Family & Relationships - 10 January 2007

this year me and my ex dident get along to well, then we started talking, he calls me sometimes and he told me before that he likes me but says he doesent to amke me mad, then like a week ago he called talking about he met this girl and might go out with her cause there isent any good looking girls at our school! PAINFUL. and i told him he hurt me he said why, i told him cause his with someone he said im not with anyone yet, he said move on and find someone, and said im gonnna go, witch alot of people is telling me he was trying to make me jealous. its worked, he hurt me, nad now on the bus some boy is like do u like her, then i heard him say she was on my top 3 before i dated her, WHAT DOES THAT MEAN, on the phone last week he said he need someone responsable,respectable,peaceful,safe, witch he dident say it in that way he said i need some to give me that so im gonna go, but like yesterday he told this boy im wanting to sleep with him and 2 thumbs up, does he like me, what should i do

2007-01-10 06:35:04 · 1 answers · asked by Tonya Sizemore 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you seriouslly been in love with someone?

What's it like? They say it hurts right?!

Too bad cupid does not come around for everyone

2007-01-10 06:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Boys, do you preffer girls to act real slutty and wear such short skirts and really tight revealing tops, or do you go for the sweet innocent girl, whos funny & kind? Or maybe a bit of both???

2007-01-10 06:34:11 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do i wear my wedding dress at the party as there is only a select few invited to the wedding at gretna green, then all family and friends at the party the weekend after. help !

2007-01-10 06:33:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Me and my boyf have a real passionate relationship..well we did...and we also argue about silly things too. Last night we had a big argument (over text message) and he called me some really horrible names which hes never really done b4..so i called him some back. i also said in anger i dont want to be with someone like him anymore..also that his things are here

I dont even want to end it with him, but now hes acting real stubborn, sayin he doesnt wana talk about it, and how soon can he get his things from my house..hes avoiding my texes that say "can we work this out" and i told him i dont want to finish with him, and he says that its obvious that i do want to finish with him.

hes ignorin me right now, and i feel hurt cos i really like him but i cant get through to him. what should i do? i'm not gonna beg and hes avoiding the Q about workin it out as thought hes not ruling it out.
Hes also sorta possessive over me, & a month ago i wanted space and he refused 2 give me any.help!

2007-01-10 06:33:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you seriouslly been in love with someone?

2007-01-10 06:33:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He had no choice but to go to a strip club with his cousin cuz he didn't want to be the only boy at the house and that he didn't touch any of the strippers would you believe him?

2007-01-10 06:33:10 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an honors student, I'm in college, I am a hard worker and I could go on and on. All I want is a stable relationship. I have had my life mapped out since I was in the third grade and everything is going according to plan. All my stuff is in order, so what does it mean when my boyfriend tells me that I am "too structured?"

2007-01-10 06:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some questions to ask my boyfriend he's always starting a game of 20 questions and I can never think of any help me beat that rascal at his own game!!

2007-01-10 06:31:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a really good friend who is male, we shared a lot of the same interests and we both have children of the same age. On New Years Eve we decided to let the kids have a kids night, we were watching a movie while the kids played. All of a sudden he jumps up and says get your kids and get out. We left and I have not contacted him since, and he the same. I miss our friendship, not so much the benefits part, just my friend. What should i do?

2007-01-10 06:31:11 · 16 answers · asked by acresse1 1 in Friends

Me and my gal are together for quite a while now.
She knows i want her terribly and would like to explore her body and want to touch her B**Bs for quite a while now.

Once i told her about it and she refused back then.

Now, what should i do - I want to know her latest reactions now.

1]I dont ever try to touch her B**bs coz i think i shld not do anything without her consent, still shall i go ahead?
2]I dont even ask her as i know she will say no (My assumption - i am too sure), shall i still ask her (Will B too awkward 4 me now again asking)
3]But then as she is not allowing me by herself shall i try it myself without thinking much?

What will be the right approach between the THREE?

Please answer only frm the options i have on my mind !

2007-01-10 06:30:21 · 22 answers · asked by Noel 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure how I should approach them....
should I use a question?
a pick up line? well, unless it's a really good one..lol

thanks!

2007-01-10 06:30:04 · 12 answers · asked by -:-vInTaGe PaSsIon-:- 6 in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend and now he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I told him i wanted to get back with him and he said no since I decide to break up with him.I want to know y is it that he is not talking to me? and also how do i stop thinking about him?

2007-01-10 06:29:58 · 10 answers · asked by lanice_us 2 in Singles & Dating

how does peer pressure and family pressure effect a person to turn them into a criminal?

2007-01-10 06:29:37 · 7 answers · asked by amiejo 1 in Friends

i just can't get near or want near any lady since i split with my ex in last april,i've never had any problem pulling b4 but now i don't no wots wrong with me,i've pulled 6 or 7 times since but when i do nothing happens or i just act like a d**k towards them or act like i'm not intrested,i have been in 5 relationships in the past 4 years and have been hurt a few times with cheating is this the problem, that i can't trust???

2007-01-10 06:29:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can I be confident enought to say "No I've had enough." when I know better than what is going on?

2007-01-10 06:28:55 · 7 answers · asked by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for 4 months and i was just recently diagnosed with anxiety. I have feelings that I have fallen out of love with him and that is the last thing that I want. I want to be in love with him again and I dont know if i am convincing myself to be with him or I am convining myself that I am out of love with him. I still trust him, am attracted to him and still try and make him happy eg, cooking dinners, cleaning the house, doing his laundry while he is at work etc.....Would I still be doing this if I wasnt in love with him, how do you know you are not in love with someone anymore. He is the only one I want for the rest of my life and I dont know how to get that. I feel as ease when him and I talk about it cause he makes me feel comfortable with everything that is happening. Does anyone out there have any suggestions?

This is the first normal/drama-free relationship I have ever been in and the last one I want to be in too...

2007-01-10 06:28:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he's been talking about going to see that movie black christmas, which by the way looks ridiculous... but i don't care i just want to spend time with him. but i feel like if i ask him, i should pay. just wanted a cute way to ask to see him... even if we just stay home...

2007-01-10 06:28:47 · 3 answers · asked by Ango 1 in Singles & Dating

I have known my husband for 12 years and all of a sudden he has started smoking cigars. He doesn't do it at home, around me, or the kids. Am I overreacting? The thought of this makes me sick to my stomach.

2007-01-10 06:28:25 · 16 answers · asked by Blu 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-10 06:28:24 · 6 answers · asked by dat nigga byrd #22 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-10 06:28:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bestfriend smells sometimes. oneday I saw her and she smelt just like horse maneur. I told her that she needs to take a shower and she laughed it off. How can I explain to her without hurting her feelings that she reeks?

2007-01-10 06:27:55 · 6 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Friends

Mr. Johnson hasnt sat down in three days. Should I worry?

2007-01-10 06:27:55 · 9 answers · asked by BUM 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever hit a woman? If so, how does it make you feel? What finally put you over the edge to say "Okay, I'm going to hit her.."? Do you HONESTLY think she "made you do it?"

Serious answers... c'mon.. no one knows who you are on here.

2007-01-10 06:27:37 · 11 answers · asked by Nicky G 2 in Family

I mean, she can watch the game too, and it's not like I'm putting my pocorn and beer on her back while we do it - I always put them on the coffee table next to us instead, and if I spill any on her I always clean it up right away. What's wrong with her?

2007-01-10 06:27:23 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im really Curious about that!

2007-01-10 06:26:43 · 31 answers · asked by kutieangeleyez 1 in Singles & Dating

Been unemployed for too long - drained my savings accounts and just receive a chek every other week from unemployment doesn't cut my 1/2 of the bills. Got a lead on a job making a little more than unemployment gives me, BUT not close to what I was previously making, My fiance is all over me saying I need 2 or 3 total jobs cuz of the debt I am in - he's been paying everything for 3 months but asks every month what i can pay, which is usually nothing or $100.00 - did NOT get this job yet and seems not to be happy I want it for the salary amount --what to do?

2007-01-10 06:26:34 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i wanted 2 knw the answar of this................

2007-01-10 06:26:33 · 20 answers · asked by maheshwar 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a interest in men I though. I was chatting on the internet and stuff with men. Really got into it for about 4 or 5 months. Probibly stemming from a prodominantly gay fetish. But I just got back from my first 'date' I guess you would say with a man and realized I was totally wierded out and had no sexual desire to have sex with men at all. He was touching me and stuff and all I wanted to do was jump out of the car. He wants to meet with me on Friday to have sex with me like we planned on the internet but I feel more straight than I ever have. First off what do I do about telling the guy without hurting his feelings? Plus I like the guy in all but not in a sexual way. Second how do I tell my girlfriend that I had an actual date with a man?I felt nothing with him and really felt sketched out and creeped out when he touched me and stuff.I didn't do anything sexually with him but went along like touch his leg and stuff to not make it akward for him. I felt akward tho. lol. Im too nice

2007-01-10 06:26:15 · 8 answers · asked by Some Random Guy 3 in Singles & Dating

does this quote fit if u don't trust ur friends and enemies?. cause i hear that the meaning is don't keep the friends closer cause they will know ur weaknesses and use it against u and enemies don't want to b close to u b/c they don't like u. someone explain

2007-01-10 06:26:06 · 1 answers · asked by rko3943 3 in Friends