Things are going great. I love my wife, I have three young children and everything is comfortable. However a part of me wants to put it all to the test and have an affair just to see what it would be like.
Any takers.??
PS I hope my wife doesn"t read this. Can I delete this question after post it.??
2007-01-12 10:09:12 · 34 answers · asked by spils 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Fair enough.
I am a pig.
2007-01-12 10:15:51 · update #1
Yes, you can delete it. I am sure you are just joking, Have a great happy and healthy 2007. You are a lucky man to have such a wonderful gifts of a loving family. Cherish them with all your heart.
2007-01-12 10:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes these affairs backfire, and things happen we don't mean to happen. u could fall in love with the person u are having an affair with, she could fall in love with u, and demand more of u, and tell your wife about it. u could even loose your job in some places. it goes on and on. did u ever consider karma, and what u do to hurt others definitely comes back to bite u later on when u least expect it. the affair will feel right, feel good, boost your ego, u will probably feel like a schoolboy again for awhile. and think your on cloud nine. but some women resent just being affairs, and have been known to ruin men. not to mention how u would feel every time u had to look your wife in the face, the guilt would kill u. and eventually one of the women would win out, and mean more to u than the other, and as a result someone would get hurt, bad idea, just complicates life, and leads u down the road to hell.
2007-01-12 10:36:55 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly loved your wife, you would be thinking about an affair. You should be ashamed of your self putting the words you love your wife and having an affair in one paragraph. Once you decide to take that step, you have completely lost all trust that your wife has for you, and getting that trust back is not always possible. Some people can handle when a spouse commits adultery, they love their spouse that much to forgive, but we never forget. PLEASE, DON'T DO THIS. IT REALLY ISN'T WORTH IT.
2007-01-12 11:29:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
22 years ago my boyfriend at the time had an affair. We had two daughters at the time and he just went and had an affair because he said that he needed something different. Listen everyone who has ever thought of having a affair always thinks that it's greener on the other side and it's not!. He was miserable and he wanted me back, but because I didn't want to get hurt again I told him no. Women always have an instinct and a gut feeling, and their feelings get hurt. If you really truly love your wife, you won't do it. Especially if you have three children. If you have a daughter, just remember you wouldn't want her husband to do this to her!
2007-01-12 10:25:40 · answer #4 · answered by nurias5 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As far as I am concerned you have already betrayed your wife. Nothing wrong with having a fantasy. But your asking for takers. I hope your wife doesn't read this eather. Straighten your *** up before you ruin the lives of your family.
2007-01-12 10:16:27 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant be serious man!! Why would you want to take something away from your children like that? Are you that selfish and childish..im not married, but sometimes i wish i was just so i can prove to myself that i can be the ideal husband..unfortunately, i havent found the "right one"...anyway, you better think twice about somethign like this, cuz guess what, youre wife is probably already doiing what youre just now thinking of doing...fool.
2007-01-12 10:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by INFINITE CONSCIOUSNESS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your a real dumbass! Things are going great and you wanna have an affair! 7 minutes with somebody else and ruin a good marriage, mess up your children for the rest of their lives, just because you wanna have an affair!
2007-01-12 10:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand the curiosity - don't do it. You take the chance of ruining all you have. Romance your wife. Use that energy inside your marriage and not out of it. Have an affair with her. I promise the outcome will be much better for you and for your marriage.
2007-01-12 10:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by outdone 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I hope the woman you choose to have an affair with tells your wife!
2007-01-12 16:07:32 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not even be thinking about having and affair!!! If you truley loved your wife you would not ever even think about doing this!!!! I sure hope she does see and read this!!!!! No taker here pal!
2007-01-12 10:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋