Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

I just recently met someone n after a month he has found out he's very ill, He's getting blood test done to see if he's dying, The problem is I have feelings for him n want to stick by him but, I don't want to go thru the hurt of him getting worse, I pray to god he's going to get better, n he tells me not to worry about him. Its hard not to. What to do?

2007-01-12 09:44:05 · 8 answers · asked by annmo04 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ever left the club with a girl that looked like a model when you left but the next morning she looked like a vampire and you wanted to open all the blinds and let the sun in so she would just burn up... women the same question goes to you... i wanna hear about it... tell your story....

2007-01-12 09:43:18 · 28 answers · asked by Godson 3 in Singles & Dating

would you forget about the sibbling and give your self a chance to love, or officially reject them?

2007-01-12 09:43:04 · 5 answers · asked by kandy 2 in Singles & Dating

I thought i had a lot of friends, but now they go to the movies all the time, but NEVER invite me. They LOVE to tell me but never invite me. This has made me very upset, what do I do to make myself feel better till the weekend is over??

2007-01-12 09:42:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I was workong out in the gym, and afterwards one of my friends wanted to know if I would go somewhere with him (he never said where). I said sure why not. This dude took me to the public library. I just wanted to know would a female perfer to have a boyfriend/ husband that was more intellegent than muscular or more muscular than intellengent? Please explain why.

2007-01-12 09:42:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

kk...my GF and I have been goin out for nearly 2 months and at teh beginning we had some rough times cuz she said she wasnt fully over her ex (he cheated on her) n she told me that shes confused n doesnt know what to do cause she knows its not fair to me.....i told her she had to be ready to move on and she had to decide....she later said that she wanted to be with me and make our relationship work....her msn name yesterday was "I guess everything you said was a lie, I think about it, it brings tears to my eyes.....is this anything for me to get worried about? is she not over him yet? can i expect her to be over him..? Its been 5 months since they broke up..

2007-01-12 09:41:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here the deal... my ex wife is about to get evicted n has bben asking me for money so she can pay her rent. I have been paying her rent for a couple of months, but i don't see her ever coming back to me. I love her n all that but i really don't want to give her the money. I feel like crap but everytime that i tell her how exactly i feel she answers that she doesn'rt feel anything for me. She has dated a couple of guys already. her n me have a son together... Should i help her out or no, i would really like to hear sum opinions about this please, it's really stressing me out?

2007-01-12 09:41:07 · 21 answers · asked by 12 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Cause there are 4 guys in my class who act wierd around me I just wonder why they do that!!

2007-01-12 09:40:47 · 11 answers · asked by ILoveHimm. 2 in Friends

if u r not satisfied of your intimed life with your husband,what do u do?

2007-01-12 09:40:42 · 6 answers · asked by redcat 1 in Singles & Dating

it's been almost 3 weeks and everthing seem normal is it ok or should i wait longer ? can anything happen if i start now?

2007-01-12 09:40:13 · 10 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

MY fiance is going overseas soon. we live 1000 miles away. his dad was wondering if i wanted to move down to be closer to them. i live with my mom and my sister, but they don't really get it how big a deal it is for him to be deployed. i spent the summer with his fam, so it's not like they are strangers to me. Any advice?

2007-01-12 09:40:06 · 7 answers · asked by Starry Eyes 5 in Family

All I can say is he sd I love you, I need you, you can be to me what im looking for. Imagine the same person who said all this just dissappearing on you. Are men so afraid of fallin for me, wil they always bail when they realise im growing on them? It hurts so bad so, so bad.

2007-01-12 09:38:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 19 and have never dated what should I do?

2007-01-12 09:38:30 · 14 answers · asked by enano 4 in Singles & Dating

That my two ex friends changed their email address after they did this prank on me. They were emailing each other and forwarding each other's emails to me to get me to see the kinds of sh*t they were saying about me behind my back. Then one of them said that he never wrote that and she added some things...and then later he laughed at me on the phone...then I find out that they are both talking bad about me from my other ex friend. She said that she was visiting the whole time I was there and both of them were talking about me behind my back. He denied it. Then I get a strange call from someone else saying that she got a ecard from her but she denied sending it. So she assumed I did but I didn't. They both ended up changing their email which I found out through a school email sent to all of us with their names in quotes. I would email them but I figure they will let me know they changed their email and because I want answers to what has been going on. What should I do?

2007-01-12 09:38:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am a college student currently getting ready to graduate from college this spring. This story all starts out when I work for my parents in the summer in between college. We hire a lot of employees my age and below. There was this one girl that we hired a few years ago. She was younger than me by about four years than but we got along really well. She is probably going to be the valedictorian or salutatorian of her class as well as a top athlete at the local high school. She did this all while living in a single parent household with a practically deaf mother. She is a as mature as me and she doesn’t look her age. I never really saw anything in her other than a really cool person that I could BS with because when I first met her she was like 14 and I’m not a pedophile.

2007-01-12 09:38:06 · 6 answers · asked by DMan 2 in Singles & Dating

In about 3 weeks he will go to boot camp for 2 months, and we want to get married by the gov't before he starts his active duty, but I only have 2 months to plan it, and all the dates are tentative based on the Navy. I am considering something quick, easy, small, and cheap.. but what? Do you have any suggestions? I live in Cali if that helps.

2007-01-12 09:38:00 · 8 answers · asked by J~Steff 1 in Weddings

2007-01-12 09:38:00 · 6 answers · asked by Lindsay 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i really like n i think he likes me too(by his actions) he talks to me but it seems as thought he is as nervous as me n i really want to get something going btween us so what should i say or do to get him

2007-01-12 09:37:28 · 15 answers · asked by Bajan Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

my little girl loves balloons and there are constantly balloons at home. however, sometimes when she makes me angry I pop her balloon. my question is, do you thinks its bad to pop your children balloon even though my anger toward her is not necessarily related to the balloon ?

2007-01-12 09:37:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The stage you are at in your life are you happy? Do you want more??

2007-01-12 09:37:08 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family

He's the best Dad in the world. He doesn't smoke or drink, ever. She on the other hand does. She has a male friend who calls her 10 to 15 times a day, sometimes when she's spending time with her family. He is now doubtful of her, she says that she has never cheated and has stopped talking to her male friend due to her husbands request and to save her marriage. I want to give him support but I don't know what to tell him. Help!!

2007-01-12 09:36:57 · 19 answers · asked by Tyna 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been friends with this girl for a year and a half..but i've been liking her for a year and a half Just recently we went on our first date and at the end we kissed....7 days later i asked her out but she said she want to be friends but that just made me want to try harder to get her to feel what i feel but i feel like im wasting my time.....am i?

2007-01-12 09:36:42 · 13 answers · asked by Kuro 1 in Singles & Dating

Curious as to what your main reason was.

Mine always centered around me wanting a sexual experience with someone different and new.

I write a blog dedicated to this topic, Cheating on Your Girlfriend. If you are curious on how its done, read up:

http://360.yahoo.com/howtocheatonyourgirlfriend

2007-01-12 09:36:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone got a hold of a note that had an inside jk in it...the jk wasnt pg rated and made me come off as a bad person. people began to pass it around and about 4 popular kids read it before i took it. Do u think it will blow over, or is my social scene ruined? it wasnt supposed to be that way. plz advice

2007-01-12 09:36:31 · 6 answers · asked by actress_leadgirl 2 in Friends

Yeah, so.. this guy is kinda sorta my boyfriend, ya know.
we're ALWAYS together.
But hes always saying things like 'Hey wanna give me head'? and **** like that.
I try not to give in because then he wont respect me.
I really like him, aside from some of his perverse ways.
I dont want to move on.
Ive already talked to him.
I know that he wants more, is just uncomfortable doing so because of his 'male-ego'.
His kiss is fantastic, his touch is amazing, I dont want to give him up.
Help?

2007-01-12 09:36:06 · 3 answers · asked by Stephanie_ is_ bomb. 3 in Singles & Dating

WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT a guy who is buff and has nice abs etc. should he shave his abs/chest or just leave it
THANX ALOT

2007-01-12 09:35:35 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am totally obsessed with a girl, and I have been for the past 3 years! I did have short relationships in this time, but I just can't seem to settle for anyone else cause she is just so ******* attractive. It gets weaker when I don't see her almost every day (i.e. holidays), so those are the only times I have had "affairs" with other girls.
The problem is, she parties alot (not that much, but more than me) and she's really beautiful, so she obviously could have most guys. I am just average looking (check my pic), funny and all that stuff. I'm just not very dominant.
So, does anyone here think I should risk telling her I like her or flirt with her? She most likely knows I like her anyway, but I've been stupid in the past and I haven't been honest with girls.
I've learned to be honest now, but since I've known this girl for so long, I doubt she'd want me. She's not my friend or anything, I just know her.

2007-01-12 09:34:58 · 22 answers · asked by yaki 1 in Singles & Dating

and there gunna be taget shooting and i think im gonna feel left out i need advis !! thanx

2007-01-12 09:34:29 · 8 answers · asked by julia w 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 09:34:20 · 21 answers · asked by Blue-Eyed Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my aunt brings her 5 yr old daughter at my house every weekend and she dont pay me at all to babysit. if she does pay me its like 10 dollars for like all weekend..i like my freedom n dont like to be tied down with sum kid all weekend... and the kid talks like crap..she tells her mom every lil thing ppl do..i hate that..am i being selfish??? any advice will help

2007-01-12 09:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by bandi 2 in Family