I'm a 28 year old American male, 6-2, in very good shape, black hair, green eyes, educated, a house, a car, good job, and always monogamous in relationships. I have a lot of good qualities yet my relationships with American women never work out, I have come to the conclusion my best possible option to find a women to spend the rest of my life with is foreign. I just am not compatible with American women I guess and a mail order bride may be a good idea. But for some reason there seems to be a stigma against mail order brides. I know two very successful good looking friends of mine who went that route, one married a women from Thailand and the other from Venezuela. They have been married for over 10 years each, have families, and everyones as happy as can be. I'm envious of how happy they are and would like to do the same as them. I find that many foreign women are very beautiful, kind, sweet, caring and loyal. And please don't take that as me wanting a submissive women cause I don't, I treat women I'm with equality. So with that said why is their such a stigma against people who do this?
2007-01-12 09:28:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sears and Roebuck man huh?
2007-01-12 09:30:55 · answer #1 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this can work. However, this relationship must be based on shared values. If you don't have the same ideas regarding family, values,marriage, etc then this relationship will fail as well. You are entering a marriage based on this and not love. This person may never love you. However, if you are okay with marrying someone who is kind, caring and loyal but may never love you, then go for it. However, she may turn out to be the love of your life. I hope you find what you are looking for.
2007-01-12 09:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Get Real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you and what you want to do..... I am not saying it is or is not the best way to go.... If you do get to know her first and meet her a few times before becoming serious.... Why do you feel you are not compatible with american women???? I am not against you doing this but i also feel there are other options as well.... All I am saying is keep all of your options open.
2007-01-12 09:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUDE!! ARE YOU SERIOUS??!!! THERE MUST BE A PROBLEM WITH YOU IF YOU THINK THAT YOU ARE THAT HOT AND YET HAVE ISSUES WITH EVERY WOMAN YOU EVER MEET. WHY DOES EVERYBODY THINK THAT IT'S ALWAYS THE OTHER PERSON THAT RUINS A RELATIONSHIP? START TAKING A LOOK AT YOURSELF BECAUSE IF YOU WERE REALLY AS GOOD A CATCH AS YOU SAY YOU ARE, WOMEN WOULD BE JUMPING ALL OVER YOU.
AND IF YOU THINK THAT THESE WOMEN OF THESE 2 FRIENDS OF YOURS THAT "ORDERED" THEIR WIVES, I'D SAY THINK AGAIN. HOW DEPRESSING WOULD IT BE TO GO TO A FOREIGN LAND AND NOT KNOW ANYBODY, NOT EVEN YOUR HUSBAND TO BE, NOT SPEAK THE LANGUAGE AND KNOW THE ONLY REASON YOU ARE THERE TO BEGIN WITH IS TO GET YOURSELF OUT OF A PREVIOSLY BAD SITUATION. YOU DON'T KNOW WHY THESE WOMEN ARE "SELLING" THEMSELVES TO GET TO AMERICA..... STICK WITH PEOPLE YOU CAN MEET AND KNOW BEFORE YOU GET YOURSELF COMMITTED TO MARRIAGE.
AND IF YOU TRULY WANT TO "BUY" YOUR WIFE, JUST DO YOURSELF A FAVOR AND BUY A HOOKER NOW AND AGAIN. YOU'LL GO THROUGH WAY LESS GRIEF.
2007-01-12 09:55:10 · answer #4 · answered by SPANKY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang, I'll marry you! Why have your past relationships ended? Do they all end for the same reason?
I think you should get drunk, go to a bar, bang a hot chick and then sleep on it before making any rash decisions.
2007-01-12 09:37:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Before you attempt something so drastic y not change the class/style/intelligence (o i could go on and on) with the people you spend time with. Try spending time in different circles. If you live up north, go south, yada yada yada you seem intelligent I am sure you get my point!
2007-01-12 09:37:27 · answer #6 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think a mail order bride is your best option. i guess my feelings behind that are that you shouldn't have to buy your wife, it should be something you both want. if you are interested in marrying a woman from another country, start traveling to get acquainted with other people and places and broaden your network of people. but please, no mail order brides, that is too desperate
2007-01-12 09:35:46 · answer #7 · answered by blyng1225 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think your main problem is that you really are not all that, even though you think so and American women see right through you.
Good luck
2007-01-12 09:35:53 · answer #8 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it just seem desperate, marriages probably last longer with mail order brides, so good luck
2007-01-12 09:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by shane892000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah...go ahead and marry someone who just wants you so that they can get to america...smart move hunny. Maybe you are just too picky.
2007-01-12 09:31:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋