Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

We broke up 2 mths. ago and i love him. We are tring to be friends but it is hard. I was the one who broke up with him, but i didn't see any other choice. We were fighting all the time and we were not seeing eye to eye on anything. One of the reasons is that i am following God and he is not. It is realy hard and i am wondering if i should just leave him alone or try to get through the hard times and have some kind of realonship with him?

2007-01-10 06:25:37 · 14 answers · asked by TIFFANY G 1 in Singles & Dating

He's 18 and I'm 14.We go at the same highschool.We are togerher about 2 and a half months.Well the frst month everything was OK but the second month he starded act weird so I asked him if he was cheating on me and he said no and he said that he really loves me(he was looking into my eyes).
The last time I saw him he told me that he will celebrate new year with his friends in another city and that was fine by me 'cause I was going to celebrate new year with my 2 best friends.
At the night of new year I had a great time with my friends and I called him on his mobile just to say -happy new year- He answered the phone and I congrat him so does he and he said that he would call me tomorow to go out.I said OK and hung up.But he didn't call,he didn't even send me a message.It's been 10 days since then and he is still not calling.What should I do?I love him so much...Is he cheating on me?

2007-01-10 06:25:32 · 21 answers · asked by ☆christina☆ 3 in Singles & Dating

jake is a gemini he has always flirted with me in the past and made a comment about us being together he is friends with my husband and we all used to hang out since we were teens and still do my husband knows about some of his flirting but always acted jealous of steve my husband and now he has a girlfriend that moved in with him and he still flirts alot with me a couple of times in front of her saying we can we have sex? she confronted me by asking if we had something well we never did and never will just friends but its starting to get annoying how can i get him to stop without sounding like a bit** and assure her he is just playing

2007-01-10 06:25:02 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-10 06:24:19 · 18 answers · asked by dhawansan 2 in Singles & Dating

Do u think it is dumb 2 have sex at the age of 13

2007-01-10 06:24:06 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What are your dreams and goals.. Meaning do you want to be married with children? Working, staying at home? Own a home etc. Have you achieved it yet?

2007-01-10 06:23:50 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is going steady w/ a mentally challenced man for 10 yrs.He is as good as gold to her, and she is still embarrased in public to be w/ him, and claims they lack virbal communication.She is over 50,and affaid she will be alone forever If she gives him up. Should I support her ,buy telling her to leave him and find a smarter man?

2007-01-10 06:23:41 · 2 answers · asked by sweeeetypie55 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i'm married and have two babies with this man and another one on the way. He was in the army while he was in bootcamp he told he didn't want to see or talk to this girl anymore cuz he didn't want to lose his family. well long time ago maybe like 1 year and 3months I found a e-mail that she sent to my husband say she wanted to be the step mother of my kids. and she has a kid of her own plus a bf. But now i still hate her and i don't want my husband to talk to her cuz she is just bad news well my hubby is now out of the army and here with us and eversince hes been here hes been talk ing to her and e-mail her. So I guess what i'am asking what would of you do if U seen ur hubby write this to a girl. Cuz what i'm thinking right now is leaving him and take the kids. or shuld I stay and see what happens. heres what i found today that he wrote her late last night. tell me what u think............Hey Baby Girl,
Just to let you knw I AM BACK IN TOWN!
call my cell phone and call when me when I can come over to your house.
I Wanna come over so bad.
Dont forget about OUR prmises that we made each other. ALL OF THEM. I cant wait to see
you again.
Thanks for the comments you left on my page. and your right. Bad *** boys do drive bad
*** toys. You can ride my bad *** ty all night long if yu ever let me cumm over. lol.
I Love you baby,



I MISS YOU .!
I LOVE YOU!

2007-01-10 06:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by sylvia b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been having problems for some time now. We don't share a bedroom, no sex, he ignores me alot, etc. On his lunch break today, he told me he loves me and asked if I still love him. I said yes (I do). He said that it seems I usually more upset with him then happy with him. I told him I just want to feel loved. He then asked, well, if we both want to feel loved who's going to take the first step? I pointed at him.
What should be my next step? Should I really let him take the first step or should I plan something too? I don't want to let an opportunity pass by. It's not often that he notices anything other than himself and his computer game, so to get an ounce of attention is a big step. What should I do?

2007-01-10 06:23:11 · 9 answers · asked by Wendy B 5 in Marriage & Divorce

When a teenager discovers he/she actually knows everything, why don't they move out and get a great place to live and job with a fabulous salary before their vast knowledge fades away and they revert back to being as ignorant as their parents?

2007-01-10 06:22:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My mother in law thinks it is my job to do all of the cleaning even though I have a job and all she does is play on the damn computer

2007-01-10 06:22:15 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Give me a few words to make my day so much better and exciting?

2007-01-10 06:21:56 · 29 answers · asked by sarah_frisk 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 19, and he's 25...yeah yeah, I know Im too young. Thats why I probably am so scared of it...Im not a commitment phobe or anything, but come on! He talks about ALL THE TIME! It makes me nervous! He talks about the future, not about getting married RIGHT NOW, although he does hint towards at least engagment. My mother was married 8 times and I dont even know anyone that hasnt been divorced at least once...even my friends who are the same age! Its crazy these days! Another thing...why is my bf so worried about marriage? I thought MOST guys are against it because THEY are scared of the idea. I feel like the "typical guy" in the relationship.

2007-01-10 06:21:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 06:21:01 · 42 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. Last night I called my guyfriend and I heard him pick up but he didn't answer it sound like he was fidgeting with the phone and heard him press a button and I kept saying hello. So I called backed and his phone rung 2x's and went to his vm. So I called him today while he was @ work. I asked him why he sent my call to vm. He said that he didn't and in some areas he don't get a signal. I told him when I called him the 1st he answered and I kept saying hello. The 2nd time it rung 2x's and went to your vm. He kept telling me that it was the area that he was working in and he wasnt getting good reception. Anyway he was at work so he said that'll he call me right back which he did. Well I asked him again and he said again that it was bad reception. I asked him why he's lying and he said he wasn't. So anyway he got frustrated with me and I was like I got to go bye. My thing is if he's telling the truth, why is he upset? Also, he knows about my past and I'm leary of what people tell.

2007-01-10 06:20:54 · 23 answers · asked by gloried 3 in Singles & Dating

The reason why I am asking is because Mine does, he does a lot actually, he shares equally in the cooking, cleaning, and raising of our boys. And my mother in law cant stand it.. she thinks that he should kick back and do nothing, because he works all day.. but I am a stay at home mom, and I consider that working all day too.. I mean I have the best job ever, but its still work. I want to know how many of your husbands share equally with the chores, and kids? and if you are a husband, do you? I think its good that my husband helps out, and I think its important for the kids to have such involvment from their father, plus they are both boys, so hopefully they will be the same when they are older and have kids.

2007-01-10 06:20:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how far into the relationship does all the cuddling and lovey dovey stuff die off any estimates will do

2007-01-10 06:19:48 · 25 answers · asked by tasha1b4u2b_beth 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 06:19:41 · 34 answers · asked by bird 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 06:19:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I are from different cultures, I am American and he is Albanian. We have been together for 4 years and we love each other, but I am not sure that love is enough when it involves other cultures, his is to marry an albanian girl. I told him I would stay with him, move to Europe, and everything, but maybe the cultural issues are bigger than us. And now that it has been so long I really want to have at least something planned for the future, he can't decide what he wants to do. He is not sure if he wants to live here, or move back to Europe. He says he wants to marry me sometimes, then other times he says that it will never happen because of the cultural issues. How do I know if he wants to marry me or not, and how can I make up his mind sooner, so I don't end up getting more hurt.

2007-01-10 06:18:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am just curious? I have been married for 15 years come this May 2007. I am constantly flirting with men. Sometimes consciously and sometimes clueless that I am doing it. I have watched other people, men and women alike flirting and I know they are coupled. So why do people do it and please don't tell me it is all about S-E-X. Why? Why? Why?

2007-01-10 06:18:29 · 17 answers · asked by Meesh 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My co-worker's sister is getting married in a few months, and I just received my bridal shower invitation in the mail. Here's my dilemma: I just put in my two-week notice. A great job opportunity fell into my lap and I couldn't pass it up. I know that she invited me prior to putting in my notice, but now I'm not sure what I have to do. The people that I work with are like a second family, but I feel a little weird attending the shower, much less the wedding, since I will no longer work here. What should I do?

2007-01-10 06:18:27 · 15 answers · asked by Koko Loco 2 in Weddings

My husband is a workoholic and I am feeling... left out. What should I do??

2007-01-10 06:18:03 · 15 answers · asked by Robin 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Rubbers suck - they take all the sensation away! Am I in the right here?

2007-01-10 06:18:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've recently fallen for this girl that I work with. I'm 25 and she's 24, so age isn't a problem. We talk for hours and joke around like we've known each other for centuries. I can feel like there is a deep rooted connection that I've never felt before with anybody. The only problem is that she has a boyfriend (me). What am I supposed to do? I love this girl but she is already dating. I don't even think she really likes that jerk.

2007-01-10 06:17:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mom says that I cant see him any more because he's hurt me one to many times. But I still love him with all of my heart.

2007-01-10 06:17:21 · 6 answers · asked by annadabanna 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two little boys. There father is in jail and last time I traveled with one of them, I had to get a sign notarized letter to get my son out of state. He wasn't in jail at that time, so I easily got it. But now he is, and might go out of state with both of my children. What do I do if he is in jail and I need a notarized letter again?Is it possible I could get full custody of them, so I won't have to go thru all that trouble?? We are not married, and we are no longer together. What is it that I have to do so I can get it, If it's possible?? Need someone's help Plz!!!

2007-01-10 06:16:36 · 10 answers · asked by babyangel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im not talking against all black men but the ones I dealt with.

2007-01-10 06:16:21 · 5 answers · asked by Da~thic~bac blak 1 1 in Singles & Dating

me & my hubby have been together for about 4 years and i recently strated having problemss at works o- i might be out of a job. He wants us to move in like in March- should i go for it and get like a whatever job for the meanltime? what should i do? i'm a single mom and this would affect my son too.

2007-01-10 06:16:13 · 5 answers · asked by Cheesy Stuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

after I have sex with hookers. Should I give her the benefit of the doubt?

2007-01-10 06:15:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce