Exactly how much does she like me??? (We're both 20)(my first girl EVER) and how to move slow but not too slo

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She's had at least one boyfriend b4 (she has a child) and I've never had a girlfriend (my first date ever was with her just after christmas). She gave me her # and said she was "checking me out" I was hesitant cuz this was all new to me. So I texted her with my concerns about her child and my inexperience, and she said that she'd be willing to take things slow and that she "likes me andwants to "be more than friends." We talk on the phone quite often (at least once a day sometimes long sometimes short). She sounds audibaly nervous taliking to me sometimes. We only went out the one time because one of us always seems to be working at night and I have school during the day (not to mention she has a kid to watch). What are some clues to see if she really likes me????? and advice for taking things slow but not too slow???

the kid is 8 months old, and he doesn't like people of the male persuasion (ignores all the guys at work, but loves the girls)

Answer 1

I understand that you are concerned with the fact that she has a kid. Well, this is what I suggest, I suggest that you become best friends with the kid. You need to make the kid like you and trust even if the kid is 1,2,3 or how ever old. If you befriend the child, you will most likely win her heart. now about taking things slow, it really all depends on what you consider slow to be. Don't sleep with her right away, give it plenty of time, show her some respect, and be willing to go out on dates with her and the child. This will show her that you are willing to accept her with everything that she has. It may be hard, but if you really like her that you need to like the child as well. And children always come first. Good luck