Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

My girlfriend likes to have a wine cooler every weekday after work and will also have two on saturday and on sunday.She also likes to fill her finished bottle with water afterwards and drink out of the bottle.She says she likes it that way (it's like a water bottle?). She also can't seem to skip a day without one which i find strange (although she says she can). Tell me if you think she is alcoholic....and thanks for your answers

2007-01-12 08:56:49 · 5 answers · asked by rebel_kid12 1 in Singles & Dating

her bithday is the 16th and i dont have anything for her! she will be turning forty seven and i want to do something special for her. thanx!

2007-01-12 08:56:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dated a guy for awhile. We worked together and that day we were supposed to hang out.I haven`t seen him leaving the office so, I decided to drive to his place in order to pick him up. By that time I already had a key to his apartment.He was not home, so I just stayed there to wait. Around 4 am I heard his voice in the hall. He opened a door with a girl (who works with us also),both totally wasted. I was .... speechless! Anyways, "the cheating on me" idea did not cross my mind. I guess i was just shocked. A girl ran away as she saw me.Then, he said that I screwed up everything and nervously started dialing her number. His exact words to her were: "Baby, i am sorry for everything, this ***** is crazy about me, she is stalking me, babe i want you be with me". As I heard it, I turned around facing the door, but, know,it wasn`t enough apparently I ruined his whole life and now he hates me.ANd he is breaking up with me over my TOES!!! I quit that company following week, never saw him again

2007-01-12 08:56:41 · 13 answers · asked by Fromthefirstsight 2 in Singles & Dating

I approached him and told him I thought he was cute....we talked a little throughout the time we were there and I asked him if I gave him my # would he call. He said yes, put my number in his phone and then called it, and said "now you have my # too". He seemed pretty shy, but I did get the feeling that there was some flirting going on. This was almost 1 week ago. I don't know if he is just shy or not interested. I also really want to call him, but don't know whether I should. Any suggestions from men especially would help.

2007-01-12 08:56:35 · 6 answers · asked by bamagrl 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not very good at spotting general signals and "hints" from people that I meet socially to determine if they are interested in meeting again.
Anyone have some good advice on how to tell if someone is acting interested. I am hoping for some good info on any general clue that should make me realize they are interested, or even better so, if they are NOT interested!
Is there body language, topics of conversation or questions that people generally do or ask ...?
ALSO, What is something I can say or do that would show that I am interested in them?
I am a 22y/o female, so any input from the gents would be appreciated (as well as from any savvy women out there!).

Thanks
UTTERLY CLUELESS

2007-01-12 08:56:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey I am getting married soon. My girl is virgin and I was wondering if girls prefer to have sex on the first day of the marriage or just wait for couple of days

2007-01-12 08:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by Andrew B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in Kentucky, so need help planning there. My fiance went to college there, we visited together once and I love it. I love the beach wedding idea. I Just dont know how to start.

2007-01-12 08:55:29 · 11 answers · asked by Ariel B 1 in Weddings

I have 3 boys ages 11 - 13 - 14. They are all very well behaved most of the time, never get in trouble at school..are all into sports, respect me and their father. Would never say "I hate you" or "shut-up" and everyone who knows us says that they are the nicest kids they ever met. Sounds great hey? Well here is my issue....lately (the last year or more) they are arguing alot, and mouthy to each other. As oon as i hear it i go to them and say i will not put up with this and say you are sorry, but within a few hours i will hear them at it again. Things like Get out of my face, i dont want to hear it, get a life, you are a loser get away from me, i wish i didnt have to live with you so on and so on. Should i just accept this as normal brotherly behavior? Am i getting all upset about nothing at all? It upsets me so much when i hear them be nasty to each other and it really bothers me that when i put my foot down and tell them to stop it they keep doing it. How can i fix this?

2007-01-12 08:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i've never experienced being drunk i'm not a hardcore alcoholic i do drink but dont get to the point where i get drunk and i was just wondering if u have sex with someone whos drunk will they remember the next day?!?

2007-01-12 08:54:57 · 2 answers · asked by Jose 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm forever bailing him out to pay his credit card fees off. Often spend on himself, he recently splashed out 15- 30 quid on the update of world of warcraft expansion pack. But when i want something like a pair of shoes or a top, he often makes me feel guilty, telling me that the money could be better spent. Its really unfair of him, he goes out weekly with his mates and spends up to 20 quid or so at the pub. And then i end up getting nothing.

How can i express myself correctly to him, without causing an arguement or being to offensive?

2007-01-12 08:54:23 · 35 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Singles & Dating

Shes driving everyone in my house crazy!

2007-01-12 08:54:16 · 4 answers · asked by allybizalli 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm going through a lot I'm getting ready for my 5th surgery I'm in a lot of pain. My best friend isn't making things better last month when i had one of my surgery she was suppose to be their but she wasn't she was with her boyfriend she didn't even call me the whole time i was there. So anyway the other day we were suppose to do something together and when i called her to see what time we were going she didn't answer. A few days later she said she was sick i told she should have at least called and she got mad and said i'm just mad cause she didn't go. She's making me more stressed what should i do?

2007-01-12 08:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Jojo 1 in Family

After a short marriage, I realized that my wife is not fully honest with me and we got separated. Somehow I always feel she has been hiding her past from me. How can I know if she has been married before? Can I get any information about her past possible marriage and divorce and if so, where from? This is for UK

2007-01-12 08:53:01 · 11 answers · asked by kamran s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance and I were lying in bed the other night just talking about general stuff. A few days before hand he said something to upset me and stopped out all night without telling me, i was worried sick! I soon found out that he stopped at a girls house whom he knows from work but he swore to me that nothing happened and I believe him but then I found out that this girl really likes him. This made me really quite jelous. I started making little jokes and we had some fun about it and I was over it - I just had one more question ask, ''do you like her?'' he reasurred me that he didnt and so I was fine. BUT later on in bed he got on top of me, entered me and said ''theres something I need to tell you'' then he said ''I do like that girl quite a lot'' and then carried on with what he was doing to me regardless of the fact that I was crying. Do you think it would be a good idea to call of the wedding or is he just goin through a rough patch? He has never been like this before, HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-12 08:52:56 · 47 answers · asked by angelcakes 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 08:52:22 · 22 answers · asked by Kj 3 in Singles & Dating

I was at a basketball game at my school and I say my ex boyfrined with a couple of his friends. And they say me and my boyfried just keep on staring at me for the whole time. I had went to the bathroom during the 1st quarter of the game and he had followed me and he said that he wanted to talk to me. Well anyway we had went to his car and he was saying that I looked very beautiful and he said that he still loves me. And we ended up making out and we had sex till at least the 3 quarter of the game. We always do this break up and then we have sex and then we're back together again. Why do we keep doing this? Are we truly made for each other?

2007-01-12 08:51:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 08:51:16 · 21 answers · asked by smg_vantila 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 08:50:39 · 4 answers · asked by Lisa M 1 in Family

2007-01-12 08:49:53 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know wether to ask this girl out or not help i need advice

2007-01-12 08:49:51 · 22 answers · asked by pudsey 1 in Singles & Dating

k lets say you had to choose between 2 ppl... 1 was really cute but personality was ok and you dont know if this person likes you but you like him/her..and the 2nd one was ok lookin but personality was amazin and this person loves you but you already like the first one... who would you choose 2 spend the rest of your life with?

And dont tell me there should be love from both sides...ur stuck n u need 2 choose one of them, ur forced to choose one of them!

2007-01-12 08:48:50 · 26 answers · asked by Ainmo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It doesn't bother me at all...Some of my friends say I am twisted

2007-01-12 08:48:46 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I spend a lot of time at home during the week, but one or two night during that week I go out with friends without her. She thinks this is belittling to her and I feel like she is controlling my abilities to make my own decisions. The weekends I try and plan events for both of us and then one or two with our individual friends. We're young and couple activities aren't readily available just yet...I'm not sure what I'm into.

2007-01-12 08:48:28 · 13 answers · asked by Frustrated Fiance 1 in Weddings

whats good about a break up if there is anything?
my boyfriend just dumped me no real reason just said he didn't feel the same about me. i'm still heartbroken

2007-01-12 08:48:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems they have spent so many years doing their own thing that they don't want to change even when they marry. They also don't seem to need one another anymore with the availability of sex without committment and with women being so independent that they don't depend on men anymore. It seems that marriages lasted longer when the couple depending on each other for things that were not so easily available as they are today.

2007-01-12 08:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean if you don;t like the way you are,go ahead and change if it's for the better...but if someone doesn't like the way you are..who cares..unless it's your mother cause she would no better(most of the time)

just my opinion.

2007-01-12 08:47:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

im looking for like a sexy short wedding dress.
any site suggestions?
thanks !

2007-01-12 08:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

thin dont write me back

2007-01-12 08:46:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean, I know we have a rep for being b*tchy and all, but I have had people tell me that I was the only red head they have ever gotten along with. Then they leave it at that..no number, no nothing. So why don't guys like red heads??

2007-01-12 08:46:20 · 29 answers · asked by trisha_r_c 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not married, but from boyfriends I've slept next to in the past, I'm pretty sure I could never sleep next to another squirming body every single night. I'd need to take the couch or a different bed so I could sprawl out on it and actually get a good night's sleep. Any of you married folk have such sleep troubles? I understand about 'love,' but is it necessary to lose healthy sleep over it? No one else really knows where you sleep at night, anyway.

I will never understand why my mother, who constantly complains about my father's horribly loud snoring and probably hasn't had a restful night of sleep in her married life, still continues to sleep next to him.

2007-01-12 08:46:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce