Family & Relationships - 11 January 2007

My boyfriend and I recently broke up and not because of anything that either of us did. Our parents don't get along and it was starting to cause problems and was going to cause more problems if the relationship continued. We both love each other and this is hard on both of us. He is handling it much better than I am. We are both adults and our parents shouldn't be a factor but there is nothing that can be done especially since he is very close with his parents. We have known each other for 10 years prior to dating. Is it a bad idea for us to remain friends? Another ex and I are great friends and he's married now and it worked out fine. We want to be together but we know it can't work out because neither family is going to accept it. What should I do in this situation?

2007-01-11 04:06:02 · 7 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Singles & Dating

I was with my boyfriend for about 10 months his family and I get along very well. He has a 5yr old daughter with another girl and his family hates her. But she was trying to tell me that she and him were sleeping together. I didnt believe her because we both confronted him together and he told me no in her face. Well come to find out that he got her pregnant. Yes, he was man enough to tell me but what should i do about this? Should I stay or should I go?

2007-01-11 04:05:16 · 20 answers · asked by Im a Survivor 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know this has to be one of the most asked ?'s on here, but I have to ask. I am married to a woman that was in some very crappy relationships before me. Everything was fine at first. Now it seems I can do nothing to make her happy. Like she always looks for a wrong in me. Our something to hang over my head. Will she ever stop doing this?

2007-01-11 04:05:05 · 21 answers · asked by scott29 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would I look good with dark brown or medium brown hair or would it look unnatural?

2007-01-11 04:04:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be with me he says "I don't know".
Does he think I am going to beg for him or should I just give him space right now?

I am scared of losing him.

2007-01-11 04:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the story:
My mother in laws husband asked me if he could go down on me, in exchange he would pay our electric bill while my husband was at work. I told my husband that he asked me, and he said to leave it alone. Well awhile later she told me that he was a convivted sexual predator, (which by the way has been around my children!) So I told her about what this sick man had asked me, and she thanked me for telling her, now she calls me at work asking me if I am seeing her husband, and pretty much harassing me about him. So Needless to say now I am THE SLUT, and she got back together with him. Was I in the wrong to say anything, or should I have kept my mouth shut, and what can I do to repair the damage with her or let it be as is? Thanks.

2007-01-11 04:03:16 · 14 answers · asked by onelittlecatfish 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 04:02:56 · 37 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me to be ok with it. He will go away for months at a time and then tell me it's a terrible mistake and that I'm his soul mate. Would you treat a soul mate like this? What is going on?

2007-01-11 04:01:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 04:01:28 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

- when you found that special someone
- marrige
- when you got caught in a room with the oppiste sex?

2007-01-11 04:01:02 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 04:00:55 · 15 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Family

2007-01-11 04:00:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 03:59:50 · 10 answers · asked by prem s 1 in Singles & Dating

ALL the house hold activities .shouldn 't their boyfriends or husband help them? i am pinky 17 yrs old .......................

2007-01-11 03:59:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girl friend is now jealous of her best friend even though I dont make contact with her. I had a 3some for my birthday unexpectely on my part but planed by my girlfriend and her best friend. Does her best friend like me ? or did she do it to try and turn out my girl and steal her? in any case the best friend and my girl are still friends and i lay low in the cut and pay it no mind. Why did they give me pleasures on my Birthday the both of them? what does this means.. Do the Friend like us both. or just me or my girl..?

2007-01-11 03:59:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-11 03:59:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my 16 yr old grandson says he is a mosha is that a bad thing or am i just being over protective because of what i have herd.

2007-01-11 03:56:59 · 14 answers · asked by keith b 3 in Family

2007-01-11 03:56:56 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have finally hit that point where we want to go ahead to the next level and do it. we set aside a date and we tryed it but it didn't work . yes i was in pain and yes i cried but we couldn't go through with it because it was too BIG for me. What should i do, i dont want him to be content with where we are???

2007-01-11 03:56:16 · 17 answers · asked by highschoolshorty 1 in Singles & Dating

I work with a married man that I have had an affair with in the past.We have stopped intimacy for three months. Most of the time he keeps it about work, but it is about things that he does not even need to talk to me about. His mood seems down and he has told me many times that he "wishes he had a choice" "that he wants something he can't have". But he has not backed off completely. He does not approach me about sex anymore, but there are times where he is more emotional and he says that it's good to hear my voice, or that I look so beautiful. I know that he wishes to have so much more with me...and not just sex. He has no kids, but he has had a hard life and his wife and her family provide him with stability. Plus he has been with her since he was 15 years old. But I don't think he is in love with her, just greatful, guilty, and comfortable. I believe he has fallen in love with me. He does not leave his wife, but he continues being the way he is with me. Any opinions? What can I do?

2007-01-11 03:55:39 · 15 answers · asked by lilly1982 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend has been in the U.S for seven years. He came here illegally with his parents when he was twelve years old. We been together for three years. He is now 20 years old and I am 18. I am a U.S. citizen. Where can we get married without them asking for proof that he is here legally?

2007-01-11 03:54:59 · 30 answers · asked by Boricua Love 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-11 03:54:55 · 14 answers · asked by .:{LyNdZ-aY Lo0}:. 2 in Friends

My friend & I have been mates for almost 10yrs now. We both over 25 years old and we always shared our secrets with each other. Lately she hasn't been keeping my secrets, secret. I'd tell her a private matter and she'd either a) approach the other party and confront them b) open her mouth and tell everyone. I've approached her immediately and told her that what i've told her was in confidence & she shrugs and says she didn't know that. Another occassion, she arranged a suprise for me but someone ruined the suprise. She asked me who told me & i said i'm not goin to tell her coz i didn't want her to approach that person for ruining the suprise. Finally she dragged it out of me and promised not to approach that person = then immediately opened her mouth.

ITs all very dissapointing for me and i don't know what to do - do i continue our friendship seeing there is no more trust?

What would you do or how would you handle the situation?

PS. I have told her how i feel

2007-01-11 03:52:31 · 8 answers · asked by angelface 1 in Friends

Please help me,i am in a lovely relationship with a lovely man and we have a wonderful little boy but my man has a girls number whom he wanted to pursue (before we met) and they occasionally text but am i being selfish as i dont see why he should have her number anymore and move on with his life with me.

2007-01-11 03:52:30 · 22 answers · asked by sarz 2 in Friends

Why is it like a double standard, meaning if a father runs away from his family he is just ordered child support, yet if a mother does this it may come down to her having to go to jail, the children being taken away, or her name plastered in the papers???? I really want serious input only.

2007-01-11 03:51:55 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Q 5 in Family

2007-01-11 03:51:03 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my Boyfriend went out while I was out of state I havent seen him yet Im going to see him next week. I know were going to kiss for the first time. How could I do this and make it the best?

2007-01-11 03:51:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-11 03:48:52 · 11 answers · asked by k®ì§ 2 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes our kids make us mad. When tehy are being punished, should we tell them we love them anyway and the thing will be over if he/she decides to change behavior?

2007-01-11 03:48:43 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance and I are getting hitched in a few months and we are looking for some creative ways to showcase our wedding flowers during the procession. Does anyone have any ideas? My wife was thinking of getting holders to put on the ends of the pews in the church, but I dont know. Thanks.

2007-01-11 03:48:40 · 4 answers · asked by Na Pomoč 3 in Weddings