ok. i started dating this guy over the summer and we were a really good couple cause we are both really country. ok. then school started. he started acting different. he was wanting to know why we haven't kissed yet and we had been dating for 7...8 weeks? i'm funny about that stuff. i want him to respect me before he gets anything like that. he kept pushing and puching. one day he rode his horse over to my house and tried to kiss me. i turned my head and broke up with him three days later. he called me everynight for a long time and still does. ikinda like him again...but...idk. then theres this other guy that i've liked from a distance cause hes a little above me. he sent me a text askin some sexual questions then he said that he liked my body and all of that and he really likes me. k. now. then he asked if i wanted to "do it"! we aren't dating but he says he likes me. he is so cute. wht should i tell him?
2007-01-12 10:05:24 · 19 answers · asked by rodeochic0830 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This guy sounds like he may be after 1 thing. You boyfriend waited 7-8 weeks without even a kiss cause you wanted respect (I think that pretty much warrants respect for a guy to wait that long) and now you are considering this guy, who hasn't even dated you, to sleep with him...your boyfriend sounds committed and like the beginning of a good strong relationship that could lead to being worthy of your virginity...this other guy sounds like lust and I think that although you might be tempted because he is "hot" in the long run you will regret it. Virginity is a gift you can only give once (I know I sound like a fuddy duddy, but it is true.)
2007-01-12 10:17:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You broke up with a guy who just wanted to kiss you and now your thinking about sleeping with a guy you don't even know that well. MAybe you need to pay attention to some of the animals around the ranch more and watch what they do because they have more sense than you. SO if I told you that I loved you, not like you and that you had a beautiful body and a beautiful breasts and I would love to have sex with you so I can show you what a man liek me can do for a woman like you. Would you do it with me, too? You need to know more about people before you start thinking about making it with someone, it shows your not mature enough to do it so don't.
2007-01-12 10:12:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to learn how to respect women and maybe you'll give him a chance to get to know you. Guy's do and say things to flatter women and don't get me wrong it's nice to be told those things but it feels better to have your self-respect. Teenage boys are walking hormones and the only thing that they think about is sex and how are they going to trick some nice girl into doing it with them. Hang on to your self-respect and just be yourself. There is nothing wrong with just being friends and holding hands. I think that if you have a honest talk with guy #1 and tell him how you feel about kissing and being respected he will understand and if he doesn't well then it's his loss Guy#2 gives me the creeps it's very disrespectful that he says things or texts things like that to a young girl that he really doesn't know that well. THERE"S NOTHING WRONG WITH WAITING FOR THE RIGHT PERSON ASK ANY OLDER WOMAN AND NINE CHANCES OUT OF TEN SHE"LL TELL YOU SHE WISHED THAT SHE"D WAITED I WISH I HAD.
2007-01-12 10:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Katprsn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't even kiss a boy you've been dating for 2 months, sex should probably be the furthest thing from your mind. Just be honest. Tell guy #2 that you think he's cute, but you're not even close to being ready for sex. And if you like guy #1, give him a kiss - he has been waiting long enough.
2007-01-12 10:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by eileezy2002 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hold on!! You date this one guy for like two months and all he tried to get was a kiss. You wouldn't give him one because you want him to respecty you before he gets anything like this?
Now this other guy is flat out telling you that he wants to have sex, and your asking whether you should go for him?
Its this kind of BS logic that makes women so incredibly frustrating. Sweetheart, you're a real piece of work.
2007-01-12 10:14:11 · answer #5 · answered by Ben B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These guys sound like jerks. Just because he's cute doesn't mean that he's a good person. I think they just want to be able to sleep with you. You shouldn't give it up that easily. Have some respect and dignity for yourself. There are plenty of guys out there
2007-01-12 10:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're a walking contradiction. You want a guy to respect you before he gets "anything like that," yet you are asking advice on how to respond to a guy who wants to "Do it."
Sounds like you are very confused about your sexuality - not whether you are gay or straight - but what sex means to you and how it plays a role in your relationships
2007-01-12 10:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Aris28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready to kiss a guy you've been seeing for a couple months, then you don't even need to talk to the guy who openly admits that all he wants is sex from you! I think you need to wait a while before you're really ready to date.
2007-01-12 10:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u broke up with ur ex b/f cause he wanted to kiss you after you two had been going out for 7-8 weeks
2007-01-12 10:10:14 · answer #9 · answered by buickbeast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell hI'm BACK OFF. im a guy and ill tell you anything you want to hear to get in your pants. if he really likes you he would ask you out, and go out with you for a while and get to know you then take it from there, not just sexual questions then oh sleep with me, you don't seem like that kind of girl, so don't become one.
2007-01-12 10:13:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋