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a guy i was sleeping with celebrates his birthday on the 16th this mnth... he has never given me any gift or taken me out any place, besides his bed... but i'm thinking about buying him a cd and a birthday card for his b'day.... we still talk.. but stopped sleeping together... i don't like the way he treated me, but i still want to get him a gift.. though it may suprise him! am i stupid or what? ps: i don't want him.. i just wanna see him smile... what do u guys think? honest answers only please

2007-01-12 10:01:25 · 15 answers · asked by get outta here howdy 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

15 answers

He will see this as an attempt to rekindle the romance, don't do it.

2007-01-12 10:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 0 0

Look there is only one good reason for anyone to buy anybody anything,Because you want too! I think too many people buy things for people looking for something in return or they do it for the fact of a pat on the back or to look good.
You want to give him something cause you still like him and care for him regardless if you are no longer with him and there is absolutely nothing wrong or stupid about it.
Even if he don't understand why you did it, you will still now why you did so it don't matter.
So, go for it girl!.

2007-01-12 18:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by vmaxer85 4 · 0 0

Get him a silly card if you want to make him smile, but save your money for someone who really cares about you. Next time, don't settle for just trips to bed and nothing else. That should be the last place you go with him!

2007-01-12 18:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Attracted to men that use you?

Instead of spending money on a birthday card (he won't even care) and a cd (he'd probably like), why not use the money better and see a couselor to understand why you allow yourself to be used?

You "just want to see him smile?" Sounds like you want to do something that will convince him that he's missing out. Trust me- it aint going to work.

How about make yourself smile, and love yourself enough to find someone else who is equally interested as you.

2007-01-14 09:36:41 · answer #4 · answered by K H 3 · 0 0

I think you do still want him. Lovers can not become just friends.( Unless you were friends before you became lovers) A gift is not appropriate. Just wish him a Happy Day and move on.

2007-01-12 18:09:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0 0

i think that is sweet and if you guys still talk even though you guys dont sleep together than you guys are obviously friends somewhat so go ahead and give him a gift who knows you may start sleeping togetjer again:) good luck

2007-01-12 18:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0 0

Yeah! You are stupid if you are going to give him gift.What's the use of giving gift? He just used you or you just use each other.No way Ma that's enough. You said you don't want him.So just greet him happy birthday.

2007-01-12 19:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by Paxxiegrett 1 · 0 0

buy the card, play with his head a little bit. but don't try and rekindle any old flames cuz he will keep taking advantage of u and ur body girl. don't play stupid at all!!!!!!

2007-01-12 18:14:45 · answer #8 · answered by kadisha a 1 · 0 0

poor thing, you still have feelings for him. don't give him a gift and try and stay away from him. you may start to get even stronger feelings for him.

2007-01-12 18:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by brown579 s 2 · 0 0

Don't give him nothing! I wouldn't even wanna see him smile. Just say happy birthday!

2007-01-12 18:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by u2ugly2nv18 2 · 0 1

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