Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

I just don't understand. If I don't feel sexy, I do not want to have sex. I have to feel attractive to want to bump 'n grind. If I feel ugly, don't freakin touch me! Don't you give a crap that you have saggy nasty parts now that you didn't have when you were in your 20's and 30's? What makes you think anybody wants to touch you? (even with the lights off - gross) Just get a hobby or something, right. Old people sex is gross! Unsexy people sex is gross!

2007-01-12 09:34:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, I'm getting married in September this year, and my Step mother said they were going to take care of the wedding cake for us. I was very greatful at first, and then she started to talk to us about all the crazy ideas she has about our cake! She wants it to be "cheap" so she thought she'd ask at the grocery store first, and then she even threw out the idea of a butter tart cake OMG! She told us not to worry about the cake, so we don't even get to pick it out! I wondered if this idea would be ok. I thought I'd find the cake I want, and then tell her I found the perfect cake, and that SHE doesnt need to worry about it any more.. I know she's only trying to help, and I appreciate that! but I really don't like not knowing what I'm going to be getting. Do you think that would be rude? Could you please help me find a polite way of telling her that I don't want her to get the cake? maybe if she's willing to put the money she was going to spend toward it, but I'm not going to ask for it.

2007-01-12 09:33:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have an ex-girl, we broke up more than a yeah ago. We were those two that met, were sort of friends for 3 yrs than dated a couple of times , off and on. We haven't talked to each since we broke up, but recently I reached out and we've hung out several times. Most of them in group settings. One night she hooked up with a guy, it seems she definitely moved on. But now she still wants to hang out. Does she just want to be friends or is she having feelings for me again?

2007-01-12 09:33:25 · 8 answers · asked by quormecca 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 09:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by Asian Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

But he will never make a move because he is too shy!
And i really dont think that a girl should make the first step like asking him out!
should i just move on?

2007-01-12 09:32:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

it doesnt matter what i talk about headache, tired, sleepless, moody etc etc... anything it doesnt matter she trys to sell me. I DON'T WANT HER ARBONNE! I have politely refuse each time but the next time I mention something she gets on the Arbonne again

2007-01-12 09:32:23 · 7 answers · asked by ladydaisy 4 in Friends

What if you had only one friend but you found out that friend is backstabber and that some people even told you that he/she talks behind your back? Would you just leave that friend and be alone, be your own best friend? or would you just be friends with that person because you have been friends with them for 7 years?

2007-01-12 09:32:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

were you nervous and scared, or curious and happy?

2007-01-12 09:32:10 · 19 answers · asked by kandy 2 in Singles & Dating

like this please.

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2007-01-12 09:31:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Only problem is he is out on bail since september and is not supposed to contact or approach me but we have met up and we speak/txt daily. I went away for while to sort my head out and am due back to refuge shortly. I want to be with him but not sure if it the right thing to do. I love him and afraid of him at same time. My family are fuming as they found out i was talking with him they keep telling me he will kill me next time but i know that so long as i don't talk to or hug other people we will be fine and most of all i lost without him. They cited me to go court and i cant face doing that to him i love him and afraid that he will end up doing time

2007-01-12 09:30:25 · 18 answers · asked by lynscrazyworld 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend and i are currently living together in a apartment our lease is up in another 3 months. his 24 yr old brother has been staying with us the entire time we lived here because his failed plan of moving in with his girlfriend. my question is how can i get my bf to see that his older brother is never really gonna get his own life if my bf is always there as his crutch. when the lease is up i really dont want his brother following us to the new apartment. i want to be honest but not mean what should i tell my bf?

2007-01-12 09:30:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She a go mom like living her life to the fullness, never stopping to rest. Her life was short leaving behind four young girl to raise them self in this crazzy world. Our family is not close and driffed apart when she die at 39 years of age.That was 18 years ago and it hurt and feel like she left today. I learned from my grandfather before he pass away. My mother lived with him and her stepmother. She had a good life and every thing.MY mother never spoked about her childhood or about her family. She was close to her younger sister Jaunita.Their love was pure and enveying one another do to family issue. I no longer keep in touch with my mother or my father family scince both died. My father was killed when I was ten years. I never understood his death till this day I wonder why. My mother shooted up drug and contact aids. My three sister and I lived the life on the edge and found our life back on track. Now I fear to have sex and live with a man who would cut my life short

2007-01-12 09:28:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a 28 year old American male, 6-2, in very good shape, black hair, green eyes, educated, a house, a car, good job, and always monogamous in relationships. I have a lot of good qualities yet my relationships with American women never work out, I have come to the conclusion my best possible option to find a women to spend the rest of my life with is foreign. I just am not compatible with American women I guess and a mail order bride may be a good idea. But for some reason there seems to be a stigma against mail order brides. I know two very successful good looking friends of mine who went that route, one married a women from Thailand and the other from Venezuela. They have been married for over 10 years each, have families, and everyones as happy as can be. I'm envious of how happy they are and would like to do the same as them. I find that many foreign women are very beautiful, kind, sweet, caring and loyal. And please don't take that as me wanting a submissive women cause I don't, I treat women I'm with equality. So with that said why is their such a stigma against people who do this?

2007-01-12 09:28:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a situation with this set of twin females. I through a group of friends met these lovely ladies and one of them has a better personality so I asked her out on a date. When we went out I noticed it was the other one. I can identify them because the one I am interested in has a cute little scar on her collar bone and one has a darker shade of blonde hair, what? guys do not notice this stuff they think?. Though I have never expressed I noticed it to her because I never wanted to embarass her. But to keep on the point I went out again and it was HER that time. What are they gaining should I play along or call them on it, I just do not want to be rude I guess but they are being clever about it, taping it or something because they seem to know the convo I had with the other I have already tested that factor. So should I play along just for the hell of it or do something back like not show up? I wanted to kiss her to but I am not getting attatched until I know what's up.

2007-01-12 09:28:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 09:28:06 · 6 answers · asked by hoplessly_in_love 3 in Singles & Dating

Valentine's day is approaching, and i have no sweetheart to spend it with. what are the upsides and downsides of having a boyfriend?

2007-01-12 09:28:00 · 9 answers · asked by A Girl 4 in Singles & Dating

for example , he likes big girls and you are skinny
or, he likes black women and you are white?

2007-01-12 09:27:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this amazing friend that was there for the ups and downs, and i would like to do something great on her birthday that would surprise her or just make her have a memorable birthday, plz if you have any ideas let me know ;) thanks..

2007-01-12 09:27:00 · 5 answers · asked by ssoussa22 2 in Friends

I want to know what you dont want a guy to have ?or what you want him to do or say? what is your dream man like?
what do you hate if a man does....?
PLEASE ANSWER
THANX ALOTTTTTTT

2007-01-12 09:26:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a 28 year old American male, 6-2, in very good shape, black hair, green eyes, educated, a house, a car, good job, and always monogamous in relationships. I have a lot of good qualities yet my relationships with American women never work out, I have come to the conclusion my best possible option to find a women to spend the rest of my life with is foreign. I just am not compatible with American women I guess and a mail order bride may be a good idea. But for some reason there seems to be a stigma against mail order brides. I know two very successful good looking friends of mine who went that route, one married a women from Thailand and the other from Venezuela. They have been married for over 10 years each, have families, and everyones as happy as can be. I'm envious of how happy they are and would like to do the same as them. I find that many foreign women are very beautiful, kind, sweet, caring and loyal. And please don't take that as me wanting a submissive women cause I don't, I treat women I'm with equality. So with that said why is their such a stigma against people who do this?

2007-01-12 09:26:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Brian flirts with me all the time but then he says he don't like me is there anything wrong with me or is it just him?

2007-01-12 09:26:08 · 10 answers · asked by bored 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend is having a sleepover with my other friend and I'm pissed off. I'm wondering why she didn't invite me. She likes me and I love her. I mean she's my best friend! How should I react? I'm sad.

2007-01-12 09:25:18 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I saw her in the hall way at school making out with some guy

2007-01-12 09:24:19 · 26 answers · asked by Brian M 2 in Singles & Dating

my girl wants me to find her g-spot but I seem to be unable to find it. She is patient but still wants me to help her to orgasim. Can any girls out there help me find this spot so I can please my girl. ?

2007-01-12 09:23:52 · 15 answers · asked by having fun 3 in Singles & Dating

Trying to get my wife pregnant...Want to do something hot and sexy....Something we can both enjoy!

2007-01-12 09:22:58 · 15 answers · asked by johanng. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend named Jurniee and she is stupid buthead why is she always like that to me please help me!!! I want to strarit here up!!

2007-01-12 09:22:41 · 9 answers · asked by ILoveHimm. 2 in Friends

met someone so goodlooking..cool..sexy
but so goofey from the inside?

2007-01-12 09:22:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 09:21:31 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a young woman (21) currently renting a 4 br/2 ba/2 livingroom house with my boyfriend and our 4yr old son. We also have 3 cats.

Rent is $1050, Electric is about $250-300, water is $60-75 and cable & high speed internet is $100.. Bills were getting to be too much... so 6 months ago we rented a room out to my boyfriends bestfriend from grade school. This is our first roommate experience. We asked for $200 a month. I thought it was temporary, when she got a job... it could be raised.

The first month she moved in, her boyfriend (ex now) lived here also (No extra cost). Since he moved out, she has not paid rent once. Nor has she had a job since she moved in. Her current boyfriend lives at our house on and off (probably 15 days out of every 30 days).

Her room is very nice... 1920s hardwood floors, big closet + private bathroom + she uses the 3rd bedroom (we use it as a office) a lot because she got a broken laptop about 3 months ago, all it need was a monitor... so course we allowed her to use one of ours & there is high speed internet. We have a washer and dryer... big backyard. She has all household necessities at her fingertips (minus TP & laundry wash). Also its a BIG house... we all get a lot of privacy. The CONS of living with us is the cats & child, I know. Her mother was a Vet Tech, so she has grown up with 3-8 cats.

I think she should pay 1/3 ($450 to 500) of the rent & bills... but neither my boyfriend or roommate think its fair. At this point, I'm rather over living with someone who takes help for granted, doesn't work... and won't tried to understand me. Am I wrong or being unfair?

2007-01-12 09:20:39 · 16 answers · asked by Taylor R 1 in Friends

my cat got scared and climbed up a tree
now, is too scared to come down.
have any ideas???

2007-01-12 09:20:05 · 8 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 4 in Singles & Dating