would you make a woman/man your girlfriend/boyfriend after you found out they where a n exotic dancer??

Answer 1

No, because I don't want to end up carrying so much emotional baggage beyond my own.

No, because an exotic dancer is already in the business of exploiting men.

No, because people in any aspect of the adult entertainment industry lose the ability to relate to the opposite gender because they are effectively selling off bits of their souls.

Answer 2

It really depends. Cause getting out of things like that is soo hard to do. And exotics dancers are given a lit of attention so say for instance you didn't give her that attention she might go and seek it else where. So I'm not quite sure... but probably not because it just seems that along with all of "that" it makes you wonder how they got there in the first place. Cause I don't care if you're an exotic dancer at all. But it's the background stuff that is the suspicious part (cause it's like what happened to where they got soo desperate to where they had to pratically sell their bodies????) so I'm not sure. I guess the two main factors are:
1: if they still are or not
2: I'mnot sure what two is but it seemes like it should be necessary.

Answer 3

Realist86
since your name sounds like you are seeking a real answer, My best advice is straight from the word of God. If you have never committed a sin, then don't allow this exotic dancer a chance to change. HOwever if there is True Love between the two of you then do not allow the gates of hell to come between you. Remember evenly yoke is what you are seeking in a relationship.

Answer 4

Yes I would again
She and I were together for 2 years. We had loads of fun. She was real smart. Jeopardy type smart. She was 6' 3" tall, I'm only 5' 11". And she always wore high heels. She even found platform hiking boots, for our treks through the woods. She was extremely hot. But out in public you wouldn't know she was a dancer if she didn't tell you. When she was dancing topless, you wouldn't realize she was on the deans list. Unless you talked to her, and then only if you asked.

Answer 5

An exotic dancer means dancing without clothes, not having sex with anyone who asked. If you live in a very conservative society, then you have to think about it. In most cultures, why ask such a bad question? Does he/she deserve less respect than anyone else? Should he/she not be able to have a relationship without being stereotyped because of his/her style of dancing? If such things do bother you, than you only deserve to be with others who show disrespect and prejudice towards others.

I'm sorry if this sounds harsh, but the question is one you should not ask if you truly care about someone.

Answer 6

I would date an exotic dancer, but the chances are much greater that I'd be with a more conservative woman......cause they probably don't have stds or haven't been with half the town.

Answer 7

I don't see why not. I mean, just because the person is in that line of work doesn't necessarily make them a lower class of person.

Just remember that physical beauty is a temporary thing, and ask yourself if you're attracted to the person because of who they are, or whether or not you liked how they looked swinging on a pole.

And only you can answer that particular question.

Answer 8

If you are a jealous person or get a little jealous then no.
But if you not jealous at all or can control it in a great deal, then yes be with them. Its a job. Make sure she is JUST DANCING!!!!!!

Answer 9

I would want to know where her tips were going, and why I had to always pay when we went out!!

I would be ok with it, as long as I wasn't having to pay for lap dances.

Answer 10

It would depend on the person, you can't just shove people into categories based on their occupations or things like that.