My girl friend is now jealous of her best friend even though I dont make contact with her. I had a 3some for my birthday unexpectely on my part but planed by my girlfriend and her best friend. Does her best friend like me ? or did she do it to try and turn out my girl and steal her? in any case the best friend and my girl are still friends and i lay low in the cut and pay it no mind. Why did they give me pleasures on my Birthday the both of them? what does this means.. Do the Friend like us both. or just me or my girl..?
2007-01-11 03:59:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think that your girl feels a bit of insecurity maybe.. It is really hard to have someone else sharing the same bed as your partner , and trying to have a good time for the pleasure of it.
Either she felt comfortable to try it with you, maybe she felt that you will never ever forget this birthday again. And you will want to keep her because of her open mind and the fact that she is willing to go the extra miles with you.
It could be the best friend has the hots for you but ofcourse she cant tell that to your girl, beause of the fact they are best friends. So why not go with the win win win situation , where all of you get the best of eachother.
If your girl feels a bit wierd around her bestfriend now, i am sure she has something for you that she could see before but now she sees it.
So it is good that you stayed out of it, but ill let you know that this might be it. There wont be a second time to experience it, and she will fight her bestfriend. Girls do that for man, ( most do).
Your girl should have known this was a coming situation , threesome is always a mess, unless you dont know the third person, or none of you guys care for eachother except sex
2007-01-11 04:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by Hunnypox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you had what a lot of guys dream about a threesome. But then reality sets in. I always wanted to have one myself but I realize if I did do it, the girls would have to be people that I wasn't that close to. When you do it with a girlfriend or wife, and their friend or woman of their choosing it presents a lot of problems. Your girl make think you like the other girl better or the other girl may like your woman, and so forth and so on, you get the point! It's nice when it happens but the downside is if you're in love with one of the people then all the problems arise. I think you should talk to your girl and tell her that she's the only woman for you and make up like hell. If that doesn't work then I feel you may never save this relationship. So threesomes with girlfriends and wives are a big no-no in the future. It seems great but then you have all these problem afterwords. Communicate your problems and feeling with your lady if you truly love her. I think threesome can be wonderful as long as you're not romantically involved with either person, because jealousy, envy, and fear of losing a lover is not worth having one great experience.
2007-01-11 12:14:08 · answer #2 · answered by Vesdog! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would guess the friend wants to get your attention too and hopes she performs better so you want her instead. Perhaps your girlfriend and her best friend have always been jealous or competitive of eachother or else they are both very comfortable and attracted to you and didnt think about the long term effects that it could cause. How many guys have they done this threesome act with before you came into the picture? You can twist this situation up anyway you want, but its never gonna be the same between the three of you again.
2007-01-11 12:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by jessBcuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely the best friend doesn't care about you at all and could possibly even have a strong dislike for you. I have only know of girls doing it for their friend or out of curiosity but never because they are into the boyfriend.
If the best friend has had 3somes before, then she did it as a favor to her friend. If she has never had one, then she might have done it as a favor or she did it because she was curious. If it was the curious thing, chicks will almost only only do it with someone they dislike and a good friend. The reason they do it with guys they don't like is because we all know that the guy is most likely gonna act stupid afterwards and then they are gonna have to stop seeing him/ talking to him cuz it's gotten annoying.
You're girlfriend is probably jealous because of your attitude about it, not because her friend is digging you now.
My advice to you is shut up and appreciate it (silently)or you're going to turn into one of those guys that they just can't hang out with anymore.
2007-01-11 12:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anne 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Happy Birthday.
2007-01-11 12:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So your girlfriend set up a 3 way with her best friend as a birthday present to you and now she's angry and jealous because you enjoyed yourself. Is that what you're saying?
And people wonder why men go fishing.
2007-01-11 12:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if you all made a bit of a mistake.. i dont know what you gf friend is thinking but you have to make your gf understand that you are with her because byou want her and not her friend...
also tell her that she shouldn hav planned it if she was gonna be jealous about it.
2007-01-11 12:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by ciara_e2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She shouldn't be jealous if she helped plan it. Like you said, it was a surprise to you, right? There is no telling what the friend is thinking! Just let ur girl know that you have no interest in her.
2007-01-11 12:04:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mujer Bonita 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uh, I hope you had condoms. Good delay birthday gift, both pregnant. Child support forever
2007-01-11 12:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by Monet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with MR.C, if they want to do it just let them, I mean what's the harm? And if she is willing to have sex with you, then of course she likes you!
2007-01-11 12:06:42 · answer #10 · answered by grape street watt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋