doesnt it feel like youll never find someone like that again, like they were to good to be true?
2007-01-10 05:47:21 · 27 answers · asked by Gucci_xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can get distracted in doing many activities and going out!!
u`ll get over it,
time heals everything!!
2007-01-10 05:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by CHIKA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,suppose u are a very passionate flyer who got fired from an aviation firm.for some unfortunate reasons. So, how do u feel?
U, infact, feel the same way.
And u apply to join a new aviation firm and if u r selected for it with a better salary and perks, will u turn back the offer and keep thinking about ur service u've done in the 1st frim.
No!u concentrate urself and get motivated to succeed in this new firm.
So, if u r lost in love, u gotta keep finding.Its not that u'll never find.
If u lost ur mercedes in pink which is ur favourite color, and u can't find another one in pink, all we do is buy a new mercedes and get it painted to pink, don't we?
" WHERE THERE IS WILL, THERE IS A WAY!"
2007-01-10 06:00:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to get over heartbreak, but it's a part of life. Cherish the good memories you had with that person and have gratitude that you got to have that experience. Don't look for someone to take their place b/c everyone is unique and you will never find a close replica I don't think.
Time will ease your pain and heal your wounds so you can move on and enjoy life without that person. You have to grieve your loss similar as to how you would if that person died, unfortunately.
Best wishes to you. It will get better. Just don't close off your heart in the future (common happening after being hurt). Take care.
2007-01-10 05:52:56 · answer #3 · answered by Just Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worth more...if this fellow doesn't appreciate you for who you are then he's not worth you.
Time is the greatest healer. You will think back on these times when you are married with kids and wonder why you gave him a second thought since you found true happiness.
Try to distract yourself by keeping your mind and body busy. Go for a run, do some aerobics, got skating or hiking.
Take care.
2007-01-10 05:53:08 · answer #4 · answered by D N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to people who say "ICECREAM! CHOCOLATE! Sugar sugar sugar!"
The -last- thing that will make you feel better is making yourself feel fat and guilty.
The way I see it? Tell yourself, "That relationship was worth it. It's over because I found qualities I didn't like in him, but I also learned what kind of qualities he had that I liked. I want to look for those good qualities in someone else now, who doesn't have all the bad ones the boy before did. I, am now, a stronger, smarter, more mature and assured of myself woman."
Just love yourself! You're worth it.
2007-01-10 05:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We've all gone through it. It's not an easy thing to deal with. The best thing to do is rid yourself of it all. Focus on self, pamper yourself, do some self improvement and don't date for awhile. Get you together first. In time things will get easier. Have the attitude like, "you've had the best and didn't know what to do with it." Do for you girl and never look back.
2007-01-10 05:53:44 · answer #6 · answered by uneekqamar2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea it does. Kinda sux. I still haven't moved on from my ex-fiancee. She thought I cheated on her. I always had alot of female friends and she had alot of guy friends. Yet I was supposed to ditch my friends while she kept hers. I never gave in to this... and eventually she accused me of cheating. When I caught her out with another guy... after we just broke up she lied and said she was going to her grandmothers. I asked for another girls number and got it. When we got back together I confessed... thinking I love her and want her to know everything. HUGE MISTAKE. Now she is hates me... from that moment on. Convinced I cheated on her... it was an ugly break up. I still love her so much and literally my life fell apart. I am half the man I used to be... but half is still half full. Just keep pushing forward... hope and faith is how I cope. If she only knew the truth... I haven't even kissed another since we broke up... and she doesn't believe that either!
2007-01-10 05:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can some one that breaks up with you be to good to be true, you knew that he was and now you are standing there asking your self, OK what happened, you should have believed in your first instincts, the mind knows way before the heart, Take a real good lesson from this and listen to you inner voice next time you think too good to be true,
2007-01-10 05:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first it does and its just because you felt comfortable with that person and you liked the intimacy and closeness that you shared. You mope at first and think back to all the good times and then you pull yourself together and just have fun with friends. Don't rush into anything, take it one day at a time
2007-01-10 05:53:38 · answer #9 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a horrible feeling that it seems like you will never find anyone again and it's so painful. I find the best therapy is to try to do occupy yourself like reading or writing...
2007-01-10 05:51:58 · answer #10 · answered by pebblespunk2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does, but you get over it. You cry from the depths of your heart and when you dry your tears, you cut up or burn everything that will remind you of him/her and torture you everyday.
Then you go to the spa/salon and get yourself groomed, because in all this there is some good news... YOU'RE BACK ON THE MARKET!
2007-01-10 05:51:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋