Hey I am getting married soon. My girl is virgin and I was wondering if girls prefer to have sex on the first day of the marriage or just wait for couple of days
2007-01-12 08:55:54 · 13 answers · asked by Andrew B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Depending on your religion, she's not married until it's consummated (ie you have sex).
I don't know about you, but I was exhausted by the time the wedding was over. If you don't want to be a complete klutz, it's far better to wait until you have the time and energy to do it right. If that's your wedding night, more power to you. It's that when you get the honeymoon hotel, that's great too.
2007-01-12 09:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Javelinl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After the stress of having the wedding, then the reception, neither one of you may be in the mood nor energetic enough to have a decent first time that night. It is completely reasonable to wait until the following morning or afternoon to consummate the marriage.
2007-01-12 09:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am also a virgin and waiting till marriage. I think girls prefer having sex on the first day of marriage... atleast that's what I plan on doing someday. lol. I mean, gosh, I waited all this time... and if I was married, I would finally want to enjoy it as soon as I was married! :P
If your girl isn't ready, then she isn't ready. Don't force it upon her. Just ask her.
2007-01-12 08:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you make her feel loved she'll want it on the first day AND EVERY DAY THEREAFTER.... more than likely...more than Just once a day. But I'm not a girl any more, I've graduated to womanhood, lol. The first day could be the best day of your lives together.
2007-01-13 07:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by chaa107 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andrew, you need to ask your bride. You should take your time with her, be very gentle and make the experience beautiful for her. If her virginity is given, it will be beautiful and emotional for her. If it is taken, it will decide the tone of your sex life for the rest of your years together.
Communication is the key. Best of luck to you and your soon-to-be bride! May the Creator bless you with happiness and never ending love!
2007-01-12 09:03:18 · answer #5 · answered by Starla_C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You had better make it really clear that you are expecting to consumate the marriage on the wedding night. In fact, I purpose you leave early from the reception. If they are going to make you wait, then they gotta agree to put out on the wedding night. Gee, I sure hope she doesn't turn out to be lame in bed, that would stink. You're taking a huge risk. Good sex is second only to trust in a successful relationship.
2007-01-12 09:01:22 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
She's waited enough days already. If on your wedding night, you can't get any, I'd suggest a quickie annullment.
2007-01-12 09:30:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I had sex a long time ago and I'm not married so, sorry, I don't know. But she has to be dying for it.
2007-01-12 09:01:59 · answer #8 · answered by me! 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Of course they do! Besides, trust me, you won't be able to wait a couple days.
2007-01-12 09:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
on my honeymoon night, my husband didnt and wouldnt have sex with me because he said he was nervous and didnt want me to get pg. i have held that againist him all these years, so yes us women want it that night and it better be da** good too.
2007-01-12 11:55:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋