2007-01-11 04:00:55 · 15 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Then you are in the majority - very few people were ever really planed - and there are times in most parents lives that wonder what it would have been like,how much better things might be "IF" this child or that child never was....And if you are one of the ones that was not only one of the above,but also not wanted 90% of the time since birth (by one or both parents ) then you are one of the eleate ! You have several choices you can give them every reason to beleave exactly that till the day they die....( I dont see much perpouse in this as it wastes your time and life and is of little amusement to you.) You can go on getting on.... you are here now and you are old enough to to realize you can pick your friends and you can pick your family but you cant pick your blood line - Concider if you will, the one GOOD thing they have done is to produce you - so find GOOD friends and people you admire and and keep good relationships with them - make them your family, these people can be your sounding board and you can go on in life to do and be what you want,have a careere, marry,kids...what ever you want..but do some positive stuff for YOU!!! There are lots of people out there who have delt with as much and more than you and I and have still done well and had good lives and been happy....you can too. As for your parents,well, all you can do is what you can do...(sounds hokey I know but it is true - think about it.) If they are lucky they will find there own reason for being happy. I am sorry that they felt you were of so little value - and that they cant see what special creature they made. Please understand that is there problem and as adults they must come to terms with it,not that it makes it any easer for you but you are obviously smart enought to find the wonder and happieness in life they did not.....now this message and many others will most likely not be enough to get you through all what awaits you, but you can also get some counseling to help as well... You are smart and with guidence will find the road you want to take......Good luck to you and take care.
please excuse my misspellings I am dyslexic and my spel check went down.
2007-01-11 04:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Liz H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt your parents think that way about you. There is probally some turmoil going on in your life right now and you feel mistreated by your parents but try and take a step back and look at the whole picture and think if you had a daughter what would you be doing in the same situation.
2007-01-11 04:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes all parents get moody about their children, it isn't that they wish you weren't born, maybe something else is going on and you aren't reading between the lines. Life isn't just black and white. Being an adult and having children is very complicated and quite honesty it isn't just about you. They love you, they were probably just having a difficult day and you just came in at the wrong time.
2007-01-11 04:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alexis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure your parents don't mean that, or said something they wish they could take back, I can't see how a mother ,after carrying them for 9 or so months could eversay or mean that ,we sometimes say things because kids can do or say somethings that make parents say thats not my child, but we don't mean it
2007-01-11 04:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not a whole lot you can do about it.. I mean lets face it your here! Try talking to them maybe you have just misunderstood something you heard or something they are doing is making you feel this way. If worse case senerio and it is true your best revenge is to live a happy and successful life. Show them they are WRONG!
2007-01-11 04:10:32 · answer #5 · answered by dumpllin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the heat of the moment people always say things like that, even parents.
if this is true and you feel you are neglected and being verbally abused then report them and you will be taken away and put somewhere else.
so the welfare people may put you all in counseling
2007-01-11 04:13:31 · answer #6 · answered by picture 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't do a thing..Just know that you are somone special to yourself first.Just because they wish you weren't born dosen't mean you weren't sopose to be.Your here and that is the most important part of this.Do somthing wonderful with your life and enjoy it.Life is to short to be trippin off of what you think your parents think of you.The most important of all is how you think of yourself.
2007-01-11 04:11:49 · answer #7 · answered by gblue52 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your parents don't really wish that, parents say stuff they don't mean because they just are at their wits end with u, and are so frustrated by what is going on. what to do? don't take it too seriously, they don't really mean it, what would u do or say if your so stressed out over a kid who they simply don't know what to do with.
2007-01-11 04:24:20 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that they are not capable of being responsible parents and they say things like that to you..Is it possible that you can live with a more positive relative...because that is verbal abuse what they are saying..If they are saying that to you...
2007-01-11 04:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by sistapoetry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you feel this is true. Go for counselling.
You were born . You have a purpose.
2007-01-11 04:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Roxy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋