I just don't understand. If I don't feel sexy, I do not want to have sex. I have to feel attractive to want to bump 'n grind. If I feel ugly, don't freakin touch me! Don't you give a crap that you have saggy nasty parts now that you didn't have when you were in your 20's and 30's? What makes you think anybody wants to touch you? (even with the lights off - gross) Just get a hobby or something, right. Old people sex is gross! Unsexy people sex is gross!
2007-01-12 09:34:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ok, I love my husband....he's 17 yrs older than me....I think he's extremely attractive. I don't have a problem doing him, what I don't understand is why he wants to do me. I think it's stupid. I don't look anything at all like I did when we first got together. I am gross now. I wouldn't do me with a 10 ft pole =)
2007-01-12 09:48:55 · update #1
That makes no sense...I am 33, and I see TONS of unsexy people my age and younger.....your question makes no sense....
2007-01-12 09:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
You ask: W H Y ? Are you ever immature and stupid .
They remember how much fun it was and why should it end ? There is always someone older than we are, so certainly looks do not enter into the picture much .
My contention is something called the 'Universal Equalizer ', which means in your case Old age will creep up on you whether you like it or not .
Hope you'll remember our reprimand when you are at that point and sit on a park bench somewhere by yourself because you are shriveled up and no one to hold your hand .
2007-01-12 17:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What has age or looks have anything to do with sex? If the couple is capable of doing it, then go all the way until there is not anymore. You only live once, so enjoy it to the max.
Do not worry about what other people think, be yourself.
Good Luck 2007
2007-01-12 20:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, dude, do what's comfortable....However, there are some pretty sorry bods out there at 20,(huge fat ladies, and guys who haven't seen it and can't find it except with a mirror at age 26!!!!!) and some really sexy people at 60+.(Clint Eastwood, Sean Connery....) It ain't ever the years, sweetie, it's the mileage!!!!!! And define "old".... the oldest person I ever knew was 12 years old in my classroom in math, dying of Cystic Fibrosis...he gasped for every breath...... The youngest person I ever knew was 94, running all over the beach, tossing sand, and picking up her great grandchildren....Like I said, it ain't ever the years, hon, it's the mileage.
2007-01-12 17:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by April 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your avitar name says alot about you. You are more than a sexy body. and you are sombody special Your husband thinks so . What makes you sexy is your attitude about yourself.Your husband is 17 yrs older than you, that makes you HOT right there no matter how old you are. Hes got his sexy girl now stop being so hard on yourself.
2007-01-12 17:57:39 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I,m 48 sex is great with my wife of 26 yrs , I say i,t get better with age just like a fine wine
2007-01-12 17:50:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I guess if you think sex and enjoying someone you care for is all about how you look, than you'll be the one to miss out.
Good luck with your hobby.
2007-01-12 17:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by outdone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 54, I love my wife, she still excites me beyond words...you can think its gross now, but I wonder if you will feel the same way 30 years from now if you are with someone you truly love?
2007-01-12 17:39:34 · answer #8 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
some older people are more fit than the younger people...and as long as they are not having s e x with u---I don't understand why u would care who they have fun with
2007-01-12 17:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by sunbun 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Sex never gets old.
2007-01-12 17:55:28 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋