Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

im not ugly i heard from a lot of boys n gurls. but itz jus how i feel when i look in the mirror u kno.

im jus scared that if i approach a guy he will be lyke eww ur ugly u feel me
i jus want better self esteem

2007-01-12 10:10:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, i am 5'1" and i weigh 109lbs, i have a little belly fat, love handles, chubby cheeks, and a little fat on my back.....its not like nasty b/c like i said im only 109lbs but i cant stand to have any fat at all. tell me what you think about this description about me...
5'1"
109lbs
blonde hair ( 4 or 5 inches past shoulders)
brown eyes
sort of thin lips
small nose kinda curved at tip
sort of round face
round butt
34b bra size
size 1-3 pants size
small - medium shirts size
is this attrctive to u or is it just really ordinary? be honest and please no rude comments thanks. sorry i have no pics

2007-01-12 10:09:21 · 16 answers · asked by breanna d 2 in Singles & Dating

Things are going great. I love my wife, I have three young children and everything is comfortable. However a part of me wants to put it all to the test and have an affair just to see what it would be like.
Any takers.??
PS I hope my wife doesn"t read this. Can I delete this question after post it.??

2007-01-12 10:09:12 · 34 answers · asked by spils 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Threres a girl who has a boyfriend and i like her how can i get her 2 like me and go out with me plz help me.

2007-01-12 10:08:27 · 3 answers · asked by jimmy h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay what poem do you like the best????

No one knows how I feel at the end of the day waiting for you to come talk to me. It never happens. It makes me feel invisible. I thought you knew I was alive.

Cold glass cuts my veins and I go and die. I would do anything for you. You send chills through my body. It makes me feel like a ***** for not getting you.

Cute or Hot but I dont know because I dont know who you are anymore. You tore my heart and shatterd it but if you try to get me back I can reject and you can feel my pain.

2007-01-12 10:08:19 · 3 answers · asked by Shelby 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm stuck at home sick and i'm bored to death i'm so bored i wish i could go to school isn't that just sad? Any recomendations of things i could do???
P.S. aren't you just in love with Edward Cullen, boyfriend of Bella Swan

2007-01-12 10:07:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I went out with a guy I was dating and we went for a drive. When we pulled over, I opened up a compartment & browsed through it casually, and also wanted to put away some change. He got annoyed and started saying there's nothing inside there, and pulled out a bunch of stuff and said see, there's nothing there! We had the windows open and it seemed like something fell out of the car that he was holding in his hand. I asked him to pull around so I can see it, cuz by this point I got suspicious of his reaction to me, and he refused, sayign I should just trust him and kinda threw an angry fit. I thought his behavior was unnecessary and unreasonable. If he wasn't hiding anything, why freak out if I opened his compartment? Why refuse to turn around? On the other hand, I am an untrusting person, I question some things cuz u can never fully trust anyone, & he used that against me saying I always put him under the microscope U just wanted to be trusted. So was he hiding something ?

2007-01-12 10:06:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is the sweetest thing, until pms. She can't say I love you, or even kiss me. After its over she back to the I LOVE YOU, kisses and hugs. How can it change so drastically. I have changed most of the things she doesn't like. Which were worth changing. But still it's like she almost hates me. Then the next day she loves me greatly.

2007-01-12 10:06:40 · 14 answers · asked by Terry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my current husband for 2.5 years, we just got married the friday b4 thanxgiving. I caught him b4 on the internet talkin to chix and he had up several personal sites. He claims he only wants to be with me and that he loves only me, but he just told me a few days ago that he was still doing it. We have a daugheter almost 18mths and I am about to have his son, my due date is february 7. Should I get my marriage annulled? It is pretty soon, but I have caught him doing it b4 and he said he don't know if he would stop. I love him dearly and I try to do everything for him, should I try to keep working at it, or should I just stop and get my marriage annulled?

2007-01-12 10:06:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anayden 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

just get over her. There is no way. What can I do to make her realize I'm a totally different person now? It's been a couple of years. I really love her and want to make her happy. How can I convince her? She won't even speak to me yet.

2007-01-12 10:06:22 · 6 answers · asked by M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We had an argument about getting another vehicle and I got a little sassy and I have apologized over and over and he is still not speaking to me. Any advice?

2007-01-12 10:05:39 · 10 answers · asked by JACQUELINE T 6 in Marriage & Divorce

ok. i started dating this guy over the summer and we were a really good couple cause we are both really country. ok. then school started. he started acting different. he was wanting to know why we haven't kissed yet and we had been dating for 7...8 weeks? i'm funny about that stuff. i want him to respect me before he gets anything like that. he kept pushing and puching. one day he rode his horse over to my house and tried to kiss me. i turned my head and broke up with him three days later. he called me everynight for a long time and still does. ikinda like him again...but...idk. then theres this other guy that i've liked from a distance cause hes a little above me. he sent me a text askin some sexual questions then he said that he liked my body and all of that and he really likes me. k. now. then he asked if i wanted to "do it"! we aren't dating but he says he likes me. he is so cute. wht should i tell him?

2007-01-12 10:05:24 · 19 answers · asked by rodeochic0830 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy i like, and everyone tol me he likes me to,but when we are talking he is always talking about other girls and how he needs a girlfriend and he makes it seem like he doesnt like me....how can i tell if he does?

2007-01-12 10:05:09 · 9 answers · asked by Sk8er Chick 2 in Friends

2007-01-12 10:05:02 · 18 answers · asked by chris 3 in Singles & Dating

okay. so i know my boyfriend is going to propose to me soon, and im the kind of person who loves surprieses, but hates the anticipation for them. he forgot to log out from his e mail and when i went to check mine, i noticed an e mail from a friend of his who he had lunch with a few weeks ago and in the e mail his friend said " so how did your lady like her new years "gift" " does that mean that he was going to propose on new years? because he didnt? im trying to play detective here even though i know i shouldnt, but the suspence is just killing me

2007-01-12 10:04:46 · 14 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Weddings

i just found out today that my friend who I'v known forever likes me and is planning on asking me out!! But I like his BFF, who is totally hott and sweet. I don't want to Hurt my friend but I'm like in luv with his BFF. What do I do???????

2007-01-12 10:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by Hayley P 2 in Friends

i've been dating this guy for about six months and he introduced me to a few of his friends 3 months ago and one of his friends keeps asking me to sleep with him when the guy i'm dating is at work his job is 24 hours (marine drill instructor) when he goes to work it's 3 months at a time so he's not around as much and his friend i told him no four times already and he keeps bugging. how can i stop this? i told the guy that i'm dating and he told me not to have any conversation with him just ignore him because he's a slut he'll sleep with anybody. i feel really uncomfortable that his friend is doing this and everytime he does it he says don't tell anybody not even the guy i'm dating. why is he doing this to me? my friends said it could be a set up to see what kind of girl i am i'm not sure what is going on i just want it to stop. no rude comments i just need advice. do guys do set ups like this to test their girl?

2007-01-12 10:03:23 · 34 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

They are the greastet band in histoy you should listen to them.
1. lithium
2.call me when your sober
3. going under
4.and bring me to life

2007-01-12 10:02:59 · 7 answers · asked by ILoveHimm. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

a guy i was sleeping with celebrates his birthday on the 16th this mnth... he has never given me any gift or taken me out any place, besides his bed... but i'm thinking about buying him a cd and a birthday card for his b'day.... we still talk.. but stopped sleeping together... i don't like the way he treated me, but i still want to get him a gift.. though it may suprise him! am i stupid or what? ps: i don't want him.. i just wanna see him smile... what do u guys think? honest answers only please

2007-01-12 10:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 10:00:44 · 11 answers · asked by ♥T!3♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I used to be reaally close to this friend.. but when junior high started.. I was making new friends and hanging out with them all the time. Now my other group of friends just think I ditch them all the time. And she always gives me dirty looks and trys to make me jealous and never say hi to me, when on the other hand I do. Im just trying to clear things up, like i didn't think it would be such a fuss making new friends, like sorry to say I kinda got sick of her. But sometime's she can be really nice to me and then if do one little thing like ignoring her and not even realizing it.. it will seem like she hates me. It's like i have to put all the effort into the relationship. What should I do?? about this. its so ridiculous!

2007-01-12 10:00:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Today I found out that my friend's(a guy) older brother attepted to commit suicide. What should I do to help my friend? He was really upset, I have no clue what I should say to him! And what if his older brother does commit suicide! What can I do to help?

2007-01-12 09:59:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

(once!-very frustrating)

2007-01-12 09:59:33 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 09:59:17 · 5 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

seems cranky, jealous , she's very touchy, (defensive) and snappy and got's a BIG ego???????????

2007-01-12 09:59:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok well i like this boy and idk if he even knows im alive well he does but he and i never have talked im scared to just go up and talk to him and what would i talk to him about?!?! he isnt in any of my classes and has none of the same teachers i do. HELP PLEASE.

2007-01-12 09:58:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl and for a few fridays now (the only nights 16 year olds go out in the uk) ive always had a frustrating amount of time with her, where i get to be with her and make her laugh for a while but then something always happens to interrupt us and we get split up. i'm not the best looking boy in the world but im apparently quite sweet and funny. When i talk to her on msn recently ive started giving xxxxxxxxxxxxx's when i leave and she has reacted well, but i need to talk to her in person to take it further. How can i get some time with her without making her feel like i expect something or that shes pressured into seeing me or anything?

We are both 16 and live in the uk.

2007-01-12 09:58:22 · 1 answers · asked by Craig 1 in Singles & Dating

Thx to anonymity, why would you chose to go outside your marriage and have an affair? Be blunt, honest. Why did you have no consideration of your spouse and their heart, your children if their were any?

2007-01-12 09:58:14 · 23 answers · asked by carenffb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I heard many advice that are opposite from one another.

First, when you like a woman, you shouldn't hold back and try to win her heart. Show that you are really interested and don't waste your time playing mind games, such as playing hard to get, acting cool, etc. Ask her out right away and treat her really well!

Second, you should act cool towards a woman that you like. Hang on for a couple of days before you call her. Let her wonder if you are actually interested in her. Don't treat her too nice, because you will show up as desperate and expect too much from her. Attraction is all about keeping the girl still interested in you. Once she knows that she got your attraction, you're basically in her control and she doesn't want you anymore.

I tried both ways on different girls. There is just no correct way to do it!! If I treat her nice, she get scared, even though eventually i found out that she likes me. If I play it cool, she thinks that I'm not interested. Help!!!!!!!!

2007-01-12 09:57:40 · 1 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

if so what is the names you use... i have to know this...

2007-01-12 09:56:44 · 5 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating