on my asstanct manger at work. he is 6 years older then me. ive liked him for over a year! he is single and we talk, i get confused over weather he likes me in that way or not? he is mean to me, but only in a teasing way. i asked him "why are you always mean to me. do you not like me?" and he said " no i do like you, if i didnt ,you would know coz i would ignore you or get you to do shitty jobs and stuff" immature answer i know. but so i thought, then is he mean to me in a flirting way? he is nice to me sometimes, sharing his food on break when im hungrey : ) stuff like that.

aww i get confused. do you think he likes me but he thinks im too young for him? or is it coz he is asstanct manger?

i should move on? aye ?
i just get confused when im working with him because he sometimes gives signs that he likes me.

although i could be taking it the wrong way?

2007-01-15 18:11:45 · 8 answers · asked by lily 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to date my friend but hes 2 yrs older than me and in highschol. i also have a really HOT guy that wants 2 date me at my scholl but is obsessed w/ sex.....what do i do??
Who would u choose?
u cant choose no one..... so HELP MEEEEE!!!!

2007-01-15 18:11:41 · 6 answers · asked by baby_blue_honey 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been through some bad times I cheated once she cheated once. The difference is that I was falsely jailed because she got mad at me. I went one month without seeing my 2 boys and was torn apart. I took her back but now am unhappy and ready to move on. We tried counseling and it wasn't enough. Now she won't go to a new counselor. she used to get violent and has a mean streak.

2007-01-15 18:10:33 · 18 answers · asked by atswitzer1969 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dearest Sexy,

Thank you again for being so good to me. You have a long history of sending very nice, poetic, thoughtful emails. I am not as creatively inclined but I'd like to tell you some things from the heart. You are full of kindness. I can trust you, and I have immense confidence in you. You have personal integrity which I find admirable, respectable, and endlessly attractive.

My life revolves around Nessa most of the time, and you have never made me feel bad about not being able to give you my full attention. I always knew I had to be extra careful in choosing who to spend time with because of having an impressionable, vulnerable young person in my care. Therefore I did not want to get in over my head too quickly, and lose sight of what is important. But I've gotten to know you over the past many months, and since I have a moment, I wanted to take the time to make sure you know how much I appreciate you.

First of all I want to thank you again for being so flexible and understanding. You see that I do not have the freedom of a single person, and even though you do not have a child of your own you understand as if you did. In fact you work together as a team when we're all together, especially the little details such as holding a door or helping with a jacket. Those things you do I deeply appreciate and make you a hero to me. I know you well enough to know that you're not just putting on an act, you are just a naturally helpful soul. Plus you set such a good example in front of my girl, and you can't even put a value on something like that especially when there has never been a good example like that in her life before. The fact you treat me well reflects back to her so it's a double good deed.

If I never got mixed up with a bad guy many years ago, if history could be changed I simply wish I could have had a child with you instead. Had we somehow been able to meet a decade ago, wouldn't things be different. The imagination can crank out endless possibilities but perhaps the right time never was back then, for either of us. We only have today, and the mystery of the future to work with. Fantasizing about what could have happened in the past is useless, so that leaves fantasizing about the future.

I don't believe in fate or destiny, I feel that what happens in life is largely influenced by acting upon what you want to happen. In a way I think it's a mistake to lay back and think "this was meant to be," because then people stop putting forth an effort and don't have to make decisions. And that line of thinking can also wrongly justify staying in a bad situation, such as in abuse-- such if someone already has it in their head that "this was meant to be," and is too stubborn to see things falling apart. So, even though it is romantic to think that you and I were "meant to be," I think it is far more more beautiful to know that some things really are in our control. I want you. (Not just sexually.) Today, and tomorrow, and thereafter, and I am willing to work for it and work with you to achieve mutual goals.

Thank you so much for being a part of my life. Thank you for coming into the New Year with me. This is very special to me. You are very special to me. You have given me hope and a sense of belonging. Sometime I feel like only now my life has really begun since I met you. Instead of trapping me, you have freed me. Since I do not have to rely on wishful thinking, I do not have to call you the man of my dreams. You are not a fantasy, you are a reality.

Love Pumpkin

2007-01-15 18:10:16 · 12 answers · asked by beat_this_program 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well this girl that goes to my school. Me and her friends are pretty close and we talk a lot, but for some reason, this girl never ever try talking to me or even say hi. When i pass her in the hall she just keeps on walking with her head down, or if i was with one of my friends, she would talk to them...shes friendly to pretty much everyone but just now me WHY!!!!!
....wats with her, does she hate me or something casue she doesnt show any body language that shows she likes me

2007-01-15 18:10:12 · 11 answers · asked by o.o 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a virgin.. enough said

2007-01-15 18:09:30 · 4 answers · asked by Giancarlos F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 18:08:42 · 3 answers · asked by starscamefallingdown 1 in Singles & Dating

Hypothetically speaking what if you were given the chance to walk in your presidents shoes while he took a break, from his duties.... i hear some of you complaining that he is not fulfilling the requirements as a president, but what would you do that would really make a difference? or make things any better?

2007-01-15 18:07:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, I'm 27 and I'm not new to the whole "dating scene", but I find it hard to introduce myself to women. To be completely honest, most women I've dated, I have met on the internet. No, it hasn't been the long distant type, it's usually someone local I meet in a chat room.

Here's the problem:

See, there's this girl that works at the gas station I stop at every night, and over the past few weeks, I've noticed that she's absolutely beautiful and intelligent. We always strike up casual conversation about the weather, work, and other minor stuff. I probably just suffer from fear of rejection, but whenever I meet an attractive girl, I always have had problems taking the conversation to the next step. I'm never quite sure how to go about asking for her number or even just giving her mine.

Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get over my fear? I know that I lack something in the confidence area, but I just want to know how to get over this.

2007-01-15 18:06:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it worth it i mean you going find some one else to fuss with any way . whay not stay with the one you can read like a book hay just asking

2007-01-15 18:06:40 · 5 answers · asked by runninglate 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she acts as if she is better then everyone else. she thinks that she is smarter and prettier than everyone else including her friends. she is extremely rude to everyone. i didnt know how much more i could take so i came up with an idea about changing her kinda like in the movie grease with sandy. she sort of agreed. now i need some ideas on what to do to get her to change her attitude. help!!! i might end up slapping her soon... or worse!!!

2007-01-15 18:05:43 · 1 answers · asked by ashes 1 in Friends

Last year there was this guy who really liked me, but I didn't like him as more than a friend. We remained friends (friends with benefits), but I know that I hurt him (I ended up liking his cousin). When I got back home, I realized that I really did like him, as more than a friend. We kept in touch through e-mail almost everyday, and I eventually told him that I wanted to get back together with him, as I decided to go back for another year of study abroad. We both decided we'd see how things went. Over the summer, he stopped e-mailing as much and when I got back, he kept making excuses not to hang out with me. He stopped talking to me altogether for a month and then texted saying he was sorry, he had had a friend who was really sick. We hung out for a couple of days. He then texted and told me that he didn't think he liked me as much as I seemed to like him and that he felt awkward around me. I don't understand as I know that he really liked me and now doesn't even want to be my friend

2007-01-15 18:05:36 · 8 answers · asked by Meg 1 in Singles & Dating

Or did it fail again?

Should you have just stayed apart to begin with?

2007-01-15 18:05:30 · 13 answers · asked by Misch 4 in Singles & Dating

We have been married a little over two years, and have had a few
disagreements, mostly over his quick temper.
I have tried repeatedly to get him to tell me why he is so imaptient with me, and all I get is either insults or 'nothing'.
I don't understand why he 'never' talks things out!
I have even suggested going to a councelor but that suggestion was 'quickly refused.
We have both been married before, my second, his forth.
I'm beginning to think he's always had this problem and thats why his marriages don't work.
All I know is, I cannot live in such a hostile atmosphere.
Thing is, he wasn't like this while we were dating, so why now..
Anyone have any suggestions please!!
The biggest problem we have is, he is so quick tempered and
snaps at me if i ask him a simple question like, the other day I
asked him if he had fed the dogs ( we both feed them) but i was
sick all day, and he snapped at me "well what the $%^# do you think". He does this a lot.

2007-01-15 18:04:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i've liked this guy for a while and he told me that he likes me and he knows that i like him. he says that he doesnt like relationships. is he telling me this because he doesnt want a relationship with me or because he just wants to hook up? what do i do?

2007-01-15 18:01:59 · 7 answers · asked by ashes 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend is getting married in June and has asked me to be a bridesmaid. We need to find good-looking, well-made wedding dresses and bride's maid dresses in the San Francisco Bay area. Please help and if you've bought one recently, tell us about your experience. Thanks!

2007-01-15 18:00:55 · 10 answers · asked by a1nos 2 in Weddings

2007-01-15 18:00:53 · 27 answers · asked by Tiffany 1 in Family

I'm in my mid thirties and dating a woman. Do women really expect sex? What if I don't want to have sex? Is sex a requirement for an intimate relationship?

I like her and don't want sex to get in the way.

2007-01-15 18:00:06 · 26 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

this guy and me have know each other about 7 months he had a girl when we first meet but after they broke up we have been really flirty and he is a shy guy. this asking me kinda came out of now where and he was really nervous when he asked.he asked me to go to his apartment and he was going to cook and stuff i went and we had a great time. he brought me my food and stuff and we ate and talked, watched this concert on tv and just talked alot. it ended with a sweet hug. was it a date or just a friendly get together?

2007-01-15 17:59:32 · 7 answers · asked by whatdoesitmatter05 2 in Singles & Dating

WHO SENT FRUIT CAKE OLD LADY W/ PICTURE? I JUST WANT YOU KNOW THAT YOU MADE MY DAY. I LAUGH SO HARD I ABOUT CRIED. IF THAT MAKES ME CRAZY THEN ITS A COMPLIMENT. AS THIS IS MY PASSION I DON'T KNOW IF I AM HELPING ANY ONE AT ALL. BUT I MUST KEEP TRYING. I WASTED SO MANY YEARS AND I OWE YOU GUYS ALOT. BUT I HOPE I DON'T HAVE THAT MANY WRINKLES JUST YET! THANKS FOR THE LAUGHTER AS IT IS MEDICINE TO MY HEART. LITTLE DEBBIE FRUIT CAKE TROLL

2007-01-15 17:59:22 · 3 answers · asked by powers4jesus 1 in Weddings

2007-01-15 17:58:31 · 11 answers · asked by girluknow2 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-15 17:58:27 · 13 answers · asked by corporate_boy2002 2 in Singles & Dating

Could my husband really be jealous b.o.b.? whats up? I dont understand cause it was his idea to get me one anyways!!!

I told my husband he needed to replace b.o.b. if he ever wants to have sex again! im mad.

b.o.b - battery operated boyfriend

2007-01-15 17:57:09 · 14 answers · asked by smilingontime 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 17:54:13 · 20 answers · asked by realist86 3 in Singles & Dating

wat would be the best way to come out of the closet?.....plz....i dont know how...like to family first then friends or the other way around?....or like in a group or 1 by 1

2007-01-15 17:54:10 · 14 answers · asked by Gamerz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships