Have you seriouslly been in love with someone?
What's it like? They say it hurts right?!
Too bad cupid does not come around for everyone
2007-01-10 06:34:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been in lust and in like countless times..
I've been in love twice.
It's different for every person..Every person will describe it differently..
When I wake up, he's the first person I think of and when I go to sleep he's the last person I think of. My friends say I "glow" when I talk about him...My chest gets tight and my stomach flutters when I talk to him...Everytime I'm with him...everything makes sense..A connection deep and strong...unspoken...he makes me laugh and he makes me blush..-a lot- and he makes me think..he makes me want to be a better person..
He gives me hope for the future..and a million jumbled images of being wrapped up warm and safe ... it doesn't matter where I am..as long as he is there.
Things I never imagined being possible..I now know are...
You always hurt the ones you love..if it doesn't hurt..then the feelings aren't there..
The way I think about it is in relation to puzzle pieces..when you're searching for the "right" one...there are endless possibilities of puzzle pieces..but only the right piece is going to fit perfectly..some pieces need to be trimmed in order to fit..some are faded..and at first glance they look like the right piece..but they aren't...you jam some pieces into the puzzle trying to get them to fit..and they may finally fit..but they slip away just as easily..but when you find "the" piece...there is no jamming...it slips in easily...
All of this isn't to say that love isn't without risk..in my experience..it was when I had to face all of my fears...had to face the truth I kept hiding from myself and others..it was then that I knew what my soul had known all along...I was madly in love..but I was terrified..and we hurt each other very much in the process...we were both afraid and we ran from one another...but there's only so far you can run..so much fear before you realize that no amount of running changes love..I was skeptical that with that much pain and confusion and fear that we could make it work..you have to take it day by day..not take one moment for granted..you still have to "work" at it..
I also believe that love will happen for you too...I have faith that everything happens for a reason..You will find your hearts match.
Good luck.
2007-01-10 06:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, it's incredibly enjoyable if it's returned. For me, it was an overwhelming feeling of safety, like my life was set for good, like I could do anything in the world and someone would always be there backing me. It felt indescribably wonderful.
That is, until I found out my feelings weren't returned. That's when it started hurting. Eventually you fall out of love, although it may take a very long time (years, in my case), and then it's not so bad. Once you've been in love, though, a part of you will always ache to fall in love again.
They say it is better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all, but I'm not so sure that's true.
2007-01-10 06:49:59 · answer #2 · answered by Halley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. Sometimes it is hard to distinguish the difference between love and lust when you are younger. I once fell in love with someone and turns out we were better for each other apart, very crushing. I'm glad it happened that way because I met my true love my husband and we have 3 beautiful kids and act like we are still on our honeymoon. Only drawback of falling in love is you never forget them no matter how long ago it was. Love can be your biggest joy or your greatest sorrow. Don't rush to fall in love, let it find you. When you are truly in love you will know.
2007-01-10 07:27:42 · answer #3 · answered by dcforensics51 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation i replaced into. i theory it replaced into love, yet i ask your self how can a love happenes on the age of school. Anywayz , nt yet genuine love. If i fall in love then, its my first and final love......
2016-10-30 13:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by wolter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yeah.
it hurts but it hurts in a way that makes you feel ecstatic and depressed at the same time.
2007-01-10 06:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Gordonsnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been, once.. it can be the best thing that ever happened to you, it can also crush you.
2007-01-10 06:40:34 · answer #6 · answered by exodus64_1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think so
2007-01-10 06:42:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋