im not ugly i heard from a lot of boys n gurls. but itz jus how i feel when i look in the mirror u kno.
im jus scared that if i approach a guy he will be lyke eww ur ugly u feel me
i jus want better self esteem
2007-01-12 10:10:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if u feel confident they will feel your vibe and want to talk to u but if u go up to them lookin shy u go get turned down
2007-01-12 10:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by lisa_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A low self esteem can create a life time of pain. You are obviously smart and if your friends say you’re attractive, then my bet is you’re a babe. Being attractive is far more then outside looks anyway. Confidence is gained by practice. Talk to guys…if they don’t respond the way you want, you have to learn to forget and move on to the next. The more you try, the more confident you’ll become, because there will be plenty out there that find you attractive.
I’ve seen some women that were soooo hot at first….then I get to know them and find them disgusting to look at. The old analogy that beauty is only skin deep, is so true, for true beauty goes to the bone.
Work on your inner beauty and the outside will follow.
Best of luck you hottie.
2007-01-12 10:22:43 · answer #2 · answered by last_of_the_romantic_men 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These two go completely hand in hand. You can't approach a guy if you have no self esteem, and you have no self esteem because you need it to be validated from other guys, who you can't approach. Hm.
First, honestly don't care if he thinks you're ugly. If he does, he's shallow and stupid, if other people don't think you are. But most of all, you have to KNOW you're attractive, regardless of what others say. Do something that makes you feel good about yourself - dance, workout, garden, draw, whatever - and you'll gain confidence. Then, you'll radiate that same confidence and inner beauty, that'll make you beautiful inside and out. Only then can you approach these guys.
2007-01-12 10:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to realize you are normal with the opinion of less than perfect. all women find fault with their own looks. They compare themselves to the 5 super models. And even they worry and use air brushed pictures Marlyn Monroe was a size 14. Men are not as attracted to looks as they are personality, mystery, and playfulness. These are all things you can do something about. Self esteem is the view you have from inside out.. As soon as you see yourself different so will others. To have a good friend be a good friend to receive compliments give them to others
2007-01-12 10:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Roger W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If guys think that you r ugly than that is There problem. You should know that everyone is beautiful in there own way! You should stop looking in the mirror and think that you are gorgeous. If you think that then you will start to feel that too! good luck!
2007-01-12 10:16:47 · answer #5 · answered by elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the mirror alone. Have you ever noticed some of the nicest guy's are with the worst looking women. It's not what is on the outside, it's inside that counts. If you feel good about yourself, you will portray it.
2007-01-12 10:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by blue2blnde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm well let me reassure you that looks arent everything and if you say you're not actually bad-looking then that's great news! just relax around guys, trust me people tend to think they are ugly themselves but don't judge other people that harshly. if you're pleasant company and hav a sense of humour and are relaxed in attitude and considerate n caring then guys will love 2 b around u n then u will develop the confidence to approach guys 2. thats the way forward trust me. i always thought 'geez im so ugly i'd hurt a guy's eyes' but then for awhile i jst thought i'd stop trying 2 impress every guy n treat them like i treat my girlfriends...then my confidence rose bcoz more guys were hanging around me. that's the way forward! best of luck sweetie!
2007-01-12 10:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by hollym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only person that can give you self-confidence is yourself. Try and challenge yourself with short & long-term goals that you know you have to put some effort into...Like running a mile without stopping, once you start doing stuff like that you really start believing in yourself
2007-01-12 10:19:23 · answer #8 · answered by buickbeast 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. you're rather enormously. i'm intense. And to those 2 significant rejections those adult men would desire to be loopy. you're appealing and that i guess you have a astonishing character too. Any guy who grew to become you down would desire to punch himself interior the face. Haha. yet yea. with a bit of luck maximum of those comments will grant help to enhance your self self assurance.
2016-10-19 21:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunately we can't give u self-esteem.. u have to build that w/in urself.. and 2nd, just cause one guy thinks ur ugly that doesn't mean that the next guy will.. if u allow them to judge ur looks then ur going to constantly criticize urself.. know who u are, know that ur satisfied w/ur self and when u get that confidence then ask him out...
2007-01-12 10:14:14 · answer #10 · answered by Queen D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you need to realize that if you think you are pretty that is all you need to know. Dont rely on someone to judge if you are or not. some days you can feel like crap and other day you feel great but its all up to you and not worring on guys and girls to do the thinking for you.
2007-01-12 10:14:07 · answer #11 · answered by allie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋