I was with my boyfriend for about 10 months his family and I get along very well. He has a 5yr old daughter with another girl and his family hates her. But she was trying to tell me that she and him were sleeping together. I didnt believe her because we both confronted him together and he told me no in her face. Well come to find out that he got her pregnant. Yes, he was man enough to tell me but what should i do about this? Should I stay or should I go?
2007-01-11 04:05:16 · 20 answers · asked by Im a Survivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You wrote that you were with your boyfriend,for six Mos. and you knew he had a 5yr. old daughter with another woman, and that did not stop you in getting involved with him? To make matters worse, his Ex. girlfriend told you he still slept with her, and you both confronted him with it and he wasn't man enough to tell the truth he even lied in front of his Ex. Why I wonder do some girls think that they have the perfect man, at their side, and even though they suspect he is cheating on them they still have hope that they will change. A leopard do not change his spots, what made you think, he was going to be true to you and would always be faithful. As they say a cheater is always a cheater, Please leave this sorry excuse of a man, and thank God you did not have any kids with him. Sorry if I sound, kind of nasty but, it makes me so angry when this type of situation happens to somebody, because my Daughter went through a similar situation as yours.
2007-01-11 04:28:47 · answer #1 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE...you most likely will not be able to trust him and that will jeopardize your relationship anyways. Why would you want to be with someone like this? "Man enough to tell you?" I'm sorry but this does not make sense considering you would have found out anyway.
Do you want the rest of your life to be like this? It doesn't matter if the family likes you, there are a lot of families that probably would like you. Also, the family probably does not like the other girl because they are not together anymore.
Leave him! ANYONE can get a better man than that!
2007-01-11 12:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by SM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A child is no reason to stay in a relationship cause the child ends up hurt the most for selfish parents. You will alway rescent the fact that he cheated and enventually fight about it from time to time and the child is smart they will pick up on the attitudes. So run now and dont look back .. than when you get far enough hit his *** with child support.
2007-01-11 12:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say if you already have problems this serious after ten months things aren't looking good. What do you see between the two of you in ten years? Then again, some people need a lot of serious problems to try and "fix". You might be one of them. Good luck.
2007-01-11 12:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STAY, girl apparently hes going going through some stuff and needs some comforting thts when u come n so stay and help him out and i promise errthing will feel better and it will become clear
2007-01-11 12:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by geckog1212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go! He lied to you about sleeping with someone else.
Absolutely move on. There are many other guys out there who will treat you well and you won't have the opportunity to get to know them if you stay with that loser!
2007-01-11 12:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by DannyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait? he got his 5 yr old daughter pregnant? definitly leave him. thats a little weird, now if you mean he knocked up his ex. yes leave him. or not, it's your call if you really have no self respect i'd say stay with him and take whatever little crumb of affection he throws at you. you do understand that how men treat one woman is how we treat all women. if we leave another woman for you then chances are we can leave you for another women, it's just who we are. i love that you chicks don't beleive that because it means alot of sex for us.
2007-01-11 12:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by nightmare_gorilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm leave on good terms he already has another gf and new baby to deal with. In other words go..
2007-01-11 12:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by jeff7241 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stick around. You deserve better. If he's going going to lie about something that important and serious; who knows what else he may lie about. You don't need that extra baggage.
2007-01-11 12:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do how you feel , if you really truly deeply is in love with him than stay . But help him with his new baby.
2007-01-11 12:35:36 · answer #10 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋