Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

After more than 10 years of marraige my wife told me she had made out with another girl in highschool. Not that she would or wanted to do it agian just that she had. I would have never belived this about her in 100 years. It went against every thing I have ever know about her.

2007-01-10 05:48:37 · 18 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 05:48:07 · 28 answers · asked by me33 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my friends a lot, and a month ago my best friend annie thames was a victem of molestation. Our history teacher (mr. biggs) raped her, she told me not to tell anyone, but i need to. now she's pregnant. and she's havin the baby

2007-01-10 05:47:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

doesnt it feel like youll never find someone like that again, like they were to good to be true?

2007-01-10 05:47:21 · 27 answers · asked by Gucci_xoxo 2 in Singles & Dating

Here are some songs i was think about useing at my weding for the prelude music,precession,and the recreational. what do you think of each og them?

kenny chesney....you save me or fall in love
elvis presley.....the wonder of you
christina aguilera....i turn to you
rascel faltts.......i melt
aerosmith....angel
guns n' roses.....sweet child o' mine or Patience

2007-01-10 05:47:11 · 22 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

My past surveys has just been bout this guy,i dnt know what to do anymore..My co worker used to stare alot and we would greet eachother now & again,but 4rom this week he just completely ignores me flat out..He doesnt even look at me!Last week friday a guy friend came to visit me and his friend watched us the whole time,on monday ive noticed that they act like i dnt exist..Should i forget bout him?

2007-01-10 05:47:06 · 12 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

Whether they are married or not, men and women cheat. What causes them to do it if they are already in a relationship with somebody else?

2007-01-10 05:46:59 · 16 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 05:46:50 · 4 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 05:46:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if your wife cheated on you for a long time, and you got your chance to cheat one her, just to see how it feels, would it be considered cheating. Please analyze before answering, since even my pastor told me that right the moment she broke our vows we are not married under the eyes of God any more...and i'm just ASKING, not doing it.

2007-01-10 05:46:27 · 28 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been a relationship now for almost 7 years. We're not married but we do have a house together. We're at the point now where marriage is in the talks. But it seems when it comes to getting married, my gut is telling me to get out.

The only problem is... I can't find a reason too. My boyfriend and I have a great relationship together. We hardly ever argue, we get along great and he treats me very well.

When it comes to logic, I feel like I should stay. But no matter how much convincing I do to myself, it doesn't change that "gut" feeling I have.

Anyone else been in a similar situation?? Please, any advice?

2007-01-10 05:46:22 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're planning on moving together, but to MI. He lives there right now, I live in cali.

We've been together for 2 years, and all. I love him I do, and he says he loves me. But you know its hard to believe since its a long distance relationship, and words are just so hard for me to believe if their arent actions behind them.

A part of me wants to move with him, and the other part doesnt want to. Cause I feel like my life is already planned for me. If I do move, were moving to Michigan, and I'm going to be alone. No friends, no family no nothing, but him.

He's not the same person who uset to be when I first fell in lovwe with him. And right now we're not exactly together, cause he said he doesn't want the drama of a relationshop, and he just wants to party and whatnot. He's best friend with the girl he lost his virginity too, and that bothers me so much.

I dont know what to do. Either to stay and work it out and keep my head up, or to let go.

2007-01-10 05:45:52 · 27 answers · asked by Peni 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and the fiance had planned a lovely spring wedding but her mums interfering and audacity has led to me cancelling it, she was forever butting in, do this do that , no you should have this no you dont want that etc etc, but the boldest thing was last night i got a phone call to go round to her house "to discuss matters" well she only started going on about how i should make love to her daughter on our honeymoon, I dont want you being rough with her she said to me then told me to only do it in the missionary position, "not from behind" you dirty ol sod she added if she ever has an headache or just dont feel like it dont you force yourself, she added, i wouldnt anyway. I dont want you asking her to dress up in high heels and stockings either she added "though im gutted about that" she then went on to tell me to make sure she "O"s Then she said something about if i perform cunnilingus "whatever that is" to do it nice and gently. Is this woman fc uking sick or something?

2007-01-10 05:44:49 · 13 answers · asked by qcumber man 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in the process of suing somebody for a lot of money owed to me and have started getting hate sms's from somebody they know. Telling me how I am disliked and how dumb I am etc. Which I am not. The court case is a business I sold to this couple, and they absconded before making final payment, plus took a lot of fixed assets with them. They then went into hiding, but we found them, and they have been served with a summons. I received 8 of these messages today. Should I just hand it over to my lawyer, and what can be done to them. Its making me very nervous.

2007-01-10 05:44:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 05:44:13 · 8 answers · asked by tiffany_alicia_romero 1 in Singles & Dating

When I was 13 I met this girl. It was love at first sight, I could tell. She gave me alot of hints at the time and actually never gave up on me, but I never reacted because I was a coward. Still am.
One day I dreamt about her being killed by maffia. After that I never saw her again in real life till this day on. Also, the funny thing is, after I met her I've never seen a girl more beautiful than her. I just can't seem to find the right girl, because she was most likely the one. People tell me there's no such thing as 'the one'. But I know deep down inside of me that she definitely is. I feel it strongly. So how can I forget about her and try to like/love some other girl instead of her? Am I not fooling myself then? She had everything that made her attractive to me and with other girls I'm always missing something. Don't you think I'm fooling myself when I say to myself 'oh, wait. it's not that bad. she looks quite good after all.' I'm not saying others are ugly, she just had it all.

2007-01-10 05:44:13 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 05:43:44 · 5 answers · asked by prince 2 in Weddings

What are some good ideas or some tips that you can give me on a first date with a lady I met at a christian dating site. We have spoken on the phone, both want to meet, so what do you suggest I can do? In your experiences, what are some things to do, and things not to do?

2007-01-10 05:43:17 · 37 answers · asked by Light Bringer 3 in Singles & Dating

She's had at least one boyfriend b4 (she has a child) and I've never had a girlfriend (my first date ever was with her just after christmas). She gave me her # and said she was "checking me out" I was hesitant cuz this was all new to me. So I texted her with my concerns about her child and my inexperience, and she said that she'd be willing to take things slow and that she "likes me andwants to "be more than friends." We talk on the phone quite often (at least once a day sometimes long sometimes short). She sounds audibaly nervous taliking to me sometimes. We only went out the one time because one of us always seems to be working at night and I have school during the day (not to mention she has a kid to watch). What are some clues to see if she really likes me????? and advice for taking things slow but not too slow???

2007-01-10 05:42:52 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

im not married or divorced
but maybe yall can help me


my bf was giving me oral sex
and all of a sudden
all this water came out
it felt like i had peed
but it wasnt piss
i thought c um was suppose to be kinda goowe
not like water and it was a lot of it
is this normal???

would u like it if ur gf did that?

2007-01-10 05:42:48 · 14 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

he says that he's ready to messing with his baby mamma and be with my because she dont do **** so whats a girl to do

2007-01-10 05:42:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My b.f and I have been together for over a year and he tells me last night that he loves me and wants to be with me but he can not be intimate with me becasue is is just not physically attracted to me. Would you be able to be intimate with the one you loved even if their body wasn;t perfect?

2007-01-10 05:42:02 · 10 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex says she loves and always will, but she said she is not in love with me anymore, we where together for a year 3months, she said i smothered her for the last like 2 months and she couldnt handle it, at first i blamed her and said she was being stupid.. we broke up over 2 months ago, i soon did relise that it was my fault and i worked on myself and i am a better person now.. but she doesnt beleive me and she said she doesnt want to go back there again, she said she cares alot about me and isnt in love with me at the mo. she said she wants to be freinds... is it possible i can win her heart back, i told her if she only wants to be freinds thats ok, i respect her wishs, im trying to show her that i have changed, im not an insecure, jealous, overprotective guy anymore, im confident and open and happy with who i am... i miss her alot, i truely love her, im willing to let her go, cause thats what she wants, i need to know if theres a chance i can win her back? any1 have advice?

2007-01-10 05:41:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 05:41:44 · 11 answers · asked by tiffany_alicia_romero 1 in Singles & Dating

should i take it as a compliment or as an insult? I just smiled stupidly, but now i wonder...if it was meant as an offense or a compliment.

2007-01-10 05:41:00 · 9 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Friends

I am 33 years old, and just had a bit of a run in with my Mum. She is single, living on her own, and very young for her 60 years. We had a discussion about the fact that neither my brother (37) or myself listen to her when she is low. Is this normal, it is true, both my brother and myself find it so hard to hear her when she is low. And she says how she listens to us both all the time (which is true to an extent, altho my brother would deny this, he feels he has noone to talk to, so he is seeing a councillor)
I do find it really hard when she calls and her voice is low, and I really don't know what to say to her. We both also feel that she just doesn't help herself, we both feel she is quite a weak character, but this she would deny vehemently.
This is really hard to put into writing, but would just love to hear about the relationship between other people and their mums, and whether you can listen to her when she is depressed.........thanks for reading.....

2007-01-10 05:40:29 · 16 answers · asked by happyballerinagirl 2 in Family

2007-01-10 05:39:39 · 22 answers · asked by Jacks036 5 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i want a boyfriend because i can not be alone but how do i find a boyfriend with curl hair and dress nice and domican and with green eye how do i find someone to talk to because i feel alone and i need someone to be with

2007-01-10 05:39:08 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-10 05:38:42 · 2 answers · asked by sporty chick 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 05:38:15 · 5 answers · asked by ada 2 in Friends